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Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 3:32pm On May 23, 2017

SorftWerk:
nice, I know u can be a mad girl sometimes lol but u still know what's right to do

Our degree of temperament is different. You won't blame a girl for hers. grin

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 3:33pm On May 23, 2017

Oyindidi:
Stop doing the wrong things

u dey here

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 3:34pm On May 23, 2017

kimbra:
Our degree of temperament is different. You won't blame a girl for hers.

tell me you aren't a tough girl to be with embarassed

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Oyindidi(f): 3:34pm On May 23, 2017

smithsydny:
u dey here

Meaning?

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Oyindidi(f): 3:35pm On May 23, 2017

SorftWerk:
lol...spank me? I thought as a guy, I was supposed to do that to u instead, lady dey spank guy?

Don't ask me such next time

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 3:37pm On May 23, 2017

Oyindidi:
Don't ask me such next time

I wonder how someone can Joke with a lady on romance section.

OK then, I'm sorry.

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 3:40pm On May 23, 2017

Oyindidi:
Meaning?

meaning are u here?

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Oyindidi(f): 3:40pm On May 23, 2017

SorftWerk:
I wonder how someone can Joke with a lady on romance section.

OK then, I'm sorry.

You know me too well. You know what I like and dislike.. Try not to talk like others cos you know me. I'm too picky these days grin

God help me not to hurt my loves

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Oyindidi(f): 3:41pm On May 23, 2017

smithsydny:
meaning are u here?

Please! I'm begging you not to quote me next time

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 3:54pm On May 23, 2017

Oyindidi:
You know me too well. You know what I like and dislike.. Try not to talk like others cos you know me. I'm too picky these days God help me not to hurt my loves

hmmm...too picky even for me? That was just an harmless ~~flirt~~joke lipsrsealed

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Oyindidi(f): 4:00pm On May 23, 2017

SorftWerk:
hmmm...too picky even for me? That was just an harmless ~~flirt~~joke

Don't flirt with me.. You know me too well

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Iamoilprince(op): 4:16pm On May 23, 2017

Oyindidi:
Don't flirt with me.. You know me too well

Y re u guys derailing this thread? Can't u respect urself ?

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 4:21pm On May 23, 2017

Oyindidi:
Don't flirt with me.. You know me too well

not even a tiny winy bit?

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Iamoilprince(op): 4:37pm On May 23, 2017

SorftWerk:
not even a tiny winy bit?

U rly hv tym bro. Derailing ppl's topic.

Go get busy, no one has got time for this ur jobless p! Do the necessary tins u came to do online and ex! Jobless balu

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Oyindidi(f): 4:42pm On May 23, 2017

Iamoilprince:
Y re u guys derailing this thread? Can't u respect urself ?

who else comment for your thread apart from us?

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by yungeez(m): 6:30pm On May 23, 2017

kimbra:
You're not the first saying that.
Are you expecting me to apologise to someone who wronged me?.

Nt everyone, jst dat 1 u call ur bf, nd if u cnt do dat, i dnt tink u truly love him

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 6:33pm On May 23, 2017

yungeez:
Nt everyone, jst dat 1 u call ur bf, nd if u cnt do dat, i dnt tink u truly love him

I do reciprocate calls.

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by yungeez(m): 6:54pm On May 23, 2017

kimbra:
I do reciprocate calls.

Dats fair enough, personaly i luv strong-will-ed ladies, d stuborn ones dat gives alot of trouble, bt nt d ones still acting up even after saying yess.d independent ones dat still no hw to luv their man, i luv d challenge, it make d relationship more, i av a frnd broke up wit a girl because she wont allow quarrelling... most guys run away from these ones, they tag dem "unforgiving" and "proud", dnt mind dem, dnt change either, there is are guys who are out luking 4 ur exact type of person, "one man's fud, anoda man's poison"

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 7:02pm On May 23, 2017

yungeez:
Dats fair enough, personaly i luv strong-will-ed ladies, d stuborn ones dat gives alot of trouble, bt nt d ones still acting up even after saying yess.d independent ones dat still no hw to luv their man, i luv d challenge, it make d relationship more, i av a frnd broke up wit a girl because she wont allow quarrelling... most guys run away from these ones, they tag dem "unforgiving" and "proud", dnt mind dem, dnt change either, there is are guys who are out luking 4 ur exact type of person, "one man's fud, anoda man's poison"

You're funny, but I understand your point of view. For me, it's not as if I'm unforgiving, but what I wouldn't do is when I know someone wronged me but deliberately decided not to apologise for me to do so. You're actually selling yourself in such a situation. It should be a two way thing, here I would rather let you go with your pride than apologise for something I didn't do wrong.

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by yungeez(m): 7:16pm On May 23, 2017

kimbra:
You're funny, but I understand your point of view. For me, it's not as if I'm unforgiving, but what I wouldn't do is when I know someone wronged me but deliberately decided not to apologise for me to do so. You're actually selling yourself in such a situation. It should be a two way thing, here I would rather let you go with your pride than apologise for something I didn't do wrong.

Hmmn, Okay nw i finally get u... i believe its childish 4 some1 to b at fault nd still refuse 2 apologise, i cnt b frnds wit such person talk more of dating. anyway sorry i quote u wrongly, i didnt get wat u were saying earlier

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 7:18pm On May 23, 2017

yungeez:
Hmmn, Okay nw i finally get u... i believe its childish 4 some1 to b at fault nd still refuse 2 apologise, i cnt b frnds wit such person talk more of dating. anyway sorry i quote u wrongly, i didnt get wat u were saying earlier

Cool, there was nothing wrong in what you said.

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by yungeez(m): 7:25pm On May 23, 2017

kimbra:
Cool, there was nothing wrong in what you said.

Okay dear, m Greg by name, lets b frnds

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 7:26pm On May 23, 2017

yungeez:
Okay dear, m Greg by name, lets b frnds

Nice to meet you Greg, we're friends already.

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by yungeez(m): 7:29pm On May 23, 2017

kimbra:
Nice to meet you Greg, we're friends already.

ur name?

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 7:33pm On May 23, 2017

yungeez:
ur name?

Benita.

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by yungeez(m): 7:37pm On May 23, 2017

kimbra:
Benita.

Nice, I sent u a mail, reply, so we cn chat more

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 7:39pm On May 23, 2017

yungeez:
Nice, I sent u a mail, reply, so we cn chat more

Unfortunately, I won't be able to do that. Take care.

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 7:43pm On May 23, 2017

yungeez:
Nice, I sent u a mail, reply, so we cn chat more

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by AlhajiAbdul: 8:15pm On May 23, 2017

This is a apt desription.

OP, run, run, run...This is a very dangerous situation. You are dealing with a very narcissistic person who thinks that she is too good for you. Iam sure that she tells you stuff like "You are not my type" and "My actions are caused by your actions. I also believe that she blocks you on SM frequenltly and you have to beg her to unblock. This is a very dangerous emotional trap. Check all the guys that she dated in the past...She was the one that broke up with them and usually, she broke up for no reason.

You think that by tolerating her madness, she is gonna see you as someone who loves her perfectly even with her flaws. Her plan is to suck you in emotionally until you can't do without her. Once she realizes that you are completely dependent on her emotionally, na there the trouble go start. She will make you too afraid of saying "No" to anything she asks for and you will begin to act with fear despite the fact that you are in love with her. Expect her to play the victim in all circumstances and the golden rule will never apply to her. You will do something that she will find very annoying but she will also do same and see nothing wrong with it. Expect regular talks of "This relationship is over" and you will end up crying and begging her to return. Also, watch out for accusations out of her imagination. You will live your life trying to make her think that you are worthy of her. At this pint, you are dead because you are completely dependent on her emotionally At this stage, the game is up for her and she will just break up with you, in a very cold and heartless manner, over an issue that happened several months ago. The relationship now means nothing to her and she has to move on to someone else. Once she breaks up, you go beg and beg and beg but e go mean nothing to her. It might take you a whole year to even recover from the heart-break

My advice: End the relationship now that you are still in control of your emotions. She cant be in a relationship without extremely manipulating her partner.

RUN RUN RUN. I have been therefore a

SorftWerk:
She is building a trap. That trap is what you're expected to fall in and as soon as you do, she'll have access to ur control button from which depression will befall u, u can hardly do without her, you hardly eat when u havnt spoken to her in a day, and u find ur self always wanting more and more of her and guy...the day she'll dump ur sorry black ass, you may even contemplate suicide...

I've been there before but not anymore!

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by Nobody: 4:54pm On May 24, 2017

Iamoilprince:
U rly hv tym bro. Derailing ppl's topic.

Go get busy, no one has got time for this ur jobless p! Do the necessary tins u came to do online and ex! Jobless balu

thanks bro.

Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by oluwashedy(m): 6:24pm On May 24, 2017

SorftWerk:
She is building a trap. That trap is what you're expected to fall in and as soon as you do, she'll have access to ur control button from which depression will befall u, u can hardly do without her, you hardly eat when u havnt spoken to her in a day, and u find ur self always wanting more and more of her and guy...the day she'll dump ur sorry black ass, you may even contemplate suicide...

I've been there before but not anymore!

OP, this nigga has said it all. I've been through that too

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Re: My Girlfriend Always Finds It Hard To Forgive by passionate87(m): 7:43pm On May 24, 2017

bro this was the attitude my ex gf exhibited,finding it difficult to forgive sha e clear say na she hold the key of the relationship my advice is apologize once if she no gree give her some breathing space. this space go reset her proud self.guy I think u should have other gals some people may not like this especially gals but if a gal know say na only she u get she go dey misbehave. if they know say u get options they no go too dey form especially if they like u. after u don apologize once to two times and she no gree if you free her if she truelly love you she would call back after 2-3days but if she doesn't guy sorry to say she no get love for you. start to dey free her and look for someone that trully love and appreciate you. best of luck

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