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Acidosis:
I am not broke, but I will never marry a woman with OP's mentality. I'd rather die a Bachelor.

Cinderella5:
spot on. No one praises a guy for his looks, his money speaks for him, while a girls looks goes makes way for her lots of the time.

BiafraBushBoy:
Gold diggers association.

Make I dey go, before them dig my gold finish!!

Safiaa:
What you're saying is not wrong. But in reality, what the girl is saying is true. Women are idolised and put on a pedestal, based on their beauty. It's unfair but that's the truth. Men are idolised by their finances. At the end of the day you can't pick and choose when you want to be treated equally with women. It doesn't work that way.

Acidosis:
You praise wealthy guys? You worship money?

Amarabae:
Sister, a guy being broke should not be a key issue if you as the lady have something doing to earn some money.
Must you be a financial liability in a relationship?
Even if the guy is broke, you can offer to him intelligent suggestion on how to come out of it, businesses he can venture in, how he can raise capital etc

Safiaa:
everything na talk. Talki talki. Who's talking about being a liability here? At the end of the day its not easy dating a guy who has less funds than you. Problems like insecurities, depression and all sorts will arise from this. Im talking from experience. Everybody wants to be a counselling therapist for their boyfriend on nl for likes, but in reality its a very frustrating experience. Ah beg be with somebody who is on your level or above. And if he's broke, he must have a serious plan to get out. I dont have time to be setting out a business plan for anyone.

Safiaa:
everything na talk. Talki talki. Who's talking about being a liability here? At the end of the day its not easy dating a guy who has less funds than you. Problems like insecurities, depression and all sorts will arise from this. Im talking from experience. Everybody wants to be a counselling therapist for their boyfriend on nl for likes, but in reality its a very frustrating experience. Ah beg be with somebody who is on your level or above. And if he's broke, he must have a serious plan to get out. I dont have time to be setting out a business plan for anyone.

Safiaa:
everything na talk. Talki talki. Who's talking about being a liability here? At the end of the day its not easy dating a guy who has less funds than you. Problems like insecurities, depression and all sorts will arise from this. Im talking from experience. Everybody wants to be a counselling therapist for their boyfriend on nl for likes, but in reality its a very frustrating experience. Ah beg be with somebody who is on your level or above. And if he's broke, he must have a serious plan to get out. I dont have time to be setting out a business plan for anyone.

bpee:
The question should be " who is a broke guy"?
Cos some guys earn 350k to 400k and are still broke,,they have so many bills to settle,,parents,family members they are sponsoring( including the growing ones) at the end the guy has little or nothing left,,while a guy who earns 100- 150k might have very few or no responsibilities at all?
So who is a broke guy?
Is it measured only on a guys' earnings?

Amarabae:
why must a guy financial stavs which can change be an issue.
Maybe its an issue for girls from poor family, if you are from a rich family, money will not be an issue in choosing a guy, havent you see a rich background girl marrying a poor guy and making him somebody?
Some of our mentality need to change pls.

kaboninc:
Does this applies to guys too?

Cinderella5:
girls aren't real here, they want to impress guys. You very correct.

Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?

DanXplore:
May God never give me a lady with your mentality. People like you will be serious financial liabilities even if you have a successful job. You will likely disagree but trust me, it is the truth.

LalaLushness:
Basically you don't even love the guy What you love is the money .... if not broke n love should not mix

Acidosis:
Sadly, that's the trade mark of pro. stitutes.

LalaLushness:
I see why you guys are hard on females ... self inflicted

Doctorfitz:
Now U're coming back to Nigeria... U're getting better at understanding them.

Cinderella5:
it's society, not me. When a community wants to give out chieftancy title, do they give broke men? It's the life we live in.

LalaLushness:
Trying dear but sometimes I struggle

Doctorfitz:
If U're struggling to then imagine what we (guys) pass through .hence u c y they are always being bashed..

Safiaa:
What you're saying is not wrong. But in reality, what the girl is saying is true. Women are idolised and put on a pedestal, based on their beauty. It's unfair but that's the truth. Men are idolised by their finances. At the end of the day you can't pick and choose when you want to be treated equally with women. It doesn't work that way.