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Lol, Miss Onazi said "where's the man? Seriously who wants to add another mouth to his income when he's not even satisfied with the one he's receiving? Make God help us all.

Noted! Noted!

Some guys are struggling, so they don't want a situation where the woman/wife starts berating them for not having money.

Evaberry:
I can't wait for when Africa will stop seeing marriage as a priority

Even God prioritized it... So who're we

I absolutely pity women from the East, especially Imo. Bride price and money spent on marriage introduction procedures alone makes one wonder whether the potential wife has diamonds and oil well in her "playground".

However, it is evident that the country is hard so single men are just careful. The single ladies too should be patient, pray to God and never worry about situations they themselves cannot help; after all marriage isn't everything as some people regret ever getting married.
Best wishes

True gist....

Ladies pray to God to lead to a and a boy and note that it's not age that makes a man. No matter the economy men always marry but even in the most prosperous economy, boys will always have reasons why they cannot marry. And as for you ladies, be a woman that a man can marry.

It is real sha. But some of those women too raised the bar so high that men of average means and reasonable men get scared. But why is it that the interview only centered on our sisters from the East in Lagos?

Evaberry:
I can't wait for when Africa will stop seeing marriage as a priority

why will someone marry a lady like you for instance ? Only for you to call their mother a witch. This is the very reason men are scared to get married.
Yeah I saw your post

Am i the only one that noticed in the write up that the vox pop interviewee were IPOBS

Be consoling yourself

Evaberry:
I can't wait for when Africa will stop seeing marriage as a priority

Anuoluwapo3054:
Am i the only one that noticed in the write up that the vox pop interviewee were IPOBS

. No, these ones also noticed it

themonk:
ladies keep calm

i am an ibo man but i will marry 50 wives to ease una situation

I doubt if you're truly one of us otherwise you would have known it's "Igbo" and not "Ibo"

I think finding the right girl to marry is the problem here.


No man wants to marry a woman who is after his money alone.

For the past 1 yr now, all u have been seeing is fair face and dark body parts. Meaning that our women ain't real( fake). Who wants to spend so much on bride price only to end up with a fake girl?

ijustdey:
“Now I have dedicated my service to God, If I see husband, fine, If i don’t see glory be to God” Azubuike said.

I no fit laugh

eleojo23:
Na person wey see food chop first go think of marriage.

I don't know how long it will take us to get out of this mess that Buhari and his gang have put us in this country.

Smh

My brother, You are so so on point... Am 28 n my babe is 24, seriously disturb me 4 conjugation... pleading her for 2-3 yrs to come but she is now feel like fed up ni oo.

Evaberry:
I can't wait for when Africa will stop seeing marriage as a priority

In the west that you're so eager to emulate, they're suffering from a shortage of lasting marriages. Most of them are putting programs in place to encourage marriage and child-bearing.

Where have you heard that a country appointed a minister of sex? Yes. It happened in Spain of recent.

Somewhere in Denmark or so, a travel company rolled out a vacation package that a parent can buy for his/her son/daughter to go on with a person of opposite sex with the hope that someone will get pregnant while they're away.

Marriage is a priority if a people must survive. There is a problem, but pretending that marriage is not worth its weight in gold won't make it go away.

na person wey chop belle food they think of marriage for this ressesion

Any fine lady out there willing to pay me dowry,
I volunteer my services....with great sacrifice.
This is how I would cry at night. ..

kingjabz:
Recession fall on you

I don fall from bus oooooo

Nairaland.com can help by creating a plantform where singles can meet to tingle.
Actually d economic situation is not helping at all. But still an individual will get married one day.

ademidedavid:
we guys are only taking our time and looking forward to seeing their real face coz most of them na foundation dem plaster for face

...dat meme though

Haha... husband don scarce. But why OP come use Bimbo Akintola Picture

chronique:
Ok. For most men, it's fear of being financially incapable. For others, it's not meeting the kind of women they want. But honestly, if we want to remedy this situation, it's not so much a hard thing. Return most of the jobs to the men and by so doing, you'd be empowering them financially to take up responsibility.

Give the job to a woman who becomes comfortable and starts searching for a partner who refuses to turn up because he doesn't want to be seen as incapable and a gold digger. At the end, he remains single and she remains single.


Give the job to a man and empower him financially to take up responsibility and he gets married and can afford to take care of his wife from it. She gets off the single market and so does he.


Looking at both scenarios, which makes more sense? Obviously the second. But unfortunately, we live in an era where more jobs are being assigned to the women and at the end of the day, the society at large ends up suffering it.

this this the best comment I have ever seen in my life, I mean it. it is the best, u deserve an award

Evablizin:
No be to marry be the problem na the wahala weh dey inside people weh marry self de run out like flash eg churchill and tonto,mercy and lan wat i don forget self,ladies and gentlemen make una shine eyes very well

what about 2face and ani ...olu Jacobs and him wife ..those women u cited all married for d wrong reasons..MONEY...that's y their husbands didn't respect them..

After dem don use guys do shakara for young age. Who is to be blamed?

i notice that all the interviewed single ladies are all from the east where their pride price can send the newly wedded couple to anywhere in the world to start a new life.