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Tahrah:
[s][/s] This thread is trashy,most of the points don't apply here in Nigeria where women are treated like second class citizens.

pocohantas:
Anybody can do this, majority of them fall under emotional abuse and it's very wrong...emotional blackmail, guilt tripping, mind games...all emotional abuse.

It's not restricted to females, males are not the only victim of emotional abuse. Everyone should leave an abusive partner, you deserve better.

Ikillfools:
But women are the ones who always play the victim most. Emotional abuse is a game most women have 1st class degree in. Especially when they see a guy who truly loves them.

So don't make this seem like it goes both ways, cos I doesn't, not in the least bit.

thesicilian:
Second class citizens indeed! I laugh in Spanish. You need to get out more and see what your fellow Nigerian women are doing to their men.

pocohantas:
Okay. And men have 1st class degree in physical abuse.

Ikillfools:
My dear, physical pain heal, but emotional pain doesn't.

Gourdoinc:
[s]that man conversing with that poco hantas is wasting his time. that girl is slow. don't bother trying to make sense with her.[/s]

pocohantas:
LOL! Both are bad and we know it, but on a serious note... I think some of you guys enjoy this 'abuse'. Some girls also don't know it's abuse, to them they are being caring or possessive.

Tahrah:
Trash.

Ikillfools:
On the contrary, I think and believe it is you girls who enjoy the abuse more. Or, aren't you the one always screaming on threads for girls/women to leave abusive relationships?

pocohantas:
Okay then...

pocohantas:
LOL! Both are bad and we know it, but on a serious note...I think some of you guys enjoy this 'abuse'. Some girls also don't know it's abuse, to them they are being caring or possessive.


Still hurt? Time heals every wound.

decatalyst:
LAWMA representative, you are doing a wonderful job by sighting that

Gourdoinc:
stop quoting me. I don't like you please. gooday

pocohantas:
You do dear, with time you'll realise it. Have a nice day too.

MzLarem:
Well, some I'm guilty of but I didn't have the intention of abuse.

On the other hand, most girls continue cos their guy isn't complaining... If he is, they sure would stop.

Gourdoinc:
arrant rubbish. I admire brains, objectivity, a real woman not one with a Freudian malaise(pains from not having a penis). what sane man could like a woman with a "I compete with men syndrome ". I am sure u don't like me too because I get irritated by ur male insecurities. so you can abuse me back as expected for Wat I just wrote, but after that let's avoid each other. there is real hatred here. bye

Ikillfools:
with a boob like that and a dame to kill for, fuck_ the job men, I'm staying home and tapping that ass... continuously till I can't get it up any more, then my tongue and fingers will take over.

Cc: makyde=bbie.

xynerise:
Nah! They won't stop, they will pick offense and ask you to apologize for disturbing you.

makydebbie:

Ikillfools:
Still can't remember me, eh? LOL.

makydebbie:
I do, was confused. You never start a conversation with a small letter.

pocohantas:
I don't hate you or any other NLder. If you hate me, your stress...NL isn't that serious to me. I guess you forgot you're the one that mentioned and hurled insults at me. Sorry to disappoint you, I don't have plans of abusing you, I don't think I have ever done that.

I'll suggest you calm down...

Gourdoinc:
who hurled insults at you. I never did. plus I am calm. guess it's my stress to bear my hate. instead of you to apologize or try to calm someone down. nevertheless in all seriousness it's an overkill to state I hate you, I don't. maybe I just get riled up by most of ur views especially on man and woman matter. anyway it's ur views and ur entitled to it. I go dey close eyes when next u post something on a thread since it upsets me. anyway peace is golden and mature, thus have a lovely day

pocohantas:
Anybody can do this, majority of them fall under emotional abuse and it's very wrong...emotional blackmail, guilt tripping, mind games...all emotional abuse.

It's not restricted to females, males are not the only victim of emotional abuse. Everyone should leave an abusive partner, you deserve better.

The cartoon pictures are cute, and I think every man should love that. I'm an unrepentant bug...bite me

Ikillfools:
But women are the ones who always play the victim most. Emotional abuse is a game most women have 1st class degree in. Especially when they see a guy who truly loves them.

So don't make this seem like it goes both ways, cos I doesn't, not in the least bit.