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Don't you have other relatives you can move in with? Hope you are going to school to better yourself, so you can be bigger than the problems you're facing.

Move out of the house as you've been advised so far. If you can't afford a place of your own, is there any relative or family friend around that you can stay with?
Your father should talk to one of his relatives or your mum's relatives for you to stay with for sometime till things cool down a bit

Freewoman:
What are you saying sister, i know that boy very well, he used to smoke indian hemp all the time, your good advise will not make sense to him, Don't you read where he said that he don't have money to move out to live in another area, he is a drug addicts, he used to quarrel his parents every time, don't pity him, the mothers brothers are waiting on him when he will beat his mother been their sister, they will teach him how to play night masquerade and he knows it very well

Seun, abeg, this comment gives me a headache. Yet, that's one among many. Kindly do not mention me if you are not ready to improve.

I refuse to empathise with you. From all you've written any sane person could deduce that you don't have regard for your mother. Perhaps, your stubborness is the reason she has turned mean towards you. So if she swept the house and heaped dirt on one side as her child what do you do?, you wait until she's ready to sweep it off. Let's hear your mum's side of the story.

How could people be leaving with dirt for a month?.

Even though this may seem irrelevant to the topic, how does brains equals character? You can be intelligent and still have an awful character just makes you the more dangerous.

Well I dont know your mama, so I hope you find an amicable resolve.

I agree with you. Not everyone who has a uterus should be a mother. Some are not capable of loving their own children. A book called " A child called it" is based on a true story, it's about a child who grew up with a mother who absolutely despised him. He found healing by sharing with others in similar situations as him. No one should judge you, we did not walk in your shoes.

kimbra:
I refuse to empathise with you. From all you've written any sane person could deduce that you don't have regard for your mother. Perhaps, your stubborness is the reason she has turned mean towards you. So if she swept the house and heaped dirt on one side as her child what do you do?, you wait until she's ready to sweep it off. Let's hear your mum's side of the story.

How could people be leaving with dirt for a month?.

Disagree but don't judge.

Raine80:
Disagree but don't judge.

I could only disagree from what I deduced from his write-up. So I don't know how that is judging.

Op i can relate to this,i will say the major factor of this abuse is the fact that you are still under her roof....once you move out completely, some level of respect starts to crawl in...

She feels afterall you are still under her,eating her food so she calls the shot and still sees you as that little boy she gave birth to years back. She doesn't wanna acknowledge/respect the fact that you are now a grown man/an adult.

You just need to get your space first...she will eventually come through.

Weak

kimbra:
I could only disagree from what I deduced from his write-up. So I don't know how that is judging.

Didnt even read it ..
Wetin u dey disagree on ?

shinarlaura:
Mehnn. Even to type sef just weak me

But wait ooo like seriously op , are u talking about ur mum or someone else

Men cant believe it who will marry someone like that
Mums are not perfect but to come on social media and disrespect the person who gave u life ..
at the end of the day alot have mothers who do not show love its the way of the past now alot have changed
But to insult your own mother because u got flooged .. you grumble she asked you to boil rice .. imagine so because of that you come here and disrespect your own mother

I cant even type seff .. so wrong .. I pray for OP sha the curse wey dey ur head e no go easy

Bumbae1:
Didnt even read it ..
Wetin u dey disagree on ?

Try to read it.

kimbra:
Try to read it.

Just seen something dat ave make me vex seff
Make i change cloth

Bumbae1:
Just seen something dat ave make me vex seff
Make i change cloth

Abeg, no change cloth. Wear it back.

kimbra:
I refuse to empathise with you. From all you've written any sane person could deduce that you don't have regard for your mother. Perhaps, your stubborness is the reason she has turned mean towards you. So if she swept the house and heaped dirt on one side as her child what do you do?, you wait until she's ready to sweep it off. Let's hear your mum's side of the story.

How could people be leaving with dirt for a month?.

Thank you, for this.

He must be a tremendous source of frustration to that woman. Every mother is scared shitless that her kid is going to turn out useless and sometimes they take it far but it's never out of malice. I remember, I used to think I was adopted because I refused to believe a mother could be so mean to her own offspring. But to show this type of disrespect? Never! My mum used to say: I prefer you hate me now and have cause to thank me later, than to be your friend now only for you realize I was not doing my work. Really, he expects his mother to be washing toilet and sweeping the house while he loafs about?

kimbra:
Abeg, no change cloth. Wear it back.

Make i no wear my leggins ni

RaggedyAnn:
Thank you, for this.

He must be a tremendous source of frustration to that woman. Every mother is scared shitless that her kid is going to turn out useless and sometimes they take it far but it's never out of malice. I remember, I used to think I was adopted because I refused to believe a mother could be so mean to her own offspring. But to show this type of disrespect? Never! My mum used to say: I prefer you hate me now and have cause to thank me later, than to be your friend now only for you realize I was not doing my work. Really, he expects his mother to be washing toilet and sweeping the house while he loafs about?

Another Lady with good home training .. so on point
love it

Mynd44 abeg .. Lets see people views because i am still shaking from this post .. can't even drink my tea in peace

YoungBlackRico:
[color=#CC6600]What the hell? [/color]

[color=#848b79]©YBR[/color]

Hmmm it is well just pray for op

RaggedyAnn:
Thank you, for this.

He must be a tremendous source of frustration to that woman. Every mother is scared shitless that her kid is going to turn out useless and sometimes they take it far but it's never out of malice. I remember, I used to think I was adopted because I refused to believe a mother could be so mean to her own offspring. But to show this type of disrespect? Never! My mum used to say: I prefer you hate me now and have cause to thank me later, than to be your friend now only for you realize I was not doing my work. Really, he expects his mother to be washing toilet and sweeping the house while he loafs about?

A more rational fellow. Who abuses his/her mother this much?. Thanks too.

Bumbae1:
Make i no wear my leggins ni

Bumbae1 if na play make you stop am. No dey spoil person holy mind na.

solasolasola:
Bumbae1 if na play make you stop am. No dey spoil person holy mind na.

sola sola bawo ni

Bumbae1:
sola sola bawo ni

Mó wàpa. Báwo ni isé? I hope you're good too?

Freewoman:
What are you saying sister, i know that boy very well, he used to smoke indian hemp all the time, your good advise will not make sense to him, Don't you read where he said that he don't have money to move out to live in another area, he is a drug addicts, he used to quarrel his parents every time, don't pity him, the mothers brothers are waiting on him when he will beat his mother been their sister, they will teach him how to play night masquerade and he knows it very well

Okay, lol.

ahahnow:
My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled
me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her.

Wow, girl you have to take it easy. Trust me, this is a phase and it will pass. 30% of female children do not get on well with their mothers, I DONT KNOW WHY. Your mum seems to be the difficult type but you can win her over by showing her more love than you normally would. Learn to play with her and say things like "my wonderful mama, mumy the mumy etc. Just be a little jovial with her. I don't like telling my story but I use to almost fight my dad as a teenager but today we sit together and chat all day or ague over issues jokingly. I know this particular lady why had a troubled relationship with her mother when we were young, today, they are best of friends. It is a phase, she will get over it as she grows older, just be patient.

Freewoman:
What are you saying sister, i know that boy very well, he used to smoke indian hemp all the time, your good advise will not make sense to him, Don't you read where he said that he don't have money to move out to live in another area, he is a drug addicts, he used to quarrel his parents every time, don't pity him, the mothers brothers are waiting on him when he will beat his mother been their sister, they will teach him how to play night masquerade and he knows it very well

Seun, lala please, I would like to formally request for the person to be removed from my post as he or she is slandering me and disregarded the degree of seriousness of my story. Thanks

ahahnow:
Seun, lala please, I would like to formally request for the person to be removed from my post as he or she is slandering me and disregarded the degree of seriousness of my story. Thanks

lol ur blood too de hot, please don't move out of ur parents house o. You know how expensive that might be, besides I think you are still a very young person so be patient.

I'm shocked oooo...this is serious...


what am I going to say now.?
ok. OP if u can move out d better but not to join bad gang oooo...

can u support urself outside.? if u can move out....
too perplexed

I'm shocked oooo...this is serious...


what am I going to say now.?
ok. OP if u can move out d better but not to join bad gang oooo...

can u support urself outside.? if u can move out....
too perplexed

This one weak me