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Mujtahida:
Madam as per your first paragraph read this
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html

lovethchioma:
Some Married women cheat as well as most married men....
no matter what, I don't think there's any genuine reason to cheat on your spouse.
The only reason why any man or woman will cheat on their spouse is because of lack of self control and having no value for the institution called marriage.

Just do yourself the favour of remaining unmarried if you know you won't be able to keep to your vows.

dsmooth1:
1.some of them marry out of self pity witout truly luving the guy
2.some find it very hard to forget thier ex
3.some marry cos of pressure here and there witout actually waiting for what they want
4.getting pregnant for the wrong guy and family insist that she must marry the guy
5.when the sex drive is very high and the guy very low or he is too busy
6.any lady that luv money too much will.cheat except she marries a very rich man

Dahkogrin007:
They cheat simply because u can't satisfy a woman












U CANNOT give a woman everything she needs. If God Himself gave them eyebrows but they shave & draw their own. Who are U?

sisisioge:
You ate lying! Married Women don't cheat like that. Unless u have legit examples, don't even think of this slander!

Dahkogrin007:
U CANNOT give a woman everything she needs. If God Himself gave them eyebrows but they shave & draw their own. Who are U?

WORDSENSEI:
This is heartbreaking coming from a lady.
It means you also support the "one lock, one key" analogy. Shame on your ugly self.
Keep oiling the non existent egos of selfish men.

dsmooth1:
1.some of them marry out of self pity witout truly luving the guy
2.some find it very hard to forget thier ex
3.some marry cos of pressure here and there witout actually waiting for what they want
4.getting pregnant for the wrong guy and family insist that she must marry the guy
5.when the sex drive is very high and the guy very low or he is too busy
6.any lady that luv money too much will.cheat except she marries a very rich man

yvelchstores:
there is no excuse for a married woman to cheat.

OmaniPadmeHum:
Easy..


Married women cheat for all the silly excuses men give when men cheat too.

Let's see..


-Married women cheat because men wear tight chest and six packs revealing clothes
-Married women are polygamous in nature
-How can they eat only eguisi soup always
-It is in their hormones
-Their husbands grew fat and old
-Perhaps their husband wasn't performing his duties
-Maybe their husband refused to give them a head
-Their husbands are ugly and they are not sexually attracted to them any longer.
-It is now in our (Urban culture)
- Single men throw themselves at them often
-Because they can... Women cheat because they can
-Women can marry more than one husband-polyandry
- Women cheat because they can't be held down by one man
-Women cheat because their husbands nag them and beat them up



For every silly excuse men have given for cheating, the women can also give their version.


in that case, the women should also seek independence since they now have equal rights with men . You dont tell me the responsibilities of the home lies with me, and turn around to say we have equal rights. When I am virtually responsible for every expense at home, the next day a woman would turn around and tell me we have equal rights? She will have to build her own house and house me and the children there as well before we talk of equal rights. Not that I house the woman and our kids, feed and cater for everyone's needs , do the struggle and the hustle alone and then, when it comes to right, the woman would tell me she is equal to me. Or you wanna tell me a cab driver who leaves home by 5 am everyday to come back by 8pm has equal right with his wife who seats at home from 6-6? 90 percent of women is dependent. To make women really be equal to men on the matter of rights, you female folks need to solve that problem first.

Marry a jobless man and be catering for his problems, from time to time, send money to his family members for their upkeep. Establish him, bring his younger brother to the home and take up the responsibility of sending him to school. While I love equaliy, I surely hate it when it is one-sided. I can't count the numbers of men whose wives are jobless. Even those that are in business were mostly established by their men because it is the responsibility of the man to do so. How many women do so for thier husbands? How many women established their men ? maybe only 0.05% . Many men died before their wives due to stress and hustle while their wives were at home either doing nothing or doing some some soft jobs, and one of the ways a man will enjoy the fruits of his labour without thinking who eats his food when he is gone is spending some few times with a beautiful lady whom he has successfully enticed with his success. That is one of the things that gives a man the courage to hustle more . Dub me whatever you like, but remember that great men of God in the bible, all were polygamous and they also kept concubines and God never chastised any of them for doing so. But God gave the law to Moses that any woman caught in adultery should be stoned to death.If a married man sleeps with unmarried lady , there is no adultery there, but if a married woman sleeps with either a married man or unmarried man, she has committed adultery. So, man and woman are never equal , except we want to continue deceiving ourselves .

yvelchstores:
there is no excuse for a married woman to cheat.

OmaniPadmeHum:
Easy..


Married women cheat for all the silly excuses men give when men cheat too.

Let's see..


-Married women cheat because men wear tight chest and six packs revealing clothes
-Married women are polygamous in nature
-How can they eat only eguisi soup always
-It is in their hormones
-Their husbands grew fat and old
-Perhaps their husband wasn't performing his duties
-Maybe their husband refused to give them a head
-Their husbands are ugly and they are not sexually attracted to them any longer.
-It is now in our (Urban culture)
- Single men throw themselves at them often
-Because they can... Women cheat because they can
-Women can marry more than one husband-polyandry
- Women cheat because they can't be held down by one man
-Women cheat because their husbands nag them and beat them up



For every silly excuse men have given for cheating, the women can also give their version.





In that case, the women should also seek independence since they now have equal rights with men . You dont tell me the responsibilities of the home lies with me, and turn around to say we have equal rights. When I am virtually responsible for every expense at home, the next day a woman would turn around and tell me we have equal rights? She will have to build her own house and house me and the children there as well before we talk of equal rights. Not that I house the woman and our kids, feed and cater for everyone's needs , do the struggle and the hustle alone and then, when it comes to right, the woman would tell me she is equal to me. Or you wanna tell me a cab driver who leaves home by 5 am everyday to come back by 8pm has equal right with his wife who seats at home from 6-6? 90 percent of women is dependent. To make women really be equal to men on the matter of rights, you female folks need to solve that problem first.

Marry a jobless man and be catering for his problems, from time to time, send money to his family members for their upkeep. Establish him, bring his younger brother to the home and take up the responsibility of sending him to school. While I love equaliy, I surely hate it when it is one-sided. I can't count the numbers of men whose wives are jobless. Even those that are in business were mostly established by their men because it is the responsibility of the man to do so. How many women do so for thier husbands? How many women established their men ? maybe only 0.05% . Many men died before their wives due to stress and hustle while their wives were at home either doing nothing or doing some some soft jobs, and one of the ways a man will enjoy the fruits of his labour without thinking who eats his food when he is gone is spending some few times with a beautiful lady whom he has successfully enticed with his success. That is one of the things that gives a man the courage to hustle more . Dub me whatever you like, but remember that great men of God in the bible, all were polygamous and they also kept concubines and God never chastised any of them for doing so. But God gave the law to Moses that any woman caught in adultery should be stoned to death.If a married man sleeps with unmarried lady , there is no adultery there, but if a married woman sleeps with either a married man or unmarried man, she has committed adultery. So, man and woman are never equal , except we want to continue deceiving ourselves .

Youdondeymad:
Please explain more on your second point,cheers.





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chenzen:
l slept last night with pain after following a conversation between my wife and a randy guy... l had the pass code of her face book account... l saw all kinds of things in there!!!

Billyonaire:
Cheating will always continue until Man has learnt to master life before going into union of souls. Tribalism is a reflection of this secret. Every Soul has a source star system. As it is in Heaven so it is on Earth. If you are married to your town's girl, there is a great probability that she will love you and will not mess up because she considers the husband as her own root too. Dont let me wrong, this is just an illustration.

Soul mates are souls from same star system in the Cosmos. Before you get married, one is supposed to find out where the soul of his/her partner originate from, then almost always, you can work out the ego aspect of humans here which is a result of environment and experiential factors. This is not difficult to do. But any other love can only need a lot of efforts to be grow, but for soul mates. They already know each other on a soul level even though the ego is so naive. Soul mates connect like magnets and they fucck like rats and settle every fight with kiss and sex. Damn!

Guess what ? If you are married to woman or man who isnt your soul mate. Do a lot to keep her on your bed, yes do a lot. The moment she or meets a soul mate, not even your material possession will keep her from developing great feelings for a soul mate even when he or she has nothing else to offer except the smile and laughter and ofcourse a great moment. They wont care about your feelings when that time comes.

This is my input. Do not believe me.

Youdondeymad:
Please explain more on your second point,cheers.





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dsmooth1:
1.some of them marry out of self pity witout truly luving the guy
2.some find it very hard to forget thier ex
3.some marry cos of pressure here and there witout actually waiting for what they want
4.getting pregnant for the wrong guy and family insist that she must marry the guy
5.when the sex drive is very high and the guy very low or he is too busy
6.any lady that luv money too much will.cheat except she marries a very rich man

LegalBaby:
[color=deeppink]It’s not easy to have ‘good sex’ with the person you live with year in and year out.” When an affair takes place, it’s usually in a hotel room away from home where you can let go of your inhibitions and just fall into the moment. There is also less chance a discussion of kids brought up or one of the children will start knocking on the bedroom door, so women with high sex drives engage in affairs because simply put it that– the sex is better.[/color]

Chidex2442:
Marry an Nsukka woman and you won't bother kaif she cheats cos she knows the consequences

BabbanBura:
...you luv dic.ks ehn? gashi ina da babban Bura!

martineverest:
edo...ishan to be precise

Luvdk:
Most of them do not last up to 5mnts on....
Here they're running mouth
Mtcheeew!

basic23111:
its still understandable when man cheat but for woman is total nonsense and unacceptable.....