flexxyworld:


don't forget the wise say that says ' a way too a man's heart his is stomach (literally food)', so food is a biggie in the Marriage and family, moreover you only perfected your cooking skills cus you wished and wanted too but does not apply too others. my general advise is; if you are comfortable with what she is right now, gladly walk her down the altar or else 'flee'.

rossyc:

Have seen women that are terrible cooks and they are still married for years. It's either the husband gets used to it, eat out sometimes or assist to cook atimes if he's a better Cook. To answer the question yes the marriage can work. He can even send her to a catering school if he's hell bent on her improving her cooking skills.

rossyc:

Have seen women that are terrible cooks and they are still married for years. It's either the husband gets used to it, eat out sometimes or assist to cook atimes if he's a better Cook. To answer the question yes the marriage can work. He can even send her to a catering school if he's hell bent on her improving her cooking skills.

marksleek25:
there is no man that gets "used" to bad cooking-take it to the bank! What kind of getting used to is that?!! So a man should get used to over salted rice at the expense of his bowel system?! Na wa o!

pmc01:
Na your type dey marry wife wey go dey carry manual cook last last.

cruchenuti:




My broda the thing weak me ooh

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chris31:
Its a must to me coz this indomie generation ladies have lost the desire & cooking skills.If she cant cook then she is not ready for marriage coz i dont joke with my stomach also i dont like eating outside

dominique:
There are a handful of meals I couldn't cook properly before I married and now I'm an expert at cooking them. Never use something like food as a yardstick for choosing a life partner. If she cooks fantastic meals and has a rotten attitude, will you still go ahead and marry such girl?

Wow, so you don marry sef??

kmcutez:


Who prepares your meal since you are not yet married?

subtlemee:
What if she buys food and package it like she cooked it since you are so bent on food testing,how will you now ascertain her cooking prowess before deciding to marry her?

Na God dey bless person for this marriage thing OP,no be by our might,if e good you thank am,e no good still thank am

sisisioge:


If I were a guy, I won't even marry a lady I haven't emmm let alone eaten her food. I'm a Christian! Let no body quote me.

thesicilian:
I'd never buy a car without test-driving it.

subtlemee:
What if she buys food and package it like she cooked it since you are so bent on food testing,how will you now ascertain her cooking prowess before deciding to marry her?

Na God dey bless person for this marriage thing OP,no be by our might,if e good you thank am,e no good still thank am

cruchenuti:
So I have this question that caused controversy today while I was hanging out with some female friends from church. About 8 of us. 2 Guys, 6 ladies.


So I said jokingly that I would never marry a lady that has never cooked for me OR that I have never eating her food. If a lady says she can cook and I have never eaten her food, How do I then believe that she can actually do what she says ?

O boy, come and see how these ladies reacted angrily. Saying stuff like Oh, So you want marry a servant that would just be cooking for you, Women are not your servants oh, blah blah blah.

Their main point was: If a lady says she can cook, A man should take her for her word. She can decide to cook out of her own will, she can also decide she will never cook while courting

I had to just calm the ladies down with jokes & pet them, make dem no come break my head.

And I'm wondering, Does this even make any sense ?

Arccangel:
E get girls wey dey cook scara but dem be terrible wives ni. My broda, if na food carry you enter marriage, wetin your eye go see, your belle no go fit carry am. Plus ladies, don't think that because you know how to cook that's the only thing that makes you wife material. These days, a guy fit leave person wey dey use chemistry cook jollof marry person wey no fit make cornflakes. Marriage no get formula.

NwaAmaikpe:
Not at all....
It is almost like getting married without shagging your partner.


That is how my neighbor's fiance used Indomie spice to make custard.

alizma:

those girls already gave you the answer you are looking for.
they told you the lady can decide out of her own WILL to either cook or not and I didn't read, except you forgot to type it, where the ladies probably said your own WILL would be frozen.
therefore, if the girl decide not to cook out of her own WILL, you can also decide to choose another girl to replace her out of your own WILL.

Arccangel:
E get girls wey dey cook scara but dem be terrible wives ni. My broda, if na food carry you enter marriage, wetin your eye go see, your belle no go fit carry am. Plus ladies, don't think that because you know how to cook that's the only thing that makes you wife material. These days, a guy fit leave person wey dey use chemistry cook jollof marry person wey no fit make cornflakes. Marriage no get formula.

Caustics:
that is even small. my neighbours wife used grounded ogbono to cook big pot of stew for the family this easter. She had to sleep at my place for 4 days because her husband wanted to kill her. the stew and chicken and meat all wasted. stew was drawing like draw soup. she said she thought it was crayfish

cruchenuti:


Bro, i said this exact words, and it got me in trouble this afternoon while we were arguing . I had to say i was joking.

Ishilove:
My neighbour's wife is a terrible cook but their marriage is waxing strong (I think) so food shouldn't be a yardstick. However, If a lady says she can cook please don't take her word for it. Find a way to lure her into cooking for you at least once. Feign illness or something but just get her to cook, otherwise you will spend the rest of your married life eating tasteless and flavourless meals like my poor neighbour.

The taste of the porridge is in the eating. Cooking for your man once in a while doesn't make you a slave to him.

Caustics:
that is even small. my neighbours wife used grounded ogbono to cook big pot of stew for the family this easter. She had to sleep at my place for 4 days because her husband wanted to kill her. the stew and chicken and meat all wasted. stew was drawing like draw soup. she said she thought it was crayfish

Ishilove:
My neighbour's wife is a terrible cook but their marriage is waxing strong (I think) so food shouldn't be a yardstick. However, If a lady says she can cook please don't take her word for it. Find a way to lure her into cooking for you at least once. Feign illness or something but just get her to cook, otherwise you will spend the rest of your married life eating tasteless and flavourless meals like my poor neighbour.

The taste of the porridge is in the eating. Cooking for your man once in a while doesn't make you a slave to him.