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Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:01am On May 13, 2017 |
I met this awesome guy a month ago, we fell in love with each other and started dating. Later discovered he had a girlfriend somewhere and still loves her so much, I started nagging cos I let go of every other man in my life just to be with him and he wasn't willing to do same. Guess I nagged too much about it and now he wanna leave. I don't wanna lose him, haven't met anyone like him before. I've sent numerous messages and calls to apologise and promised to forget about the other lady but it seems he has made up his mind. Please what do I do ? Took me a long while to find him , don't want to lose him . I 'm 23 years old. |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by heykims(m): 7:04am On May 13, 2017 |
If it took u a long time to meet him, then it's a lie u let go a lot of men for him. He has a girlfriend and still fell in love with u, then u are a side chick because he loves his first girl more and has therefore refused to part with her. The truth is u want to snatch another woman's man. U shouldn't be the one opening the thread for advice but that first girl!! However life isn't fair, therefore try as much to win his heart setting a short time frame. If he still insists being with the girl after d time lapses, pls quit to limit d emotional torture.. . 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by 9jayes: 7:04am On May 13, 2017 |
I don't always leave any girl who gives me mouth action so soon. Next time u meet just suck his brain out of his dick thank me later 4 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:04am On May 13, 2017 |
Let him leave! He's a cheat & you're begging him? Are you serious! 12 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by marshalcarter: 7:06am On May 13, 2017 |
shey na only me dey think about the future |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Dotwillis1(m): 7:06am On May 13, 2017 |
honey don't tie your destiny with someone who doesn't worth it. You are still very young at 23, thank your stars he didn't keep you till 28 before you discover he has another gf.. Their is still more life to live, more people to meet, More heartbreak awaiting buh then more better men to meet (like me ) ... Be wise! Stop begging! ... Its bad to nag, buh you love him and had to react that way....move on, you don't know what other things he still gon do that will hurt you. .might not be easy to let go..buh you have to. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Biggcake: 7:07am On May 13, 2017 |
Just kneel down and pray... Pray for your own to come. If he is truly yours he wont subject you to fighting another girl out of his life. Lastly, dont fight for love. You could be killed by his girlfriend who sees you as an intruder. 1 Like |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:08am On May 13, 2017 |
Let him go, you force him, you'll be treated like trash 4 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:15am On May 13, 2017 |
SmellingAnus, what can u say abt it? Some men ooo...why they must have booboo in every hood ? Its very hard to find a loyal & loving bf these days... 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by DLondonboiy: 7:18am On May 13, 2017 |
That's life for you... You see this 23year old girl crying and chasing a guy that doesn't care about her. In her mind, he left cause she was always nagging, but that's really not the full story. He left cos he's done with her. But you would see another guy, who genuinely loves this 23year old, begging her and chasing her, but she no go "send" the guy..Funny world. Moral lesson: Who can tell me the moral lesson of this story?? Anybody? 18 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by greatnaija01: 7:18am On May 13, 2017 |
I guess you are financially dependent on him, its not just that he is so fantastically NICE... abeg no one will buy that lie. YOU NEED HIS MONEY and HE NEEDS YOUR LOVE. but he does not trust you totally with HIS LOVE. so you need to understand that if you help him break another girls heart now, in future some other girl will help him break your heart. KARMA is real.... learn from tonto dickeh you obviously do not think of the future, cos you just want to keep him when you are a tenant in his heart, the land lady owns the heart. This may be a bitter pill but it will CURE YOUR CLOUDY THOUGHTS. Loose Him and Let Him go. I wish you can learn to be independent... It is the most attractive quality in a lady. Destinyy22: 5 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by DLondonboiy: 7:19am On May 13, 2017 |
TrapQueen77: But m loyal and loving na |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Dotwillis1(m): 7:20am On May 13, 2017 |
TrapQueen77:it's not hard in this part of the world where I live |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:21am On May 13, 2017 |
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Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Splinz(m): 7:21am On May 13, 2017 |
Destinyy22:This is what you must do: Stop whining over cheats and serial liars. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:22am On May 13, 2017 |
heykims:Thanks but I don't think the other lady knows about me. I think I'll quit, I'm hurting myself already 3 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:23am On May 13, 2017 |
Dotwillis1: Aha...which part of the world u live? I wudnt mind sailing til i find that paradise |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by SirMichael1: 7:23am On May 13, 2017 |
No man likes an insecure woman around him. What you guys lacked in the relationship was trust. If he is gone, let him leave but try to work on that nagging insecure character. Its a big turn off to men and no matter how deeply in love he is, over time he's gonna come back to his senses and look for a way to leave. Guess he just did Don't focus your energy on bringing him back, instead use it to work on yourself. Let him go as he is done 3 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nickizoe(f): 7:25am On May 13, 2017 |
Better let that guy go before you become a punching bag 5 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:25am On May 13, 2017 |
9jayes:We haven't had sex. Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:27am On May 13, 2017 |
Dotwillis1: |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by 9jayes: 7:27am On May 13, 2017 |
Destinyy22:You need to sex him ASAP |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:29am On May 13, 2017 |
Bet9ja!!!!! |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:29am On May 13, 2017 |
You never had him, to begin with. You cannot lose something you never had. He loves his girlfriend and you were just a temporary distraction. Let him go,you'll find your love in time. You've got time. Just don't act all desperate over a man, you'll send him running the opposite direction. Move on, darling. Sorry about the tough love. 8 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by SirMichael1: 7:34am On May 13, 2017 |
9jayes: What nonsense! As if sex rejuvenates a relationship. You try to hold a man with sex, he has sex with you, pretends to be seriously in love with you and then bam! ...your friends are calling you from the other side telling you how they saw your man at a wedding marrying another woman. Youre heartbroken, you curse, you tell tales about how you gave him your body, your soul your spirit and what not Pussy doesn't keep a man. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by sainttwist1(m): 7:35am On May 13, 2017 |
DLondonboiy:Bro Jah bless you.....her subscription don finish she dey shout "nagging". 1 Like |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Dotwillis1(m): 7:36am On May 13, 2017 |
TrapQueen77:right in my abode |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by SmellingAnus(m): 7:41am On May 13, 2017 |
TrapQueen77:The Op probably left more serious guys to be with someone that already has a girlfriend and now she wants to still be with the guy wether he has another person or not... The op should be happy that the guy is leaving her so that she can focus on a more serious person... But just like many girls... They love what they probably can't have and ignore what they have .... Boo, her boyfriend is actually cheating on his main chick.... The Op knows that she is the side chick and she is willing to remain so which makes me wonder if the guy were to be a poor man, will she still be willing to be his side chick despite his attempt to leave her 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Dotwillis1(m): 7:41am On May 13, 2017 |
Destinyy22:You are welcome. Be sure you take to the advise |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by 9jayes: 7:41am On May 13, 2017 |
SirMichael1: sex pass sex broh, some styles can hold u down |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by smellingmenses: 7:47am On May 13, 2017 |
Hmm |
Re: Help, I'm About Losing My Man!!! by Nobody: 7:49am On May 13, 2017 |
greatnaija01:I'm not interested in his money. Haven't asked him for a dime since we started dating. I'm young n ambitious, want to make my own money too. 2 Likes |
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