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JanuaryTempest:
Opposites attract

digitite:
very funny indeed

JanuaryTempest:
That's you? You're OK imo. I'm sure you can even pass off as handsome on some days.

digitite:
You seem to know me more than I know myself ... I like your assessment.... In fact, sometimes I dress and look very classic and other times I can look rugged being focused on my work and other things......

I would like to learn from you on how to make concrete decision and who to choose...

RaggedyAnn:
Truth is, in this life, not everyone is going to like you. Do you want a gorgeous or a 'not so gorgeous' mate? I'd say, be happy the ones who are giving you attention are the ones you find gorgeous and leave the rest for God to judge. And if you do want an average looking woman, don't shy away from the effort..........

JanuaryTempest:
Lol, can't help you with that. I'm of the belief that there're some things you just know in life e.g. choosing who to love, etc.

digitite:
So, it's not a feeling anymore but based on Reason ?

JanuaryTempest:
I believe it should be both. They say follow your heart but take your brain with you

digitite:
You are smart ....

JanuaryTempest:
Opposites attract

Ighoga898:
did u even read the post?

JanuaryTempest:
Yes. Did you?

digitite:
I don't dig for the gorgeous ones, they can be aloof to people in general. I want a lovely and social lady who loves to mingle with people. I like the 'not so gorgeous' mate. I am finding better time to reciprocate the attention being given to me by these ladies. Really, I am leaving it up to God to direct me.....

Ighoga898:
He said gorgeous girls always give him attention not otherwise.

JanuaryTempest:
You're the one missing the point here. He asked what could be the reason for their attraction to him as an average looking guy & my answer was, opposites attract. In fact they attract so much that an average guy like Jay Z ended up with Beyoncé. Beyoncé wouldn't be with Jay Z if it weren't for attraction, regardless of who came on to who. Do you now get what I was saying or should I use hand puppets to make it easier?

Ighoga898:
sorry for being d one dat didn't read it properly. On law of attraction, the reverse is the case for me.

JanuaryTempest:
Please explain.

JanuaryTempest:
Please explain.

Ighoga898:
on a second thought u re d one dat got the post wrong. so I was right the first time.
just go through the write up again.
As for u asking me to explain, the reverse is d case 4 me means dat opposites don't attract me. if I am handsome I will only b attracted to beautiful girls as well.

JanuaryTempest:
I didn't get the post wrong, you're simply trying to be right. Even if I did get it wrong, which I didn't, I don't think it's your place to correct me if the OP thought I got it right. So get over yourself, fast.

OK on the last part of your post. Different strokes for different folks.

JanuaryTempest:
I didn't get the post wrong, you're simply trying to be right. Even if I did get it wrong, which I didn't, I don't think it's your place to correct me if the OP thought I got it right. So get over yourself, fast.

OK on the last part of your post. Different strokes for different folks.

Ighoga898:
Below is an extraction from OP post.

'''Although, i believe all women are beautiful in one way or the other; actually, I have come to observe that the Gorgeous ones give me more attention and literally open up to me than the not so gorgeous ones '''
now tell me who's getting it wrong.

JanuaryTempest:
I don't care.

Ighoga898:
u re stubborn, and it's probably why reason I kept on quoting u.

JanuaryTempest:
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digitite:
Both of you make legitimate points. It could be either way. In the case of 'opposite attract'. She used a Jay-Z and Beyonce as an Analogy...

Now, Jay Z is not fine facially but has a good built and quite tall, so you could call him a Gee which is more average looking fellow.

In my own case, I am average in height with good built and facially presentable that some people mistake me for Hausa-Fulani with a pointed nose. Nonetheless, I am a Igbo and creamy Black.... Now Fair girls tend to trip.... for what reason, I don't know... But I am quite attracted to Dark and Brown female beauty... Though, Character is what makes you fall in love, and the Fair girls I have come across seems to be having the upper hand in that area...

Keep it peaceful friends...