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Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by maxysmith(f): 2:23pm On Jun 14, 2017
oyetpel:
Is what am doing morally right?
yes ...and that is if u don't have anything with d girl till 18
At least New France President had been eyeing his teacher since he was 15 and the teacher was 30 something then.

Do you mean you're following his foot step?


My only concern is that i feel i should produce a child for my mom to be a grandma, but since my 2 sisters will marry in the next 1 to 4 years time respectively i think i should wait, cos am a man.
Are you d first born?
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jun 14, 2017
agrovick:
This is the gospel truth, every time I see an underage hawker I shed a silent tear. This is because this children never asked to be brought to suffer and considering we live in a competitive world; these kids are already been set up for a life of misery, discontentment because they simply are not equipped with the tools to compete with their privileged mates and this vicious cycle continues.

If you know you are a seks machine and you are not buoyant enough to raise kids, use protection or tie your gonads or something.

As for the Op, tell your fictitious uncle to eat sh.it grin
On point
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by moorevic(m): 3:01pm On Jun 14, 2017
Funky123:
Thanks hun.....I don hear,i hope Mr right is reading this
Be like say you don reach 39
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by moorevic(m): 3:05pm On Jun 14, 2017
Good advice bro but money is really important in any marriage. There is a difference between taking care of ones-selve and taking care of others. One need to be financially buoyant in other to cater for the needs of others.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by oyetpel(m): 3:18pm On Jun 14, 2017
maxysmith:
Are you d first born?
2nd born.

Am not following Macron's footsteps, i just cited his example.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by maxysmith(f): 3:21pm On Jun 14, 2017
ok.....but don't rush, you are still young
oyetpel:
2nd
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by kobhams: 3:23pm On Jun 14, 2017
True!! Life is what you make of it; you make a choice and you live up to it.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by oyetpel(m): 3:33pm On Jun 14, 2017
maxysmith:
ok.....but don't rush, you are still young
So, do you mean i should still hope on my 11 year girl?
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by maxysmith(f): 3:37pm On Jun 14, 2017
it depends on you......what if the girl later change her mind because of the age diff
oyetpel:
So, do you mean i should still hope on my 11 year girl?
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by oyetpel(m): 3:46pm On Jun 14, 2017
maxysmith:
it depends on you......what if the girl later change her mind because of the age diff
I am keeping my options open sha.

Though i feel she's into me, she's all over me when we see.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by maxysmith(f): 4:00pm On Jun 14, 2017
datz because she's still young
oyetpel:
I am keeping my options open sha.

Though i feel she's into me, she's all over me when we see.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by Funky123(f): 4:46pm On Jun 14, 2017
moorevic:
Be like say you don reach 39
Someone cannot even play with u ni.....No u don clock 45
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by moorevic(m): 7:00pm On Jun 14, 2017
Funky123:
Someone cannot even play with u ni.....No u don clock 45

Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by DesChyko: 9:43pm On Jun 14, 2017
fynestpotato:
As a man if u are still below 30 years of age marriage is not for you.
Error of overgeneralization.
If you can fend for your family and are mentally prepared for the compromises that marriage/family demands, that's all about it.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by BobbyDean(m): 11:55pm On Jun 14, 2017
I might not necessarily go on to marry @ the said ages but i think there's some reason in the op's write up. He didnt say lazy jobless mofos to go get a wife, he said if you feel you can give 2 extra ppl decent lives, why wait till you get a billi (which most dont get eventually). It's not totally out of place especially for guys that are dating decent girls that dont really mind your status( considering what 'slay queens' have turned the world into) right now. #Justsaying
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by saasala(m): 12:35am On Jun 15, 2017
oyetpel:
Is what am doing morally right?

At least New France President had been eyeing his teacher since he was 15 and the teacher was 30 something then.



My only concern is that i feel i should produce a child for my mom to be a grandma, but since my 2 sisters will marry in the next 1 to 4 years time respectively i think i should wait, cos am a man.
Wait, are you really serious about falling in love with an eleven year old girl. Are you serioushuhhuh??
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by oyetpel(m): 1:53am On Jun 15, 2017
saasala:
Wait, are you really serious about falling in love with an eleven year old girl. Are you serioushuhhuh??
Yes
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by oyetpel(m): 12:37pm On Jun 15, 2017
maxysmith:
datz because she's still young
Can we be friends??
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by tosyne2much(m): 1:00pm On Jun 15, 2017
BobbyDean:
I might not necessarily go on to marry @ the said ages but i think there's some reason in the op's write up. He didnt say lazy jobless mofos to go get a wife, he said if you feel you can give 2 extra ppl decent lives, why wait till you get a billi (which most dont get eventually). It's not totally out of place especially for guys that are dating decent girls that dont really mind your status( considering what 'slay queens' have turned the world into) right now. #Justsaying
May God bless your comprehension jawe.. I don't know why most people found it difficult to comprehend this simple write-up.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by kozmicity: 1:15pm On Jun 15, 2017
fynestpotato:
As a man if u are still below 30 years of age marriage is not for you.
Repeat after me!
Say:EYE...YAM...STEW...PEED

Thanks for your cooperation.
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by bigcp(m): 3:03pm On Jun 15, 2017
MARRIAGE MARRIAGE MARRIAGE!!!
MARRIAGE FIRE!!!
WHO MARRIAGE DON HELP THESE DAYS....
NO GO MAKE MUCH MONEY B4 MARRIAGE MK UR WIFE NAG U 2 DEATH....
MARRIAGE MY FOOT...I RATHER MAKE MORE MONEY...MORE MONEY....MORE MONEY AND MORE MONEY...FOR MY UNBORN CHILDREN/GRAND CHILDREN....MARRIAGE IS THE LAST THING ON MY MIND....(THAT'S IF I'M TO GET MARRIED)...BUT I'LL DEFINITELY MAKE BABIES....
WITH D RATE OF INFIDELITY AND DIVORCE THESE DAYS....I DON'T THINK MARRIAGE IS D REAL DEAL...
BROTHERS MK MORE MONEY B4 ALLOWING THAT BULLSHIT TOT TO CROSS UR INFANT MIND...MARRIAGE NA ANOTHER JOURNEY ALTOGETHER (NA LIFE CAGE)...NO B DIS OUR GENERATION U GO MARRY WIFE N EXPECT HER TO GV U MAXIMUM RESPECT...WHILE SHE DE SUFFER UNDER UR ROOF....NA LAST 2 GENERATIONS WE DE SEE THOSE TYPE OF WOMEN...NOT 2DAY...
BE WISE FELLASSSSS....
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by dmgr(op): 4:51pm On Jun 15, 2017
C:lala
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by Asquare49(m): 5:25pm On Jun 15, 2017
Funky123:
Lol....Future hubby is reading but not you
have u seen the future?
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jun 15, 2017
Nice one OP.

I make this announcement on behalf of my manager.
Here is his financial status

1. Salary N550,000 per month (net pay)
2. House in Victoria Island (rented)
3. A nice 2014 Toyota Corolla.
4. A dry cleaning business
5. A boutique in Ajah Axis of Lagos.

Ladies please catch this guy on time...
Age is 31 years and his mom is complaining he hasn't brough a wife yet
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by Funky123(f): 5:51pm On Jun 15, 2017
Asquare49:
have u seen the future?
Am seeing it here ni
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by Stlomo1s(f): 6:10pm On Jun 15, 2017
hmm I tink I support wat d op says.........lemme share dis wonderful piece.......am 23 yrs now and am born into family of 6,me being d first born of my mum but third born of my dad meaning I have 3junior sisters,one elder bro and sis......hmmm my mum gave birth at a very tender age but do u knw wat?she died seven year ago.....talking abt having money b4 settling downhuhwat if I tell u my mum have every tin she needs 2 take care of us but she died.....can u guys imagine wat we wud av gone tru in her absencehuh? shud I blame her 4 giving birth at early age or y she died wen she knows she can't stay wit us 4 longhuh?hmmmm life is short........u Neva can tell whether u gonna live long or wen dude will b getting rich......but tank God today am not
her 4 giving birth 2 me neither am I blaming her 4 not staying with us........wat if she decided 2 abort den all because she doesn't have money den.........just keep praying 2 God 4 guidance........u can't predict ur life neither can u given it a probability...........a person food can b another man poison.....stay blessed embarassedhmm I tink I support wat d op says.........lemme share dis wonderful piece.......am 23 yrs now and am born into family of 6,me being d first born of my mum but third born of my dad meaning I have 3junior sisters,one elder bro and sis......hmmm my mum gave birth at a very tender age but do u knw wat?she died seven year ago.....talking abt having money b4 settling downhuhwat if I tell u my mum have every tin she needs 2 take care of us but she died.....can u guys imagine wat we wud av gone tru in her absencehuh? shud I blame her 4 giving birth at early age or y she died wen she knows she can't stay wit us 4 longhuh?hmmmm life is short........u Neva can tell whether u gonna live long or wen dude will b getting rich......but tank God today am not
her 4 giving birth 2 me neither am I blaming her 4 not staying with us........wat if she decided 2 abort den all because she doesn't have money den.........just keep praying 2 God 4 guidance........u can't predict ur life neither can u given it a probability...........a person food can b another man poison.....stay blessed
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by Asquare49(m): 6:16pm On Jun 15, 2017
Funky123:
Am seeing it here ni
u never can tell bae...☑
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by maxysmith(f): 9:31am On Jun 16, 2017
y not
oyetpel:
Can we be friends??
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by oyetpel(m): 9:35am On Jun 16, 2017
maxysmith:
y not
Ok sis
Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 22 To 28 by NSK4U(m): 1:18pm On Aug 16, 2017
tosyne2much:
I don't really agree with you.. What perpetual penury are you talking about? That the write-up encourages people never to despise little beginning and that they should not hesitate to start up their own family in a little way, if those dream houses and millions fail to come as planned?
ur opinion though but if u must know;

early marriage for people who aren't financially ok leads to little or no happiness for both the couple and their children. when a man marries, he also marries his wife's responsibilities and to his own family too (in case u r forgetting, feeding, schooling, health of the man's children) (taking care of parents who would also be looking up on u as well as in-laws) though d man may b hardworking, it would be difficult to improve his initial financial status prio marriage which would enable him take care of his responsibilities. thus, when he turns to over thinking, frustration sets in, he resorts to habits alien to the family like excessive drinking, smoking, and finally channelling the remaining energy on his wife as his only affordable enjoyment, and in some cases, wrestling opponent especially when the wife asks for money, and the whole house would be filled with children. d future of the children would be left for fate. Vit. Nweze said "always prepare well of ur bed to lie well in it"........ so finance should never be underestimated as basic criteria for sound marriage.
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