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Your Ex Is Not Your Enemy. She Is Your Teacher by nusto: 8:50am On May 08, 2017 |
“It’s over!” Those are two words nobody wants to hear (especially when they come from someone who you love with all of your heart.) How do you respond when a relationship ends? If you’re like most people, your gut instinct might be to blame the other person. I can hear it now … “That ungrateful bitch! She didn’t appreciate what she had.” This isn’t a productive reaction because breakups happen for a reason. If you attack your former lover without performing any critical introspection, you’ll cheat yourself out of personal growth. Your ego doesn’t like to contemplate character flaws; but if you don’t confront them, you’ll never overcome them. Understand: I’m not suggesting you are 100% at fault. Any romantic relationship is a two-way street. That said, you cannot control the actions or behaviors of another person. Don’t even bother trying, because you’ll just set yourself up for frustration. You’re only responsible for your own development. Let your ex deal with their own junk (or not – either way, it’s their decision – not yours!). I’m not writing this article from an abstract point-of-view. In fact, I had a relationship come to an end recently. It wasn’t her fault and it wasn’t my fault. We both could have done things differently. However, it’s important for me to own my role in the demise of our relationship, so I want to share five critical errors I made. Please learn from my relationship mistakes so you don’t make the same ones! View Source: https://www.trendiee.com/life/ex-not-enemy-teacher/ Fact! it hurts when you were friends befire relationship and after relationship you become enemies |
Re: Your Ex Is Not Your Enemy. She Is Your Teacher by dingbang(m): 8:52am On May 08, 2017 |
Teacher ko... Witches aren't teachers... They are destiny killers... |
Re: Your Ex Is Not Your Enemy. She Is Your Teacher by SINZ: 8:56am On May 08, 2017 |
That's why I try to maintain a good relationship with all my teachers We keep taking classes every once in a while 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Ex Is Not Your Enemy. She Is Your Teacher by Nogodye(m): 9:06am On May 08, 2017 |
Yes o...Learn from your ex relationship to avoid another story that touch in your next relationship... |
Re: Your Ex Is Not Your Enemy. She Is Your Teacher by charijee(f): 9:15am On May 08, 2017 |
SINZ:
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Re: Your Ex Is Not Your Enemy. She Is Your Teacher by SINZ: 9:22am On May 08, 2017 |
charijee: 1 Like
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Re: Your Ex Is Not Your Enemy. She Is Your Teacher by Homers123(m): 9:29am On May 08, 2017 |
My way or the high way. |
Re: Your Ex Is Not Your Enemy. She Is Your Teacher by shinarlaura(f): 9:31am On May 08, 2017 |
dingbang: Hahahaha |
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