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Jude try and assist her now, abi the 18million dn blow turn 180k ni?

BTW someone is definitely bored tonight

This thread got more hidden posts than wat i can read...

Mynd44:
This is not something to be proud of. This is shameful.

You see some booty and you get carried away. You see some brez, you drool, you see thighs, you scream. This just means you are weak AF, you cont control yourself and you are not ready to be responsible.

No wonder y'all end up with women who are like y'all. You will never be able to handle a strong upright mature woman who demand that you be a grown man.

Nuff said

Lol... But u're part of us. U also indulge in all that u just typed

Mynd44:
This is not something to be proud of. This is shameful.

You see some booty and you get carried away. You see some brez, you drool, you see thighs, you scream. This just means you are weak AF, you cont control yourself and you are not ready to be responsible.

No wonder y'all end up with women who are like y'all. You will never be able to handle a strong upright mature woman who demand that you be a grown man.

Nuff said

Only a fagg sees a well-endowed lady and turns a blind eye. Drooling at the beauty of women doesn't make a man weak or irresponsible, it's simply natural! And who's that 'upright woman' that would tell me how to behave like she's my mother?
What are your criteria for an upright woman?
Education? Prestige? Is she a virgin? Has she not had a previous relationship before we met, and did she not have sex with the person? Ayam not understanding you at all!

MzLarem:
And this MOD I don't like is spitting fire

You just earned my respect, I still don't like you tho

Hmm! No wonder your post is still standing.

Franchise21:
Lol... But u're part of us. U also indulge in all that u just typed

There is a difference between seeing a fine girl and go "she's cute" and "she is cute, I must slee with her"

Seeing someone cute and acknowledging it is not a crime or cheating but going all the way, to approach her or allow yourself get so deep with her that you get intimate hence cheat is silly.

HITTED:
Only a fagg sees a well-endowed lady and turns a blind eye. Drooling at the beauty of women doesn't make a man weak or irresponsible, it's simply natural! And who's that 'upright woman' that would tell me how to behave like she's my mother?
What are your criteria for an upright woman?
Education? Prestige? Is she a virgin? Has she not had a previous relationship before we met, and did she not have sex with the person? Ayam not understanding you at all!

Context here. Yes you drool but chasing after a fine woman when you have a GF is a show of weakness.

And who is the girl to tell you how to act? Errrr…your GF and you should respect that

Mynd44:
There is a difference between seeing a fine girl and go "she's cute" and "she is cute, I must slee with her"

Seeing someone cute and acknowledging it is not a crime or cheating but going all the way, to approach her or allow yourself get so deep with her that you get intimate hence cheat is silly.

OK. One question for u. Hv u cheated in d past? Yes or No

Franchise21:
OK. One question for u. Hv u cheated in d past? Yes or No

No.

But does the fact the one cheated in a past relationship mean that person will for ever be a cheat? People change so

Mynd44:
Context here. Yes you drool but chasing after a fine woman when you have a GF is a show of weakness.

And who is the girl to tell you how to act? Errrr…your GF and you should respect that

Ladies with good boyfriends/husbands cheat too, so stop making it look like cheating is a male thing.

I can take good advice from a girlfriend but she's not in the position to tell me how to behave. I'm an adult and I know the consequences of my actions. So she must love me for who I am or go look for a toy boy elsewhere to control.

HITTED:
Ladies with good boyfriends/husbands cheat too, so stop making it look like cheating is a male thing.

I can take good advice from a girlfriend but she's not in the position to tell me how to behave. I'm an adult and I know the consequences of my actions. So she must love me for who I am or go look for a toy boy elsewhere to control.

Who said cheating is a male thing? The OP is male right which is the context.

Oh, no one is in the position to tell you how to behave as an adult but you have certain obligations to who you date.

And oh, your saying she must love you for who you are does not count here. The OP has made it clear he does not intend to break up with his main chick hence he has to stay within the constraint of being in an exclusive relationship.

If you want to talk about your personal view and what you as a person can or cannot do in a relationship, please open a thread for that. Over here, we are trying to help the OP, not you

This is really curious....I asked what happened to this thread that there are so many deleted posts, and now even that has been deleted. Some one is really drunk on power. Get over it already!

Hey Jude,........don't carry the world upon your shoulders. (Just wanted to say that, it's the only line from the song I find relevant). So you're on the single-mother matter? While I am not against showing kindness and generosity to people in need, don't let yourself be taken advantage of. If you're blessed with the means, do it. But let her know you do not intend to make her your responsibility going forward.

marvin902:
I was actually in the same position as you with my ex..she has a daughter but only difference is she never imposed anything concerning her daughter on me....I know what she's doing is kinda of wrong buh if you have the resources just do it buh sit her down and tell her you can't take up the responsibility of a father to her kids

Best ans I have heard

itsJude:
I have a gf that i will marry this year bt i still fool around na man i be


I met this lady some months back thru a friend , didn't know that she had kids, She was young , sexy and beautiful, I begged the friend for her details and she gave me, Called the lady we met and talked, She was slow compared to normal girls that want to do love fast

After a few dates she came to my house, I wanted to push for sex but i felt that it was important that i observe her first, She was slow and shy for som1 her age, we had sex and started doing small relationship on the side


One day she texted me that she wants to tell me somtin, I told her to come over, She came and started asking if i love her?

b4 all these i noticed her stomach was bigger than normal bt wetin concern me


I told her that i cant lie that i like her but its not love and reminded her abt my girl, She now told me that she has 2 kids that she knows that we cant have anything serious, I was like no wahala, we continued things, She asks for money i give her , from hair to random cash for different things




Yesterday night she sends me a text that she needs money to pay her daughters school fees

I told her that it Doesn't make sense for me to be paying for such , am i selfish or what i said is right

The childs school fees is 96k and she wouldnt be able to go to sch without it 2moro

you are not selfish... U guys ain't even married nd she's choking u with responsibilities already

Mynd44:
No.

But does the fact the one cheated in a past relationship mean that person will for ever be a cheat? People change so

Anyway, u sounding so morally upright. Just hope u really one in reality. Not forming one saint here

RaggedyAnn:
This is really curious....I asked what happened to this thread that there are so many deleted posts, and now even that has been deleted. Some one is really drunk on power. Get over it already!

Hey Jude,........don't carry the world upon your shoulders. (Just wanted to say that, it's the only line from the song I find relevant). So you're on the single-mother matter? While I am not against showing kindness and generosity to people in need, don't let yourself be taken advantage of. If you're blessed with the means, do it. But let her know you do not intend to make her your responsibility going forward.

In reference to the emboldened;

No one can give what he/she doesn't have. A blood thirty predator can't teach others how to be vegetarians.

You don't teach self control on much harder aspects of life, like faithfulness when you haven't liberated your soul from the temptation the ban button presents.

Oh, OP please help her.

HITTED:
Hmm! No wonder your post is still standing.

Not my fault

Franchise21:
Anyway, u sounding so morally upright. Just hope u really one in reality. Not forming one saint here

#YorubaDemon things

Mynd44:
#YorubaDemon things

Lol. U just sold urself out

Franchise21:
Lol. U just sold urself out

Since you have concluded that I must have a bad side and be like the OP, I might as well claim it.

But men need to respect their girls more and cut the cheating. The OP should hel her if he can and cut her off romantically, can stay friends sha

good

Mynd44:
Since you have concluded that I must have a bad side and be like the OP, I might as well claim it.

But men need to respect their girls more and cut the cheating. The OP should hel her if he can and cut her off romantically, can stay friends sha

Itz a two-way thing. According to the OP, the lady in question knows he has a main chick and still decided to play side chick... Even ladies cheat