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Guys, i need your candid advice... I mean lets talk this out. In recent times, ive been the victim when it comes to my so called relationships. I get dumped before i know for no justifiable reason.... Note.. Im cute, clean, working class, earning averagely, stay in a 2bedroom apartment just abt getting a car.
Now i fall in love quickly and ive been bitten thrice in recent times. I really wanna move from bieng nice to be a bad guy, sure player with no feelings at all. I wanna stop loving cos it makes no sense anymore rather it bring sore emotions and heartbreak at the end of the day. I realli wanna stop loving anyone...... [color=#006600][/color]How do i make this change guys.
Matured minds only, cos i wanna believe alot of us are in this shoe.
I was actually tinking abt early marriage until my last breakup.... U dnt wanna hear dat story. But ive changed my mind. I need to train my mind guys.... Lets talk..... Thanks

You're only trying to fight yourself if you do that. (Turning into a player)



You don't just jump into love like you jump into a keke napep. Don't force it Bro.


Na small small brokus take dey big.




One love.

players are naturally made bro....kp calm and love gals

You fall in love quickly sorry bro no hope for you.

CplusJason:
You're only trying to fight yourself if you do that. (Turning into a player)



You don't just jump into love like you jump into a keke napep. Don't force it Bro.


Na small small brokus take dey big.




One love.

Bro... Does it mean i cant train my mind... U dnt know how it feels to be victim

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only#42440289


Maybe this can help

SuperSuave:
can one really change? It solely depends on how strong your mind is sha

Ive been told one can... But i realli need to find out how... So the need for this thread.. I need solutions

Section8:
You fall in love quickly sorry bro no hope for you.

I agree with u broda.... Xperience has taught me

Arthurwinner:
players are naturally made bro....kp calm and love gals

U funny man... I dnt agree eith u thou... Bt never theless what i need is to make that change... U dig... Hv u ever been the victim?

Nogodye:
https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only#42440289


Maybe this can help

Thanks man... Lemme look thru... Whats ur take on this?

Erums:
I agree with u broda.... Xperience has taught me

You sound like someone who trusts easily that's the froblem

Erums:
Bro... Does it mean i cant train my mind... U dnt know how it feels to be victim

Train your mind for positive things Bro.




Does niggas forming "players" Have a special lady they cherish so much.

Erums:
U funny man... I dnt agree eith u thou... Bt never theless what i need is to make that change... U dig... Hv u ever been the victim?

very Lng ago...now I'm a straight up menace

Section8:
You sound like someone who trusts easily that's the froblem

Uvr just nailed me with a 6inch nail... I actually trust.. Bvos witot it i cudnt love.... Den dey strike

Erums:
Thanks man... Lemme look thru... Whats ur take on this?

Maybe you always been nice in every of your relationship i guess that's why you are where you are...You just need to wise up not turning into player...check the link and you will learn somethings

Arthurwinner:
very Lng ago...now I'm a straight up menace

Realli... Guy i really eanna be like u... How did u go abt it

CplusJason:
Train your mind for positive things Bro.

What u talking. Abt... I got alot of positivity goin on in me.... Besides if i may ask... Whats ur perception of whats positive my mind needs?

Nogodye:
Maybe you always been nice in every of your relationship i guess that's why you are where you are...You just need to wise up not turning into player...check the link and you will learn somethings

U read me too well... I will check out the link... These are what i mean... Thanks paddy... Where u located

Erums:
What u talking. Abt... I got alot of positivity goin on in me.... Besides if i may ask... Whats ur perception of whats positive my mind needs?

Please you can stop loving oh.


Dem nor dey beg shiit make e smell.




Good night sir.

Erums:
Uvr just nailed me with a 6inch nail... I actually trust.. Bvos witot it i cudnt love.... Den dey strike

Ya see!! Just take a look at ursef giving ursef problems, guy trust no girlfriend stay sharp to all antics and trust me you will know whether they are wasting ur time or not.

Lol.. I know the feel... I have been there... But the moment u kill your ability to love it is as good as committing suicide... Your ability to love is what makes u different .... But maybe you have been falling for the same kinda girls making it that you have been looking for love in the wrong circles... Stop falling for what u see... Look beyond the looks... That is most crucial... Men mistake lust for love... Its never about what u have or what u have achieved ... It is about what greatness she brings out in u and likewise the beauty u bring out in her...
Love goes way beyond having feelings... And once you fall in love it is not a roadside drainage u can easily climb out of... Once you're in my brother it can take u a life time to get out of it...
Being a playa gets boring afterwards... Take it from a retired one... Life gets boring without the companionship of someone u love... Love is beautiful.... Never give up on it... Its worth the hurt

CplusJason:
Please you can stop loving oh.


Dem nor dey beg shiit make e smell.




Good night sir.

Goodnight man.... I needed solutions nt ur critics

Erums:
Goodnight man.... I needed solutions nt ur critics

Critics


Lmfao, sorry about that Bro.


One love.

Section8:
Ya see!! Just take a look at ursef giving ursef problems, guy trust no girlfriend stay sharp to all antics and trust me you will know whether they are wasting ur time or not.

Solid words fron a wise man... For real bro... Wen i try to be real its wen we go apart... By then i wud hv trust, bt i wanna know if im using my time wisely.. I get struck...

I really got to stay sharp

It is easy to love but the real question is are you in love with someone who is worth the love you wanna give?? Is the person going to accept and love u back even more?? Or are they just going to play u.... Love isn't blind... She wears a ray ban shade and just pretends to be blind... Love the see well well... But it is always very quick to forgive and move past passed hurt.. If you give up because u failed a few times you would never know what successful feels like...

CplusJason:
Critics


Lmfao, sorry about that Bro.


One love.

U still my nigga anytine

krispycash:
Lol.. I know the feel... I have been there... But the moment u kill your ability to love it is as good as committing suicide... Your ability to love is what makes u different .... But maybe you have been falling for the same kinda girls making it that you have been looking for love in the wrong circles... Stop falling for what u see... Look beyond the looks... That is most crucial... Men mistake lust for love... Its never about what u have or what u have achieved ... It is about what greatness she brings out in u and likewise the beauty u bring out in her...
Love goes way beyond having feelings... And once you fall in love it is not a roadside drainage u can easily climb out of... Once you're in my brother it can take u a life time to get out of it...
Being a playa gets boring afterwards... Take it from a retired one... Life gets boring without the companionship of someone u love... Love is beautiful.... Never give up on it... Its worth the hurt

Krispycash..... Thanks alot for realky taking time to talk 2me abt this...
It hurts man.... I really didnt wanna give up until my last breakup...... I really was in love.. Bt i guess it was for the wrong person.... Yes.. She told a lil abt her past which really wasnt pleasant.. Bt i saw past it cos i wannted to support her thru.... Till she drastically returned to her past... Or better still i believe she never left... She just faked me..

Since ure retired....i cud call u sometime to get some advice frm u.... Cos dis thread cud realli be a big decision maker for mee.....

krispycash:
It is easy to love but the real question is are you in love with someone who is worth the love you wanna give?? Is the person going to accept and love u back even more?? Or are they just going to play u.... Love isn't blind... She wears a ray ban shade and just pretends to be blind... Love the see well well... But it is always very quick to forgive and move past passed hurt.. If you give up because u failed a few times you would never know what successful feels like...

This one touch me.... LORDKNOWS

Erums:
U read me too well... I will check out the link... These are what i mean... Thanks paddy... Where u located

Ekiti State and you?

Nogodye:
Ekiti State and you?

Ogun state... My man.... I hv bever been to ekiti thou.... Just osun nearby... So how u faring there

Erums:
Ogun state... My man.... I hv bever been to ekiti thou.... Just osun nearby... So how u faring there

Bless God bro...though just relocated to ekiti from Osun some couple of months ago