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mmuonso:
Bum bum is a fool, yeah forced marriages should not be accepted, but why wait till the weeding day, eeh kwa ?

Goldenheart:
redmud flattinos spotted....

GenBuhari:
In a sense it was also a blessing that he dodged a bullet. In fact I pity the lady at age 32 and with a reputation of cancelling weddings on wedding day, I suspect suitors have dried up.

Billyonaire:
Happiness.

A lot of people take it for granted. If you are happy, you are lucky, millions are super unhappy and they are just getting along in marriage.

This lady did great. Many married ladies today didn't love their grooms and still dont, and they cheat badly, and those who can not cheat are in a frustrated marriages and that is a major cause of broken homes. So you all see why I said this lady did great.

One man has been saved from a lifetime of depression by her sincerity.

Kondomatic:
She did date him a little.
Followed him to do blood test
Introduction
Marriage course
Plan the wedding and fix date
Print invitation cards and shared them to friends and families
Then changed her mind on their wedding day.



She should be sacrificed to any available god. That's if they will accept her

Goldenheart:
You need to arrange yourself before u enter marriage

Kondomatic:
She did date him a little.
Followed him to do blood test
Introduction
Marriage course
Plan the wedding and fix date
Print invitation cards and shared them to friends and families
Then changed her mind on their wedding day.



She should be sacrificed to any available god. That's if they will accept her

Kebreal92:
Its so unbecoming the rate of marginalization and victimization of our female gender in a typical African society.
Too bad it had to end that way. In as much as I pitied the groom. They should hv seen reasons with the lady.
Its her marriage and not theirs.

ShawttySoFyne:
No one should ever be forced into an unloving marriage

Cordis92:
It's really pathetic imaging what that young man went through after that day, but I pray he finds a woman who will love him and be his wife. Every disappointment is a blessing. The lady saved him from unhappy marriage or future divorce.

Lesson to people who like recommended marriage, please ask the person if he or she really loves you and is ready to take the walk with you. Ask well o

I won't judge the lady. She is old enough to know what she wants. I pray God helps her in her life journey.

Decryptor:
You just said it all!

CONCLUSION: The Bunmi did not want the marriage probably because the guy was not loaded enough...

The guy was just marrying her because of her bum-bum.

MORAL: That is what most af**nja marriages are made of. Just ikebe and owambe thinz then the man turns into a demon and the woman an olosho. No love attached. Before you say jack Robinson, they find themselves in Ikeja Magistrate [/b]Court.

Well, itz none of my business

[b]Yoruba couples practically keep that court busy with some of the weirdest cases i have heard.
Without them, the court employees would lose over 80% of their workload.
Yoruba marriages are a wonder.
They know how to have fun during the wedding though, i will give them that. I love attending their weddings

hush15:
While I believe anybody shouldn't be forced into any marriage, I still believe it's wrong what she did. This only happens when you don't know what you want cos it didn't have to get to the wedding day before you cancelled.a day before would still be perfect, not when everyone is already at the wedding and you decided not to show up. It's a very embarrassing position. She thought of herself alone but not the guy who believed he was about have a wife. It's a very devastating position for the guy. The humiliation is deep.

[b]Anyway, after all said and done, it's come and gone and I pray when she is ready, it won't be one good for nothing fella she will now be tripping for and that one will now abuse her and we will begin to hear men are wicked stories because many ladies don't understand that when it comes to marriage, it takes more than love. It's not a factor but a result of marriage.
If you can agreed to date the guy, then you can grow to love the guy.

[/b]Well for the guy if he gets to read this, like Iyanya rightly sang, wetin be your own be your own and if it is not your own, just leave it alone. Don't be upset, just move on and try to love the next person better. It best that way cos if you had married her, who knows you might be provoked to the extent you can kill her sef but ,God saved you from big trauma

Billyonaire:
Happiness.

A lot of people take it for granted. If you are happy, you are lucky, millions are super unhappy and they are just getting along in marriage.

This lady did great. Many married ladies today didn't love their grooms and still dont, and they cheat badly, and those who can not cheat are in a frustrated marriages and that is a major cause of broken homes. So you all see why I said this lady did great.

One man has been saved from a lifetime of depression by her sincerity.

omowumeee:
she should have gone through with it and get a divorce later.. not cancel on wedding day! The marriage might even turn out to be wonderful.. Many couples started happy.. where are they now?

Fkforyou:
And she decided to bring it on Twitter to seek public sympathy since she couldn't get it from her family.

She is just looking for that one person to tell her what she did was right and not the truth.

Well, her Dads anger is justified to some extent, I just hope he gets over it Sha.

Perhaps, she didn't say anything wether she tried reaching out to the abandoned groom to seek his forgiveness

It seems she isn't so sorry for her actions

omowumeee:
she should have gone through with it and get a divorce later.. not cancel on wedding day! The marriage might even turn out to be wonderful.. Many couples started happy.. where are they now?