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| Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by Nobody: 11:35am On May 16, 2017 |
In every relationship, there comes a time when it seems like what you're offering isn't enough. Take for example,a guy who has no sustainble source of income,and all he offers is his time. Overtime ,she feels he doesn't do enough,and there exists some sort of subtle resentment towards him. There comes a time when every lady needs resources other than sex to solve her problems. She sees how other guys are capable of solving problems for themselves,family and friends cos they have the resources,while you wait for yours to be solved some how. There comes a time when a lady thinks her man isn't growing. She becomes skeptical about their future together ,she starts harboring doubts,she changes. Thus the question , Does there exist any such lady capable of loving unconditionally even in the midst of societal hardship? If there are no such ladies then, would it be right for a guy to love unconditionally when he's made? CC Billyonaire Freespirit |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by Prec1ous(m): 11:57am On May 16, 2017 |
Nothing like unconditional love. There is always a magnetic and attracting factor. Lose that factor, lose the love! |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by Nobody: 12:19pm On May 16, 2017 |
Nice reply Prec1ous: |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by Nobody: 12:19pm On May 16, 2017 |
illuminated93:Loving unconditionally is what is expected of you on your journeys through the Cosmos in a quest for perfection of self and universe, but not your Soul Mission (Life Purpose). In order to be loved unconditionally, you must first of all, love your own self unconditionally, for you are complete alone, and need no other to complete you. It is the longing to be loved and accepted unconditionally by others, that amplifies a mental discordance, an indication that you have not loved yourself enough, and you seek another to allocate some love to you in order to complete you. This is not how man was designed to function. Man MUST love himself unconditionally, Woman MUST love herself unconditionally. But then comes the next aspect of Humans. A man is naturally designed to be a GIVER and women are RECEIVERS. When you know this truth, you will also understand why your female partner behaves the way she does, for women are powerfully intuitive gender of the Earthbound human species. They think for themselves, they are naturally selfish, they are RECEIVERS yes all women are naturally designed to be receivers. You give them sperm, they produce you a baby, you give them a house, they give you a home, you give give them happiness, they produce joy, give them madness they produce mayhem. Give them a fight, they produce a war. Learn this truth, cos men are GIVERS, naturally designed to give and selfless. Now, since women are receivers and all Humans are designed to love unconditionally, women have learnt to love themselves and in order to get all they want to keep themselves loved, they want your love and they want your resources to provide themselves that love. I do not think any wise man will be sadden by the flirtatious nature of women, even their wives in their times of financial wreckage. It is in the nature of a woman to receive. What should a man do ? You must admit that 'shoe get size'. You must realize that Love can be projected at any lady that meets your dream woman. That you are not designed for a particular woman. Soul mates are souls vibrating on certain frequencies, so every Human on that consciousness seem to function on same level of life and love. So, find that girl that takes your breath away, but make sure she belongs to a class of humans who are on your financial level. For if you fall in love with a lady who needs to show up on instagram and facebook, then you will face distress. Women have mastered the art of con using the instrumentation of love. When you fall in love, you give unconditionally. If you do not have their 'enough' to give her, it is in her nature to move on. There is a limit to what she can take, except she has a source of supply, may be a job or business that fulfills her desires as a replacement of her expectation from you. Unconditional love, is an expectation from you on your journey through life, but not your soul mission. Follow your soul mission, and those ladies who flow on your conscious vibration as souls will gravitate towards you. Know that heart breaks are real, but when you have mastered your mind, you will know that you are not your mind. Expand your consciousness outside the level of your mind and be the observer. Catch your mind in action and stop the pain. Even King Solomon didnt know these truth. You can not find completion outside of yourself, Love yourself unconditionally, and those who love themselves unconditionally will gravitate towards you, and there lies true happiness. Read this message twice, it is then you will know the real meaning. These are my words. |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by lexaydfg(m): 2:11pm On May 16, 2017 |
[quote author=Billyonaire post=56572097][/quote]Please, I have a question that has been on my mind for years. *How can I discover my life mission? * How do I know this is my life mission? That is, if I have discovered it. |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by MrMystrO(m): 2:37pm On May 16, 2017 |
Billyonaire:Wise words coming from the wise one Himself!! Great post billy. |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by Nobody: 2:46pm On May 16, 2017 |
lexaydfg:You are constantly drawn to your purpose and all other things seem to draw you away from it. That, which seems as if all others things are taking you from. You almost always want to be on it, yet every other things drag you from it, yet it remains your most sincere passionate thing to do. For some, their passion is in their talent, yet they almost always find obstacles on the part of that. You alone will know this. On that, you feel no compulsion to leave even though it does not bring cash money. Integrating that into your path of enterprise brings ultimate joy, and the Cosmic Universe will provide all that is needed to fulfil that purpose. Do not ask the universe, cos you already know. On that path, if you focus on, it will make you comfortable in life and nothing else matters. Monetizing your mission in life brings one up to wealth, and it comes easy. Cos the Universe obeys your every command to fulfill that, which you came for. No one is ever happy in this life, or in the next if you do not fulfil that purpose. |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by Nobody: 4:39pm On May 16, 2017 |
Some can love unconditionally, some love with conditions. |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by Nobody: 6:00pm On May 16, 2017*. Modified: 6:17pm On May 16, 2017 |
Billy, teach us how to love ourselves unconditionally,and how do we master our mind? Billyonaire: |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by lexaydfg(m): 12:33am On May 17, 2017 |
Billyonaire:Thanks for the swift reply. I would like if you can expantiate more on the topic *DISCOVERING YOUR LIFE MISSION/PURPOSE* because there are many of us out there that dont know what our purpose on this earth is, there are some that know and because of the challenges of life they have chosen to settle for what life offers them, there are some that are lost and are just existing etc. I believe we are in this planet to solve a problem which is our life mission but we have to first and foremost discover what that mission is or that problem is before proferring solutions to them, and we need a form of guidance like parents, teachers, mentors, elders, pastors, Imam etc. My point is, I noticed you are vast in some many things, please I will like to you open a thread and discuss widely on this topic. Thanks |
| Re: Is It Possible To Love Unconditionally? by Nobody: 7:13am On May 17, 2017 |
lexaydfg:Thanks, I will try my best to always be here for you guys who are too busy to even think of why you were born. Listen, it is not supposed to be nature bumping you into one obstacle here and there before you identify your life mission. Nature only does that because you people have refused to think. It is laziness to think that make people run around as slaves of stomach and coins without a time to think of the reason they decided to come here. One is not supposed to go through so much difficulties before thinking of life and seek to know the purpose of Mission Earth. If parents will just watch their kids grow and teach them abilities to read and write, then kids will figure out the right questions to ask and know their purpose before age 7. And they will pursue that mission from early ages and master it by adulthood and utilize the experience to further the journey to perfection of the universe and all. I hope I find time to be here to keep reminding you guys. My schedules are getting tighter and I hope I can find time to work on that thread that will make everyone who is directed to the thread of stumbles on it to indentify why Mission Earth was activated and what the Goal of Life is. Once you know your Mission and the Goal of Life in the Universe, then one can work with the laws of nature to further those goals while becoming the greatest version of self. |
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