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I am confuse of who to choose. D first lady is in her ND2 and her dad said until she finish her Hnd bf anything lik marriage. Which we are still battling cos I'm ready to settle down. D second lady is in her final year and she's ready to settle down too. But I love the first lady more than d second. but I can't wait for another three years to settle down and can't marry someone I don't truly love. Pls guys I need advice.

bros am not here to tell u all those cinderella fairy tale lines like -'follow ur heart'. Na naija we dey.

First, since u cannot wait it is imperative u go 4 d second lady; u mentioned u dont love her too much-bro u gotta start loving her since u cant wait provided she z wife material.

Secondly, depending on ur age u might have to wait if u truly love her and she also reciprocates. Izz not wen d tym go reach she go talk say she has a boifrend or she no love u again coz as she still de skul a lot of things can happen.

Finally, since u cant wait and u dont really love d second lady u gotta drop both and find anoda preson u can fall in love with.

Datz all

YoungG18:
bros am not here to tell u all those cinderella fairy tale lines like -'follow ur heart'. Na naija we dey.

First, since u cannot wait it is imperative u go 4 d second lady; u mentioned u dont love her too much-bro u gotta start loving her since u cant wait provided she z wife material.

Secondly, depending on ur age u might have to wait if u truly love her and she also reciprocates. Izz not wen d tym go reach she go talk say she has a boifrend or she no love u again coz as she still de skul a lot of things can happen.

Finally, since u cant wait and u dont really love d second lady u gotta drop both and find anoda preson u can fall in love with.

Datz all

very great full for dis but I'm just kind of scared. I don't want d first lady to feel too bad dt I'm dropping her.

funarosho:
very great full for dis but I'm just kind of scared. I don't want d first lady to feel too bad dt I'm dropping her.

you can call her and talk to her. Make her understand ur reasons. She may understand that you didnt really have a choice

YoungG18:
you can call her and talk to her. Make her understand ur reasons. She may understand that you didnt really have a choice

Tnx bro