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I have a relationship of just 2 months,I have tried my best in calls and everything to make my partner happy. we haven't had sex , but we both profess love to each other. at the first week of the relationship my partner told me she still loves her ex but left due to his random cheating with several ladies she also said she knows the guy loves her too. of recent she has told the guy that she is in a relationship and the guy is now telling her she shouldn't have moved on so fast that he still loves her,and that he is single. she later told me she does not love the guy anymore which I doubt. . so last night, she started telling me that I need to make her feel loved every moment, that she doesn't want to keep remembering her ex.. this statement made me feel she was comparing me with her ex, I got angry and asked her to return to her ex if he was that wonderful, I have done all I can, I give her the little I have and she said she was ok with it since I am vying for a better job in few months time. we agreed that she will meet my mum this month. I haven't cheated on her, we both agreed to a no sex relationship since we don't intend to date more than a year before getting married atleast we can cope. I give her my time, I update her as my dp often, we were just going fine before her ex started this distraction. and she believes an extra thing should be done to take her mind off her ex. please what else should I do coz am about to let it go.

It's obvious that she hasn't gotten over her ex and you were a rebound for her, nothing can be more annoying than watching a lady blabbing on about her ex.

But then again, maybe she doesn't want to make the same mistake again like in her previous relationship hence the comparison

Best thing to do at this time is to give each other a little space, so she can take her time and figure out what she truly wants

Follow These Two Steps.


Step 1: Open her head, locate the part of her brain that remembers her ex and wash it off then dry and close her head.

Step 2. Go to her ex and recover the part of her heart that's with him, take it back to her. Tell her to eat it. The heart, once inside will find its way to its place.

Thank Me After Your 15th Wedding Anniversary

Kondomatic:
Follow These Two Steps.


Step 1: Open her head, locate the part of her brain that remembers her ex and wash it off then dry and close her head.

Step 2. Go to her ex and recover the part of her heart that's with him, take it back to her. Tell her to eat it. The heart, once inside will find its way to its place.

Thank Me After Your 15th Wedding Anniversary

lol

Tiny23:
lol

You dey laugh? The lady is obviously not yet ready for another relationship. They've broken up but she hasn't moved on and it's just sad that the OP is already talking about taking her to mum and marriage.

cyril700:
I have a relationship of just 2 months,I have tried my best in calls and everything to make my partner happy. we haven't had sex , but we both profess love to each other. at the first week of the relationship my partner told me she still loves her ex but left due to his random cheating with several ladies she also said she knows the guy loves her too. of recent she has told the guy that she is in a relationship and the guy is now telling her she shouldn't have moved on so fast that he still loves her,and that he is single. she later told me she does not love the guy anymore which I doubt. . so last night, she started telling me that I need to make her feel loved every moment, that she doesn't want to keep remembering her ex.. this statement made me feel she was comparing me with her ex, I got angry and asked her to return to her ex if he was that wonderful, I have done all I can, I give her the little I have and she said she was ok with it since I am vying for a better job in few months time. we agreed that she will meet my mum this month. I haven't cheated on her, we both agreed to a no sex relationship since we don't intend to date more than a year before getting married atleast we can cope. I give her my time, I update her as my dp often, we were just going fine before her ex started this distraction. and she believes an extra thing should be done to take her mind off her ex. please what else should I do coz am about to let it go.

Obviously she's distracted by the very thought of the guy, and i'm pretty sure she still has feelings for him. You need to have a positive mind about this BUT you must thread carefully just so you don't get heartbroken in the long run....

It's a difficult situation, isn't it?

Truth is bitter, she enjoys the distraction from her ex, or what other reasons does she have for welcoming his calls and all?

Am more concerned with the sex part, what d Bleep is no sex before marriage?..is she a virgin?...if ur answer is No, den ure a confirm MUMU

No wonder she misses her ex

OP she is just using u to pass time. Leave her and move on.

zeelord:
Truth is bitter, she enjoys the distraction from her ex, or what other reasons does she have for welcoming his calls and all?

Am more concerned with the sex part, what d Bleep is no sex before marriage?..is she a virgin?...if ur answer is No, den ure a confirm MUMU

No wonder she misses her ex

lol guy calm down na, its just 2 months and she doesn't want it atleast 4 now, me too am not desperate for it.

a perfect gentleman



Dont worry mate after loads of heartbreak your factory setting shall be reset and your Heart made of steel

eosigwe:
OP she is just using u to pass time. Leave her and move on.

thanks bro

Mistake number 1, why agree on a no sex rlshp ? is she a virgin?to agree with that means to agree with oda guys straffing r at your back and besides 99% of ladies who say no sex rlshp are having it with some one else.
Secondly, bros,u are moving too fast biko. It is just two months into the rlshp and you are talking about meeting your parent; you have forgotten that one does not rush into marriage or risk being rushed out Maintain your calm and see how thing goes before doing such and i think its high time you call r and tell r to make choice between you and r ex. Make sure you have this stern look and make her understand that any time she talks about r ex,you would move on.
Finally,suspend your marriage plans for now and hustle. When the time comes,you would knw. For now,she has not made up her mind

starlingbawa:
Obviously she's distracted by the very thought of the guy, and i'm pretty sure she still has feelings for him. You need to have a positive mind about this BUT you must thread carefully just so you don't get heartbroken in the long run....

It's a difficult situation, isn't it?

it is my brother.

cyril700:
lol guy calm down na, its just 2 months and she doesn't want it atleast 4 now, me too am not desperate for it.

Beta wake up and give d that bleep or she gets it from r ex

gunners160:
Mistake number 1, why agree on a no sex rlshp ? is she a virgin?to agree with that means to agree with oda guys straffing r at your back and besides 99% of ladies who say no sex rlshp are having it with some one else.
Secondly, bros,u are moving too fast biko. It is just two months into the rlshp and you are talking about meeting your parent; you have forgotten that one does not rush into marriage or risk being rushed out.First,you are to maintain your calm and see how thing goes before doing such and lastly,I think its high time you call r and tell r to make t choice between you and r ex. Make sure you have this stern look and make her understand that any time she talks about r ex,you would move on.
finally,suspend your marriage plans for now and hustle. When the time comes,you would knw. For now,she has not made up her mind

thanks bro, she later apologised that she won't talk about d ex any longer and that she doesn't want to go back, but am sure dude still lives in her heart.

gunners160:
Beta wake up and give d that bleep or she gets it from r ex

lol bahd guy

cyril700:
lol guy calm down na, its just 2 months and she doesn't want it atleast 4 now, me too am not desperate for it.

Yes she doesnt want it with you, but would give her ex on a silver platter,am sure u do know the ex has got higher chances of bedding her again and again,it is obvious he misses d sex, it is how i cajole my ex to bed her, u can call me wicked i dont care, but this is me giving u a tip of reality, i hope ud be able to take the pain when she throws it to ur face ...i dont know why we ignore the simplest of signs.....

cyril700:
thanks bro, she later apologised that she won't talk about d ex any longer and that she doesn't want to go back, but am sure dude still lives in her heart.

Dont be deceived bro, act like it tho, but dont be fully vested, its obvious she is attracted to him....i wish u Godspeed

cyril700:
it is my brother.

Yeah, I've been there and i sure know how it feels...