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I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kapello8(m): 4:58am On Jun 15, 2019 |
Hello Guys, Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain. So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness.... This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat... I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship... I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel... She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty.... I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore. I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back.... I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls. When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call. She doesn’t wana even talk to me. The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted... Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her. Mods please move to front page. 42 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by funshint(m): 5:22am On Jun 15, 2019 |
At this moment stop all calls and messages. Also stop sending people to her; don't continue "bombing" her. You've done your best. She's still hurting for now....okay. Just give her time. A few days or even weeks. When her head finally settles down; she'll definitely contact you. Believe me it works! Thereafter take things slow, one step at a time. Takecare...winks! 543 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kapello8(m): 5:27am On Jun 15, 2019 |
funshint: Thanks a million 79 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by funshint(m): 5:35am On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:You're welcome bro. 33 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Poorboy: 6:33am On Jun 15, 2019 |
The more you call her or send people to her you're worsening the situation, so free her. If she doesn't come back don't beg. 175 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Olawrites: 11:04am On Jun 15, 2019 |
Op. Lesson learnt Don't blame her bro it's all your damb fault, because the way female folks reason differs from male folks. To her, you're a cheat and will do more of such when she get commited to you in marriage. They fear men that cheats alot. Never joke with such things again. Solution---- Relax. Don't call her. Don't text her. Don't send anyone to her. Look for ways go meet her yourself. Give her sometime to vex at you then go back uninvited and talk to her the way she'll listen. She's your girl and I believe you know her soft spot. Use it now. I pray she forgives you. And if she doesn't? Lesson learnt.... Move on,don't harm yourself there are billions of women alive. You can do without her with time. 194 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by joeeee240(m): 11:14am On Jun 15, 2019 |
You deserve anything you're getting bro. You didn't flirt for fun, you flirted to get some pûssy. You can lie to yourself but you can't lie to me. Who knows the guys she has turned down because of you only for you to call your fiancée your cousin. You fûck up Sha. Big Time! Anyways like my bros up there have rightly stated, give her time to cool off. Cc lalasticlala mynd44 please help this young man 176 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kapello8(m): 1:03pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Thanks Guys I know I messed up... Many thanks for the undiluted advice... God bless. 9 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by StarUp: 2:49pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
If she was meant to be yours, she will still forgive you and return but if she is not meant to be yours, forget it. 9 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 2:49pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Na una way... Sorry. Anyway, let me sit and observe hypocrisy in full display. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ReeLoaDead(m): 2:49pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
@OP: Seems a little harsh to get upset over a flirty chat ... unless there are some more details you have left out, like you have gone "digging" 10 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by myettiallah: 2:49pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Allow her some time bro...... Its like she is still young...when she becomes an evening newspaper she will start calling you 42 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by whytediamond(m): 2:49pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Chai 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Give are some time if she is yours she will accept your apology 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 2:50pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Serves you right, weep 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by jy2kbeyond(m): 2:50pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
I bet she won't want to lose you as well. Take the analogy of a hot water left unattended. E go later cold pass ice. Her anger will evaporate very soon. Just give her space and stop bothering her... She will come back to realize how much she's missed you. 16 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by tosinornottosin: 2:50pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Africa 35 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by cvibe2: 2:51pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Nothing new under the Sun...one goes, another comes...chikena! I bet if the tables were turned, and it was the lady that did the same flirting with guys, calling you her brother etc, you would have kicked her to the Kerb. She was smarter than you. She checked your phone first before you checked hers. 112 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 2:51pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
She should dump your ass. Before she takes you back you should get on your knees and offer her a remorseful apology, and most importantly turn a new leaf as you go forward. ibkayee:Yes, serves him right. 13 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Drfinn: 2:52pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
funshint: Guy, take this OP's advice. No further story. 13 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by GTFOH: 2:52pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee:( |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Chubhie: 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You learn to grow. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Houseofglam7(f): 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Never play with a good woman 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by pansophist(m): 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
I'm sorry for your loss mehn, you found an angel and you lost it. sad. In life, there are consequences, and an integral part of adulthood is a thorough understanding that you shall reap the reward, or pay the price of your actions or inactions. You've done your best, let her go, but be open that she might change her mind and come back. If she does, don't try it again. If she doesn't, don't try it again with the next one you shall meet. Better woman scarce, hope you find another better one. My condolence. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kenneth10110(m): 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Mtcheww woman wey plenty so she can't forgive you even if its worse. When you get married she wont forgive you when you offend her ?. Behave like you've moved on if she wants you still the 'strong head' will leave her and she will come back. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by iammiracle1(m): 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
sorry OP, ignore all those one's saying 'f*ck her, plenty fishes in the river,', truth is that as a man when you find a special woman who loves, cares and respects you in the midst of unspecial ones it hurts like mad to loose her and probably watch another smart Oga treat her like gold. It happened to my senior colleague, he was simply "having fun" with the other chics, but mama was broken and refused to trust him again, she moved on and never looked back, today she is married with kids and baba still views her updates in ghost mode thinking of what should have been , so if you think she is worth it try harder, if you think its to much work free her... 115 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Over flirting ? There's is more to this 1)either you are lying and did more than you are staTING OR 2)she never loved you or found someone better and used this to end 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by OtunbaChibok(m): 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
If truly she's been setting up a home with you, she will definitely come back... But if she doesn't come back to you, bro she too get option and probably using this as an excuse to move on... Bro don't contact her again, if she doesn't after 1 week.... Japa! 46 Likes 3 Shares |
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