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I noticed that most married women ain't faithful....they cheat with there ex in the past, and mostly in their working place secretly








What's your views on this one nairalanders

1.some of them marry out of self pity witout truly luving the guy
2.some find it very hard to forget thier ex
3.some marry cos of pressure here and there witout actually waiting for what they want
4.getting pregnant for the wrong guy and family insist that she must marry the guy
5.when the sex drive is very high and the guy very low or he is too busy
6.any lady that luv money too much will.cheat except she marries a very rich man

na my view be this

some of them have it in their DNA

* Women are polygamous.
* Some men start tying wrapper and wearing oversize boxers.
* Their husbands don't service them well. Some men do wuruwuru sex. No pre-intimacy...etc.
* They are wicked and selfish.
* Young boys don't allow them rest.
* Lots of Nigerian men develop potbelly after sometime. She becomes less attracted to him. Women are visual beings too.
* Lots of Nigerian men neglect their wives. Look around you, too many absentee husbands. They prefer to go and sit at bar.
* Temptation.
Etc

In all, it's 85% the fault of the man...Nigerian men should take care of their wives well, so that side-bobos won't snatch her.

tosyne2much:
Please lets leave men out of this. Don't use double standard to justify why women should cheat on their husbands

Do you know what's double standard at all?

The double standard here, is you thinking a woman's cheating doesn't have justification like the man's own. They're both human, capable of falling to temptation (aka) adultery.

dsmooth1:
1.some of them marry out if self pity witout truly luving the guy
2.some find it very hard to forget thier ex
3.some marry cos of pressure here and there witout actually waiting for what they want
4.getting pregnant for the wrong guy and family insist that she must marry the guy
5.when the sex drive is very high and the guy very low or he is too busy
6.any lady that luv money too much will.cheat except she marries a very rich man

there is no excuse for a married woman to cheat.

What statistics are you using to draw this conclusion?

Women are not polygamous. We should learn how to speak for ourselves. Because few silly ones cheat on their husband doesn't mean all cheat.

If a man is jobless they'd nag but few weeks or a month out of town isn't a reason for any woman to cheat on her husband. He's doing the both of you a favour by pulling the necessary resources needed to run a home, and such men shouldn't be repaid with cheating.

I can never cheat on whoever I marry, I rather do you the favour of not marring you.

If he has a potbelly, you could help him do stuffs to deflate it. That's if there's love in the first place.

Whitemoney:
I noticed that most married women ain't faithful....they cheat with there ex in the past, and mostly in their working place secretly








What's your views on this one nairalanders

Ask their husbands. Most times they are the cause

You ate lying! Married Women don't cheat like that. Unless u have legit examples, don't even think of this slander!

Some Married women cheat as well as most married men....
no matter what, I don't think there's any genuine reason to cheat on your spouse.
The only reason why any man or woman will cheat on their spouse is because of lack of self control and having no value for the institution called marriage.

Just do yourself the favour of remaining unmarried if you know you won't be able to keep to your vows.

sisisioge:
You ae lying! Married Women don't cheat like that. Unless u have legit examples, don't even think of this slander!

Who tell you? They do o, though not up to one-fifth of their male counterparts. Any which way, it's the fault of the horseband

PaperLace:
Who tell you? They do o, though not up to one-fifth of their male counterparts. Any which way, it's the fault of the horseband

Well, for the tiny fraction that do, their horsebands are very wicked people. They are the real scums of this earth! Why won't they satisfy their women? Eediots!

Whew!

It takes a lot for a woman to cheat on her man. It takes an idiot to marry a woman with the tendency. He probably left a good woman for the tendency woman.

sisisioge:
You ate lying! Married Women don't cheat like that. Unless u have legit examples, don't even think of this slander!

Abeg go sit down. Who told you married women don't cheat? I know of two married women playing ''champions league'' in my area.

sisisioge:
You ate lying! Married Women don't cheat like that. Unless u have legit examples, don't even think of this slander!

Who told u that married women don't cheats ? Most married women do cheat, they do cheat on their husband with their pastor or Ex lover.

I agree with the op.
The ratio at which married men to women cheat is almost at par. The difference is secrecy.
Women are more coded and would most times or never, flaunt it unlike a man who sees cheating with other women as a quest to conquer or some sort of ego thing.

I have seen things sha. Hmmmmm!

Piercedclit:
I agree with the op.
The ratio at which married men to women cheat is almost at par. The difference is secrecy.
Women are more coded and would most times or never, flaunt it unlike a man who sees cheating with other women as a quest to conquer or some sort of ego thing.

I have seen things sha. Hmmmmm!

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PaperLace:
* Women are polygamous.
* Some men start tying wrapper and wearing oversize boxers.
* Their husbands don't service them well.
* They are wicked and selfish.
* Young boys don't allow them rest.
* Lots of Nigerian men develop potbelly after sometime. She becomes less attracted to him. Women are visual beings too.
* Lots of Nigerian men neglect their wives. Look around you, too many absentee husbands. They prefer to go and sit at bar.
* Temptation.
Etc

In all, it's 85% the fault of the man...

Lol i see what you did there.

PaperLace:
* Women are polygamous.
* Some men start tying wrapper and wearing oversize boxers.
* Their husbands don't service them well.
* They are wicked and selfish.
* Young boys don't allow them rest.
* Lots of Nigerian men develop potbelly after sometime. She becomes less attracted to him. Women are visual beings too.
* Lots of Nigerian men neglect their wives. Look around you, too many absentee husbands. They prefer to go and sit at bar.
* Temptation.
Etc

In all, it's 85% the fault of the man...

War!

This is nothing but wickedness in high places...

Just curious though


Are you related to @Pocohantas? cause it seems both of you drink from the same source...

Piercedclit:
I agree with the op.
The ratio at which married men to women cheat is almost at par. The difference is secrecy.
Women are more coded and would most times or never, flaunt it unlike a man who sees cheating with other women as a quest to conquer or some sort of ego thing.

I have seen things sha. Hmmmmm!

Hmmmnnn. Food for thought

It's in the DNA of some ladies to be promiscuous and not even marriage can change that. No matter how much you try to service them, lai lai e no go bellyful them.

Even the ones that cheat on their bfs will storm on this thread to bash cheating wives. # hypocrites#

Everything boils down to Ojukokoro sha

They cheat simply because u can't satisfy a woman












U CANNOT give a woman everything she needs. If God Himself gave them eyebrows but they shave & draw their own. Who are U?

ekems2017:
WHY DO MARRIED MEN CHEAT?

Just use d reasons stated by d first commentator except no.4 ( men don't get pregnant as far as I know)

WHY DO MARRIED MEN CHEAT?

men cheat because women let them

Hmmm..you need to take Okafor's Law of Congodynamics into consideration here. For the record, let me just state what the law states...

[b]Okafor's Law of Congodynamics
C 1 P = C ∞

It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C 1 ) , it can always be shined (C ∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times.(emphasis on properly). In other words, "....a woman once knacked, can be reknacked..."
Just like we say "water finds its level"
Which is not exactly how Achimedes narrated his contemplation, of all things floatation.
In scientific circles, opinion is divided as to whether it is actually a law or just a hypothesis. However, there is a large body of evidence to suggest that it is a law but there are others who think it is merely a hypothesis and does not take into account other variables such as M (marital status), O(opportunity) and F (Financial status) of either one or both of the parties.

In lay-mans term what the above jargons simply mean is that.
A hole once drilled, drilled properly even when closed up can always be found and can be drilled forever'
if u have been involved with a girl for a period of time and did a good job in and out of the bedroom (mostly in..), the belief is that u can always go to the girl at any given time and sleep with her again no matter what situation arises (breakups, different lover, etc[/b]..

dsmooth1:
1.some of them marry out of self pity witout truly luving the guy
2.some find it very hard to forget thier ex
3.some marry cos of pressure here and there witout actually waiting for what they want
4.getting pregnant for the wrong guy and family insist that she must marry the guy
5.when the sex drive is very high and the guy very low or he is too busy
6.any lady that luv money too much will.cheat except she marries a very rich man

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