analice107:

O, Men expects women to sit tight and keep their fields unfallowed, while they run like Rats into every hole they find? Chere first o, those holes they run into, aren't those whole potential fields for other brothers?

If all fields are kept unfallowed, which holes will they be running into before marriage?

Virginity is to the husbands? Shouldn't their virginity be to their wives too?

Biko nu.

I get your point sha . But here are 2 reasons I think why promiscuity is deplored in women


1. Men have greater sexual desire than women ( though its arguable nowadays ) . So it is thought to be reasonable if the man is lecherous not the woman

2. The vagina loses its tightness when ploughed through innumerable times . And sex now gets less pleasurable for the man as it is for the woman

KingEbukasBlog:



I get your point sha . But here are 2 reasons I think why promiscuity is deplored in women


1. Men have greater sexual desire than women ( though its arguable nowadays ) . So it is thought to be reasonable if the man is lecherous not the woman

2. The vagina loses its tightness when ploughed through innumerable times . And sex now gets less pleasurable for the man as it is for the woman

you really are a virgin cuz only virgins believe the myths you posted here

each of the two points you gave are definitely not true

hopefulLandlord:


you really are a virgin cuz only virgins believe the myths you posted here

each of the two points you gave are definitely not true

Hmmm ... seriously ? Why ?

KingEbukasBlog:



I get your point sha . But here are 2 reasons I think why promiscuity is deplored in women


1. Men have greater sexual desire than women ( though its arguable nowadays ) . So it is thought to be reasonable if the man is lecherous not the woman

2. The vagina loses its tightness when ploughed through innumerable times . And sex now gets less pleasurable for the man as it is for the woman

The vagina is a muscle that can contract and relax to accommodate any exertion. It is not an elastic band that can lose tightness.

KingEbukasBlog:


So you are willing to start from the scratch with a man ?

I'm willing if we love each other. Love is the watchword

Seduction is very ambiguous . In some cases , it does not necessarily lead to sex or falling in love ; it could be a form of manipulation or control like Cleopatra and Julius Caesar and Marc Anthony

Don't tell me you have a cleopatra in life? It won't be funny.

I'm not gregarious , don't have many friends . But have close to 120k followers on social media . And just have 2 female friends . One is Nairalander .

Then you're better than me. Nairaland has been my only social media. I will upgrade later in the year
And tell those ladies they're blessed to have you.

I'm a man with intractable levels of testosterone , it has not been easy

. I'm not surprised to know it's not been easy for you.

Art of Seduction .

Hmmmm. You're really into studying humans and how they behave. In this case then, I will be an anti-seducer. I refuse to be seduced

CatfishBilly:

The vagina is a muscle that can contract and relax to accommodate any exertion. It is not an elastic band that can lose tightness.

Why then do married men complain about their wives' looseness after childbirth ? Why do women have vagina tightening cream and exercises like keigling or something like that

CatfishBilly:

The vagina is a muscle that can contract and relax to accommodate any exertion. It is not an elastic band that can lose tightness.

Doc, are you sure about that cos I've heard the opposite? Especially for ladies that welcome the introduction of the different sizes of manhood

MZLady39:



Baby sis,
See this is why I must gracefully bow out of this thread. It has become something other than what it was originally intended.
I believed you were truly sincere so I answered sincerely...and that's what matters.
Benny....if you even knew how I'm literally sitting here placing my hand over my mouth....saying, "Don't say it...don't say it!" in response to a few comments I've just read on this thread today and yesterday evening.....!!!
This is such a tremendous temptation right now...
Cause I'm passionate and emotional about practically everything...(which God has to work some things out of me)...and I'll end up having to publicly apologize again for not exercising self-control.
But I also keep forgetting that there are so many young folks on here.
The interesting thing about online "personas" is that people hide.....in every way they can. You don't know "who" is "who"..which means one has the liberty to accuse and behave in any manner that he/she chooses with "0" consequences.
I don't behave that way (my real name's posted in some of my threads or comments, my pic's posted, and I have spoken with "3" guys who have my real number and who have experienced my every emotion etc,)....maybe that's the difference.
So...for you though...I'm extending an invitation to you to contact me personally outside of this forum.
IF you ever would like to speak with me (through phone or video call)..."pm" me and I will give you all of my details.
Be encouraged

I'm honoured big sis. You'll hear from me soon. Thanks

KingEbukasBlog:


Hmmm ... seriously ? Why ?

for point one, I'll give you that cuz you admitted you could be wrong

for point two, I've not been with a prostitute before but people I know that patronise one admit that they're tighter than our average girlfriends

secondly, the vagina can contract, relax thereby accommodating whatever the size of the pendulum that enters it so long its not big enough to physically tear and split it

thirdly I know this isn't true from certain experiences I've had cuz I've been with tight promiscuous girls and loose unpromiscuous ones

KingEbukasBlog:


Why then do married men complain about their wives' looseness after childbirth ? Why do women have vagina tightening cream and exercises like keigling or something like that

bennyann:


Doc, are you sure about that cos I've heard the opposite? Especially for ladies that welcome the introduction of the different sizes of manhood

Kegel is for the pelvic floor, not the vagina.
The men have this erroneous belief that vagina gets loose after childbirth. It is not a proven medical fact, so many people sell tightening creams to prey on this false belief. Vagina tightening cream is not a thing in medicine.
They are all myths as far as medicine is concerned. The vagina is a muscle, it expands and contracts back.
An analogy is the womb, it is a muscle. At pregnancy, it expands, after delivery, it gradually goes back to size, of course there will be slight battle scars, but it doesn't become loose.

CatfishBilly:


Kegel is for the pelvic floor, not the vagina.
The men have this erroneous belief that vagina gets loose after childbirth. It is not a proven medical fact, so many people sell tightening creams to prey on this false belief. Vagina tightening cream is not a thing in medicine.
They are all myths as far as medicine is concerned. The vagina is a muscle, it expands and contracts back.
An analogy is the womb, it is a muscle. At pregnancy, it expands, after delivery, it gradually goes back to size, of course there will be slight battle scars, but it doesn't become loose.

You mean there are no differences between those who have multiple sex partners and those who don't?

hopefulLandlord:


you can give many such "everytime" instaces

There are still stuff am not able to do here, and one of them is exhume old threads. But, don't worry, it won't be long when i will call you up.

analice107:

There are still stuff am not able to do here, and one of them is exhume old threads. But, don't worry, it won't be long when i will call you up.

seems you promise everyone that challenges your wrong claims with the same lines but never call them up as you promise, seems to me like a tactic to deflect from the fact that you just made baseless claim

KingEbukasBlog:



I get your point sha . But here are 2 reasons I think why promiscuity is deplored in women


1. Men have greater sexual desire than women ( though its arguable nowadays ) . So it is thought to be reasonable if the man is lecherous not the woman

2. The vagina loses its tightness when ploughed through innumerable times . And sex now gets less pleasurable for the man as it is for the woman

Biko, my mouth will not say anymore.

hopefulLandlord:


for point one, I'll give you that cuz you admitted you could be wrong

for point two, I've not been with a prostitute before but people I know that patronise one admit that they're tighter than our average girlfriends

secondly, the vagina can contract, relax thereby accommodating whatever the size of the pendulum that enters it so long its not big enough to physically tear and split it

thirdly I know this isn't true from certain experiences I've had cuz I've been with tight promiscuous girls and loose unpromiscuous ones

Tight promiscuous and loose unpromiscuous?

How are my sure you are not saying it because you want to prove there's no difference between the two? And it's like saying the promiscuous are better of even in their promiscuity. Or does it have something to do with their genetic make up?

And what are you doing with all those kind of ladies? When are you planning on getting married?
For how long do you plan on living like that?
Brother Hope

Come out of this I beg.

hopefulLandlord:


the difference is that a man can pretend to be a virgin and his wife/girlfriend/mistress/Secretary wouldn't know better cuz there's no virginity test for men unlike a female

a virgin guy amongst his peers is looked at like there's something wrong with him somewhere
while a virgin girl is looked at in an admirable way by her peers, ignore the superficial criticism non virgin girls give virgin ones cuz beneath the surface they wish they could be virgin too

Okay.

bennyann:
I'm willing if we love each other. Love is the watchword

Why do women lay such much emphasis on love . Why does love matter so much to women ? Is it the oxytocin ?

Don't tell me you have a cleopatra in life? It won't be funny.

It depends . Don't forget , Cleopatra is the kind of woman that meets the chimerical sexual fantasies of the man . The Spectacular Sirens are the perfect match for Rakes . If it is for the sex , then she is that type of woman .

Then you're better than me. Nairaland has been my only social media. I will upgrade later in the year

You are not on Facebook , BBM even Whats App ? How do you receive male attention ? I mean everything is on social media before it graduates into something real .

And tell those ladies they're blessed to have you.

Thanks

. I'm not surprised to know it's not been easy for you.

Has it been easy for you ?

Hmmmm. You're really into studying humans and how they behave.

I love studying human behavior - habits , social , love and sex life , humans and politics etc . I've got books that focus so much on human brain .

In this case then, I will be an anti-seducer. I refuse to be seduced

Looks like someone has read the book What's your best character ? Mine is the charmer (not for the sex but for the romantic adventure ) . I think I love the 'love story ' of Queen Victoria and Prime Minister Benjamin Disraeli

bennyann:


You mean there are no differences between those who have multiple sex partners and those who don't?

In a healthy individual, the answer is an emphatic yes.

hopefulLandlord:


for point one, I'll give you that cuz you admitted you could be wrong

Yup . Men and women experience sexual arousal differently . Since men are titillated by what they see , their concupiscence is more noticeable . So many hidden factors - which I don't want to talk about since it isn't germane - are responsible for sexual arousal in women .

for point two, I've not been with a prostitute before but people I know that patronise one admit that they're tighter than our average girlfriends

Maybe they do kegeling exercises .
You are an atheist with no moral compass , what has deterred you from patronizing prostitutes ? Or you are lying .

secondly, the vagina can contract, relax thereby accommodating whatever the size of the pendulum that enters it so long its not big enough to physically tear and split it

Why then do women who have been with men with big penizz sizes complain about their new partners who have smaller peniz size ?

thirdly I know this isn't true from certain experiences I've had cuz I've been with tight promiscuous girls and loose unpromiscuous ones

Huh ?

bennyann:


Tight promiscuous and loose unpromiscuous?

How are my sure you are not saying it because you want to prove there's no difference between the two? And it's like saying the promiscuous are better of even in their promiscuity. Or does it have something to do with their genetic make up?

actually I'm saying this as proof that frequent sex doesn't affect the va.gina at all and its simply urban legend that it does
maybe genetic makeup but I'm not a medical doctor so I wouldn't know

And what are you doing with all those kind of ladies?

I'm their "boyfriend" and I have sex with them cuz sex has a way of connecting us further, I'm the type that likes making friends everywhere I go (and that's many places)

When are you planning on getting married?
For how long do you plan on living like that?
Brother Hope

I'm a very strange man, I make most of my decisions myself and I'm not afraid of swimming against the tide, that explains why I became an atheist before I even knew the word "atheist" existed, I was the first in my life to lose faith in all gods but later realised I wasn't really the first

now to your questions, I don't plan on getting married though I have an 8 yo daughter, I want a son too sometime in the future but marriage is looking more and more like an impossibility
reason being that I haven't been able to actually like/love a woman for more than 3 months, as the novelty wears off so does my likeness for the woman, the sex gets boring and like a chore, the woman then starts being an inconvenience and a source of emotional baggage to me; I'll then spend the rest of the relationship "tolerating" the woman till the relationship eventually hit the rocks, maybe there's something psychologically wrong with me but looking at my married mates I see more of two people tolerating each other while pretending to enjoy each other
I don't want to live such a life and I don't want a woman to "tolerate" me in marriage or be tolerated by me

my people say I'll soon find that woman that I'll love for much longer and I should keep searching, maybe they're right and I'll keep searching, after all what have I got to lose from searching? I get to meet more girls, know each other and it also helps other areas of my life, confidence, networking and all

KingEbukaNaija:


Yup . Men and women experience sexual arousal differently . Since men are titillated by what they see , their concupiscence is more noticeable . So many hidden factors - which I don't want to talk about since it isn't germane - are responsible for sexual arousal in women .

women are titillated by what they see

Maybe they do kegeling exercises .
You are an atheist with no moral compass , what has deterred you from patronizing prostitutes ? Or you are lying.

cuz its too easy

Why then do women who have been with men with big penizz sizes complain about their new partners who have smaller peniz size ?

the vagina has its pleasure sensitive areas only a few inches in length

secondly its not the size the women are really really complaining of bro
its how their so-called partner is using it

Huh ?

you heard me right, its all a myth

hopefulLandlord:


women are titillated by what they see

I thought it was more of what they hear .

cuz its too easy

So meanie you are more of the adventurous type that needs resistance of some sort . Badoo !

the vagina has its pleasure sensitive areas only a few inches in length

secondly its not the size the women are really really complaining of bro
its how their so-called partner is using it

But you have to admit , more girth size for the woman , more pleasure since the nerve endings are concentrated on the walls of the vagina . Why are men insecure about their peniz size if peniz size is not a problem ?

hopefulLandlord:


actually I'm saying this as proof that frequent sex doesn't affect the va.gina at all and its simply urban legend that it does
maybe genetic makeup but I'm not a medical doctor so I wouldn't know


I'm their "boyfriend" and I have sex with them cuz sex has a way of connecting us further, I'm the type that likes making friends everywhere I go (and that's many places)

I'm a very strange man, I make most of my decisions myself and I'm not afraid of swimming against the tide, that explains why I became an atheist before I even knew the word "atheist" existed, I was the first in my life to lose faith in all gods but later realised I wasn't really the first

now to your questions, I don't plan on getting married though I have an 8 yo daughter, I want a son too sometime in the future but marriage is looking more and more like an impossibility
reason being that I haven't been able to actually like/love a woman for more than 3 months, as the novelty wears off so does my likeness for the woman, the sex gets boring and like a chore, the woman then starts being an inconvenience and a source of emotional baggage to me; I'll then spend the rest of the relationship "tolerating" the woman till the relationship eventually hit the rocks, maybe there's something psychologically wrong with me but looking at my married mates I see more of two people tolerating each other while pretending to enjoy each other
I don't want to live such a life and I don't want a woman to "tolerate" me in marriage or be tolerated by me

my people say I'll soon find that woman that I'll love for much longer and I should keep searching, maybe they're right and I'll keep searching, after all what have I got to lose from searching? I get to meet more girls, know each other and it also helps other areas of my life, confidence, networking and all

You are a fukking Rake ! The virile licentious man ! . The Nigerian Gabriele D'Annunzio

hopefulLandlord:

I'm a very strange man, I make most of my decisions myself and I'm not afraid of swimming against the tide, that explains why I became an atheist before I even knew the word "atheist" existed, I was the first in my life to lose faith in all gods but later realised I wasn't really the first

Christian morality strongly deters anyone from debauchery . It makes sense that you became an atheist so they you can live out your fantasies without any scruples .

KingEbukaNaija:


I thought it was more of what they hear.

it's what they see, that's why they can give it to an uneducated dumb guy, haven't you looked at a particular guy and go "what's does this pretty girl see in this unintelligent guy"

So meanie you are more of the adventurous type that needs resistance of some sort . Badoo !

easy sex won't be appreciated as challenging ones

But you have to admit , more girth size for the woman , more pleasure since the nerve endings are concentrated on the walls of the vagina

even if it were, its not like the bigger penis would permanently make those nerve endings impossible to reach for smaller ones cuz the vagina would just go back to "normal" afterwards even if the smaller penis is given "sloppy seconds" (Google it)

Why are men insecure about their peniz size if peniz size is not a problem ?

same way women are very insecure about their breast size, appearance of their face, ass size, smoothness of their skin, length of their legs, body weight, shape of their body and recently appearance of their vagyna etc

I'm of the opinion that porn and glossy magazines are responsible for those insecurities because they show a standard that's impossible to attain; but that's my own observation and I'm not passing it as pure fact although I'm pretty sure it at least contributes to it

KingEbukaNaija:


Christian morality strongly deters anyone from debauchery . It makes sense that you became an atheist so they you can live out your fantasies without any scruples .

okay, I hear you

bennyann:


Don't tell me you go natural too do you?

Thanks for the advice because I'm fund of just packing my hair in a bonny form. Thanks dear

You're welcome

I've got locks

That's enough, you can just braid or blow dry once in a while if you want it straight for a change. Long hair can easily be straightened with blow dry if you know the right guy,

hopefulLandlord:

it's what they see, that's why they can give it to an uneducated dumb guy, haven't you looked at a particular guy and go "what's does this pretty girl see in this unintelligent guy"

Umm . Maybe you didn't get what I mean . Women can be seduced more by spoken words . Why do you think women lay emphasis on communication in relationship ?

This could be the reason :

KingEbukasBlog:


There is what is called the MHC - major histocompatibility complex - gene and this can be used for sexual mate selection . The sweat is composed of some compounds that make up this gene and the odour from these compounds can be perceived by women through smell . Women's ability to perceive this is at its optimal state during their ovulation . Women are most likely aroused by men who have dissimilar MHCs . The more dissimilar the MHC of a man is from the woman , the more she'll be attracted to him or even sexually aroused .

There's the possibility that you and your husband have very similar or closely similar MHCs that's why you don't enjoy sex with him or you don't get Hot no matter what he does . And when this is the situation , the woman is more likely going to fantasize about other men during sex for her to enjoy sex .

So this could be the case dear , its not about his big peniz size or physical appearance , the MHC is very likely culpable for your problem .

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Most times that's why women cheat . They are naturally drawn to men with very dissimilar MHCs . Not that the man is not trying his best with love , romance or sex . Its just biology

easy sex won't be appreciated as challenging ones

It adds to your cred na ba ?

even if it were, its not like the bigger penis would permanently make those nerve endings impossible to reach for smaller ones cuz the vagina would just go back to "normal" afterwards even if the smaller penis is given "sloppy seconds" (Google it)

But the women themselves are the ones who have these experiences . I've read those stories so many times . I think its more of a science myth

same way women are very insecure about their breast size, appearance of their face, ass size, smoothness of their skin etc
I'm of the opinion that porn and glossy magazines are responsible for those insecurities because they show a standard that's impossible to attain; but that's my own observation and I'm not passing it as pure fact although I'm pretty sure it at least contributes to it

You can try YouTube , see and listen to women admit that size matters . I think its the women's responses and reactions that lead to those insecurities . Doesn't Nairaland inundate with news about women complaining about lack of sexual satisfaction due to the peniz size of their partners ?

Muafrika2:
Long hair can easily be straightened with blow dry if you know the right guy,

Excellento !

KingEbukaNaija:


Excellento !

bennyann:


This is interesting. Make una see me see trouble ooo.
Do you see me begging for a husband? And yes, I find it difficult to pretend because I will be caught within seconds and if no one catches me, I will expose myself because my heart can't stand it.

And please I need proof to the bolded. This thread consists of things that seem to be against Christian men and there you are saying I'm looking for their sympathy. Where? Online? you no know me.

And also please, do you love me? If you do please tell me cos I don't understand where you came from to start throwing accusations at me. But I tell you, it won't give you the opportunity to know me outside here. Except you pretend to get to me through another moniker and that's for those of you with multiple monikers.

At least, now I know I didn't misunderstand you.

Evidence to the bolded please. You went around looking for loopholes. I know something annoyed you but I wish you will spit it out and not let it control your judgment. Please check yourself.

And may you not fall into the hands of a 419 who you think she's not. How will you feel if you judged someone wrongly especially someone so close to God and God doesn't joke with her? If somehow you find out she's Godly, how would you feel after all these drama and what do you think should be your reward for that?

If truly you're a Christian, beware man and let the Spirit guide you. If you're not a Christian then I will understand.

But there are other ways to get my attention than losing me like this.

Why should I tell you where your utterances make you suspect? I won't tell you so that you will not be able to use it as a defence in the future in case you happen to be a false christian.
You just admitted that your topic is against christian men, now why will a true christian woman create a post against christian men?
Do I love you? Lol. Do people love those they have not seen? Plus your utterances have given you away, I don't believe you are a true christian now.
You really think I will change my account just to contact you? Just who do you think you are? So you don't need me, right? Only the man needs you, right? Carry on with that philosophy and end up with an adulterer, paedophile and a wife brutalizer as a husband. You girls don't want to listen, right? You don't want to believe that a good man will not chase you much? The man who you believe is humble cos he kneels for you is the one that will brutalize you. He is only chasing you cos he has not married you yet, once he marries you, he will start giving you slaps just before he cheats on you. So you need to start respecting true christian men.
No one attacked you here, but I have the right to tell people here that a person can still be false even though she speaks of topics like the tribulation and the rapture.

KingEbukaNaija:


Umm . Maybe you didn't get what I mean . Women can be seduced more by spoken words . Why do you think women lay emphasis on communication in relationship ?

This could be the reason :

women are moved by what they see, if they don't like what they see no matter how sweet talking you are you won't get there, that's why a guy that appears rich can get almost any girl and the girl can stick with him even when she later finds out he wasn't as rich as he appeared

believe me, experience can be totally different from theory

It adds to your cred na ba ?

But the women themselves are the ones who have these experiences . I've read those stories so many times . I think its more of a science myth
You can try YouTube , see and listen to women admit that size matters . I think its the women's responses and reactions that lead to those insecurities . Doesn't Nairaland inundate with news about women complaining about lack of sexual satisfaction due to the peniz size of their partners ?

believe me size matters only superficially, what a man does with it is what really matters, a man can have a Mandingo size dick, if he can't use it properly it becomes ineffective

I'm 3 inches taller than Iker Casillas, that doesn't mean I'll make a better goalkeeper than him or even far shorter keeper in Guillermo Ochoa and that doesn't mean I'm better than Messi/Ronaldo outfield because SKILL is the main thing

Kanu is very tall but you'll be hard pressed to find 3 goals he scored with the head despite his height

I know you watch football, that's why I'm giving football analogy

skill is what puts off the woman not the size