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That is not true. Please don't judge.

Amarabae:
A lady thhave the boldness to wish her father(who is her blood) Dead CAN NEVER spare the husband.

Mindfulness:
I have NOT read the entire initial post ... too depressing.

I am surprised though you solely focused on her "hatred" (I would call it pain) and have not mentioned the cruelty she went through.

I guess I never saw it that way...

Anyway I still think she deserves to be truly happy and she can only do that by not letting her past hurt to rule her (yes I know, easier said than done but it's not impossible)

Fkforyou:
I guess I never saw it that way...

Anyway I still think she deserves to be truly happy and she can only do that by not letting her past hurt to rule her (yes I know, easier said than done but it's impossible)

Words of wisdom. Yes!

Oyindidi:
Adorable, you need help. I can feel your hate from your post. Not all men are like your father. I went through all your post, your husband should be your next of kin not your brother.

Can we chat in private?

Husband or child?

You guys are getting it all wrong!

The lady is all wired up to hate men. I'm afraid she might hate her son as he grows older. All she needs now is a big, black prick like mine to sedate her.

Mindfulness:
I have NOT read the entire initial post ... too depressing.

I am surprised though you solely focused on her "hatred" (I would call it pain) and have not mentioned the cruelty she went through.

Hmmm she made it through the pain. The father has begged severally. She's remained hateful and spiteful. She's truly imprisoned by her hate.

The first thing i thought off when i saw this thread was that you are mocking her, there are better ways to help than this

smellingmenses:
No need to mock her at all.

You are a fool. I am sure you will end up like her father someday. Dont worry they wont forgive u, u will never have that luxury

coolcatty:
Shiiity headed lost girl...sounding like the average Mis-informed feminist...your dad maltreated your mom blah blah...what of the things your mom did to your dAd?....you should hate your parents equally..they did a terrible job raising you....your hate level is just too much.

Your husband is also not a Christian and serves no God for him to be stuck with a debased soul like you as a wife....even atheists get lucky and hooked with te best of women....I pity the guy...he is lost and will never know what happiness is all about.

I would have arranged for your assassination if you were my wife....you are messed up and a huge negative influence to the world in general.

funmisticqueen:
You are a fool. I am sure you will end up like her father someday. Dont worry they wont forgive u, u will never have that luxury

Ok

Are you done?

Darling, i wont say i understand, i dont, but i know one thing, your father does deserves the way you treat him, he had it coming.
Life is not an africa magic yoruba film where men do all sort and expect forgiveness.

My point is that you need to forgive him, i am not asking you to hug and kiss him or be his best friend, hell no. I am asking you to release all that anger and pain from him and let it scatter to the wind. Just LET IT GO! DO NOT HOLD IT AGAINST HIM.Trust me your heart will feel light like a newborn b4 everything happened. It will be chased away like a bad dream,

When was the last time you were truly light and free, truly felt joy, smiled at life's little blessings.

Do this not for mummy, or hubby, or son, but for YOU only, your skin needs to look younger than your age. Unforgiveness makes you bitter, then you spread it to everyone you meet, soon people walk out of your life then you end up dieing as miserable as you wanted him to die.

Be a big girl and forgive. It is still the hardest but most necessary thing to do.

missyadorable:
Lol..Don't allow that be your concern

Anyway,Thanks for making me trend

I am enjoying the attention
It's a faceless forum

Yes, although, plenty more where that came from.

coolcatty:
Ok

Are you done?

funmisticqueen:
Yes, although, plenty more where that came from.

Ok....kindly round up your tirade so I can respond appropriately.

funmisticqueen:
Yes, although, plenty more where that came from.

Still waiting.....

missyadorable:
Joblessness

I blame Buhari

Hi how are you doing?