alexialin:





Of course!

So I should quickly divorce and pack out of my home , abi?

Abeg! Counselling and talking about it. Is the way forward !

How many men will I marry and divorce!

As long as he doesn't rub it on my face !

I will stil stick with him
I will never divorce !

Hate my idea ? I don't fucvking care.

Never said I hated ur idea. Its actually cool.
I think there's lack of understanding and patience in our marriage system these days.
But tell me, why do the men always get it soft?
Anyway, divorce is bad but sometimes could b the only option to free yourself.

asuustrike2009:

The African mentality is driving some people crazy. If she marries another man it's her business .why would someone condone men cheating and roar at women? This kind of phenomenon is responsible for feminism

You are dead wrong. It was his first time, why couldn't she just work it out and move on. There's no African mentality here, some high ranking celebs have encountered same but it was solved and their marriages didn't crash.

NwaAmaikpe:


We must have the same throwbacks for Adesua Etomi And Bankole Wellington.
Also for Ogbonna Kanu and Laura Ikeji

Insha Allah

wish them well if you want yours to be well idiat

kilode100:




All this humgry bloggers under the payroll of Churchill, God is watching you all...



'She' is trying to educate single females on how to endure a cheating and violet marriage...


Shame on you and if you don't feel insulted about the fact that Churchill rubbed his concubine in his wife's face , battering het repeatedly then something is wrong with you...


How was your growing up? Rape, emotional/ physical abuse?....

Madam, you need help!!

Please stop shouting joor. There is absolutely no evidence that Tonto was ever beaten by her husband. On the contrary, we have corroboration from the Ghanaian police, some Nigerian bloggers who went to Ghana to investigate and from neighbors that Tonto is the that is the terrorist. She destroys all the electronics and furniture in Churchill's house just because she's angry.

This is a woman that said Churchill beat her so much she lost a few months old pregnancy. Church Hill challenged her to name the hospital where the dead foetus was evacuated. Or madam, you don't know when a woman looses a pregnancy, there must be an evacuation? Tonto has remained dumb.

She said she had to run almost naked to the Nigerian embassy. The embassy has said nothing like that happened.

Churchill has said severally
that he has cctv footage of her destroying his home in Ghana and after that his mother's home in Lekki just a day to the house warming, which was what actually led to the separation.

I never once heard the very daring Tonto telling him to go ahead and make the footage public if it is indeed true. The Tonto we know will waste no time in challenging him thus if the churchhill was lying.

If Churchill didn't beat her up the first time he destroyed his home, which actually several months before they got married, it's definitely not a violent man.

I believe what Churchill said, after the 2nd incident, when she destroyed his mother's home, he thought he was going to go public with the incident, so she acted by going public with fake stories of her being beaten up and harassed by her husband. Tonto is actually the harrasser.

Anyway, I believe most people that matters, especially in the entertainment industry know the truth.

She even carried the guys expensive SUV and sold it. She admitted that in the interview she did. I guess she had to because that can easily be proven. He excuse was she needed some money to do whatever and whatever.

Yet the man didn't press charges against her because that's simply a matter of theft.

I beg shift joor ; Tonto is liar and a lunatic.

Don't see her any Nigerian man asking for her hand in marriage again. That one I'm so certain of.

Okay, Churchhill had something with some other women. 98% of women with rich and powerful husband has experienced such.

This is same Tonto who use has dated many women's husband. Nonsense.

djkall:


I believe at the end of the fight you will now step in as the promoter and present the record breaking trophy to the winner right?
Leave marital affairs to the matured minds.
This topic is too big for you
Please go to the next one

And you are the one who is matured clap for yourself. Nonsense

alexialin:







How you wish?
Na your type yahoo boys plus will behead and use for money rituals!

Then vultures will feed on the rest of your corpse . Ode!
Keep divorcing and fucvking millions of guys until u are used for rituals.

Hahahahahahahah

Rubbish keep talking trash cheat on your wife/ girl friend believe me thunder would fire you. Ladies are getting wise these days its not those days when you cheat and get away with it ,cheat and that silly manhood of yours will be cut into pieces

Omonigeriarere:


Let her continue moving nau. And what happens when her next heart rob cheats too? Moving on again shey?

She will move tire.

So its a tradition that every Man Must cheat in his marriage ? Please where is it written let me know

NwaAmaikpe:


We must have the same throwbacks for Adesua Etomi And Bankole Wellington.
Also for Ogbonna Kanu and Laura Ikeji


Insha Allah

stop dat, don't wish dem evil ok

alexialin:
Na wa!

Tonto fucvk up sha.


Even when kanye west sang on one of his songs that he had fuçvked one popular female musician abroad , Kim over looked it and marriage goes on. And I bet she warned kanye in closed doors to be careful and discreet with his side chicks .
Even when Jayz cheated on Beyonce , they had a rough patch initially , and Beyonce sister attack jay Z with blows in an elevator but at the end Beyonce still made up her mind to stil keep her home but warned jayz to be discreet with his affairs .
I wonder when will Nija celebs under this fact and just try and keep their marriage , especially when the guilty party is sober and want the marriage to work.

And these two women Beyonce and Kim kardasian are two of amongst the most sexiest women alive, worldwide . Sought after by so many men round the world .
But they still stood by their cheating husband's.

I know its very painful when one cheats on his or her companion . but hey live goes on . seat your partner dwn talk about it and give him or her another chance.

Thats my view sha

can u over look ur cheating wife

preccy69:
can u over look ur cheating wife

Abeg help me ask oh , If a man cheats its normal and should be tolerated ,If a woman now cheats it becomes an atrocity. Nonsense people

Forgot all those things you see other celebrities are saying concerning how their marriages are waxing stronger and other stuffs like dat. Na lie, the truth is that celebrity marriages are like fresh vegetables which perishes in a short while as they can only manage to live together with endurance as long as they can

kilode100:




All this humgry bloggers under the payroll of Churchill, God is watching you all...



'She' is trying to educate single females on how to endure a cheating and violet marriage...


Shame on you and if you don't feel insulted about the fact that Churchill rubbed his concubine in his wife's face , battering het repeatedly then something is wrong with you...


How was your growing up? Rape, emotional/ physical abuse?....

Madam, you need help!!

my dear, I'm neither a blogger nor Mr. Churchill payee. didn't you see my last post where I wrote "when there is no office workload, one becomes work no pay for internet. I just saw these stuffs on one of her pages in instagram and just decided to share it in nairaland. I believe people will find if interesting and it will cheer some people up. how I wish I was paid for this research. as a research analyst. lol

Agozie48:


So its a tradition that every Man Must cheat in his marriage ? Please where is it written let me know

Nobody is saying that it is a tradition, but I want you to realise that cutting of head is not the best solution to headache.

Leaving a man cos of cheating is like leaving Nigeria for America cos of rain: it rains everywhere.

However, our tradition favours men in this aspect: a man with multiple sexual partners may be seen as champions while a woman with multiple sexual partners is seen as a LovePeddler.

So, if she leaves a man cos of cheating, what gives her assurance that her next spouse won't be worse?

That's just it.

ollah1:


You are dead wrong. It was his first time, why couldn't she just work it out and move on. There's no African mentality here, some high ranking celebs have encountered same but it was solved and their marriages didn't crash.

Would you accept your wife if she cheats on you?

asuustrike2009:

Would you accept your wife if she cheats on you?

It depends . You?

ollah1:


It depends . You?

So you see what I mean about Africa mentality. Why did you say it depends?

double0seven:


Please stop shouting joor. There is absolutely no evidence that Tonto was ever beaten by her husband. On the contrary, we have corroboration from the Ghanaian police, some Nigerian bloggers who went to Ghana to investigate and from neighbors that Tonto is the that is the terrorist. She destroys all the electronics and furniture in Churchill's house just because she's angry.

This is a woman that said Churchill beat her so much she lost a few months old pregnancy. Church Hill challenged her to name the hospital where the dead foetus was evacuated. Or madam, you don't know when a woman looses a pregnancy, there must be an evacuation? Tonto has remained dumb.

She said she had to run almost naked to the Nigerian embassy. The embassy has said nothing like that happened.

Churchill has said severally
that he has cctv footage of her destroying his home in Ghana and after that his mother's home in Lekki just a day to the house warming, which was what actually led to the separation.

I never once heard the very daring Tonto telling him to go ahead and make the footage public if it is indeed true. The Tonto we know will waste no time in challenging him thus if the churchhill was lying.

If Churchill didn't beat her up the first time he destroyed his home, which actually several months before they got married, it's definitely not a violent man.

I believe what Churchill said, after the 2nd incident, when she destroyed his mother's home, he thought he was going to go public with the incident, so she acted by going public with fake stories of her being beaten up and harassed by her husband. Tonto is actually the harrasser.

Anyway, I believe most people that matters, especially in the entertainment industry know the truth.

She even carried the guys expensive SUV and sold it. She admitted that in the interview she did. I guess she had to because that can easily be proven. He excuse was she needed some money to do whatever and whatever.

Yet the man didn't press charges against her because that's simply a matter of theft.

I beg shift joor ; Tonto is liar and a lunatic.

Don't see her any Nigerian man asking for her hand in marriage again. That one I'm so certain of.

Okay, Churchhill had something with some other women. 98% of women with rich and powerful husband has experienced such.

This is same Tonto who use has dated many women's husband. Nonsense.

Stop shouting..

asuustrike2009:

So you see what I mean about Africa mentality. Why did you say it depends?

African mentiality or not, homes are ruined more these days in Africa courtesy of copying all of Western ways which shouldn't be. Our mothers weren't fools to have accepted this cheating husbands back, If they had acted like these new gen ladies, bastards and broken homes would have been the order of the day.

ollah1:


African mentiality or not, homes are ruined more these days in Africa courtesy of copying all of Western ways which shouldn't be. Our mothers weren't fools to have accepted this cheating husbands back, If they had acted like these new gen ladies, bastards and broken homes would have been the order of the day.

Our mothers were enduring marriages.marriage is to be enjoyed not endured. It has nothing to do with western civilization

asuustrike2009:

Our mothers were enduring marriages.marriage is to be enjoyed not endured. It has nothing to do with western civilization

Endurance is part of marriage. If a man isn't man enough for his wife, should she seek funds on the streets ? Come on dude. It has everything to do with western civilization. Where did Nigerian ladies got the ideas of feminism from? Feminism didn't even work during the days of the old

ollah1:



Endurance is part of marriage. If a man isn't man enough for his wife, should she seek funds on the streets ? Come on dude. It has everything to do with western civilization. Where did Nigerian ladies got the ideas of feminism from? Feminism didn't even work during the days of the old

It did work but wasn't pronounced. We are not talking of funds here but infidelity. Our African traditional doesn't favour the female folk when it comes to that. It tends to manipulate it's way to favour men that they use vodooism to scare women. If a man commits infidelity, he should pay the consequences likewise women. Until we get it right in this part of the world, femininism will be on the rise.

Omonigeriarere:


Nobody is saying that it is a tradition, but I want you to realise that cutting of head is not the best solution to headache.

Leaving a man cos of cheating is like leaving Nigeria for America cos of rain: it rains everywhere.

However, our tradition favours men in this aspect: a man with multiple sexual partners may be seen as champions while a woman with multiple sexual partners is seen as a LovePeddler.

So, if she leaves a man cos of cheating, what gives her assurance that her next spouse won't be worse?

That's just it.

You are just confusing yourself ,its not a tradition, but however our African Tradition favours men in this aspect, I don hear ,God forbid you marry a woman or you are married to a woman who don't tolerate cheating, Cheat on her then you will know that the tradition doesn't favour men or women in any aspect. A Man who cheats on his wife is not A Man he is a Mor*n that deserves to be castrated

asuustrike2009:

It did work but wasn't pronounced. We are not talking of funds here but infidelity. Our African traditional doesn't favour the female folk when it comes to that. It tends to manipulate it's way to favour men that they use vodooism to scare women. If a man commits infidelity, he should pay the consequences likewise women. Until we get it right in this part of the world, femininism will be on the rise.

Thank You , You deserve the best in life. I was listening to one guy say that the woman he would marry must do some form of Voodoo for him so she wouldn't cheat on him but he himself is free to cheat on the woman . Rub*ish mtchewwwwwww if the so called African tradition favours men to cheat it should also favour women the Same way not being biased .

Agozie48:




You are just confusing yourself ,its not a tradition, but however our African Tradition favours men in this aspect, I don hear ,God forbid you marry a woman or you are married to a woman who don't tolerate cheating, Cheat on her then you will know that the tradition doesn't favour men or women in any aspect. A Man who cheats on his wife is not A Man he is a Mor*n that deserves to be castrated

Continue deceiving yourself. Every man has the tendency cheat and the one not doing so is just trying.

However, are those men fu**ING their males counterparts? If a man that cheats is supposed to be castrated, what then is the punishment meant for cheating women?

I am not saying this cos I have the intention to do such, but from my experience in my residential area alone, I know what my eyes have seen living with women in the same compound. A woman who doesn't wants his husband to engage in such act has a lot to do.

Only God's grace has sustained me: the green lights/methodology are unbearable.

Agozie48:


Thank You , You deserve the best in life. I was listening to one guy say that the woman he would marry must do some form of Voodoo for him so she wouldn't cheat on him but he himself is free to cheat on the woman . Rub*ish mtchewwwwwww if the so called African tradition favours men to cheat it should also favour women the Same way not being biased .

Exactly. If you challenge them on this they can't give any substantial backing to their point. They are quick to condemn western civilization but same folk are enjoying western civilization in terms of good education, good standard of living. When they commit actrocities, they're quick to refer to Africa value, culture but when the female folks does that the term it western civilization. It's not as if the west are better but we here are worst of in our dealings.

Omonigeriarere:


Continue deceiving yourself. Every man has the tendency cheat and the one not doing so is just trying.

However, are those men fu**ING their males counterparts? If a man that cheats is supposed to be castrated, what then is the punishment meant for cheating women?

I am not saying this cos I have the intention to do such, but from my experience in my residential area alone, I know what my eyes have seen living with women in the same compound. A woman who doesn't wants his husband to engage in such act has a lot to do.

Only God's grace has sustained me: the green lights/methodology are unbearable.

Its a Lie you have the intention to do it oh stop deceiving yourself "Every Man has the tendency to cheat and the ones who don't are trying". So in essence every Man is supposed to cheat on their wife? Don't get me wrong I know that there are women who cheat on their husband's but if you check the percentage you would see a huge difference . So in essence since there is tendency for every man to cheat why not forget about getting married ,just continue flirting around from girl to girl that one is better off than keeping a woman you call wife a.k.a Baby factory who is just good for producing babies for you , being a full time housewife while you go out and cheat on her . Don't worry God is watching all of You the day His anger will descend on you men you will forever regret it

asuustrike2009:

Exactly. If you challenge them on this they can't give any substantial backing to their point. They are quick to condemn western civilization but same folk are enjoying western civilization in terms of good education, good standard of living. When they commit actrocities, they're quick to refer to Africa value, culture but when the female folks does that the term it western civilization. It's not as if the west are better but we here are worst of in our dealings.

Are you listening to them ? Leave them, am so sick of those stupid and silly reasons they give

alexialin:




Of course she is happily married

She choose to be happy and she handles her home properly and Jay z still wants to be married to her . So its a convenient situation .

There are times at home , i need to move heavy objects around or buy heavy things .. My dear anytime, one of the sellers Boy's helps to carry these heavy stuffs ! I heave a sigh of relief and am like its good to have a man around !
When I need to change my tyre ? My neighbour a guy comes around to help me and am like ? Its good to have a man at home !

A big huge rat tried entering through my bathroom, mehn the sight was scary , it was so big!
Guess who I knocked on his door? My married neighbour, they were already asleep, but hey we help each other in the compound. The wife called who is it ? It was around 12midnight , I woke up to go and pee ,when I saw this gigantic rat wriggling to enter my flat ! I screamed and had to knock on their door, cos I ain't sleeping in that flat with a screaming rat who got jammed in the bathroom hole, where water passes , I didn't know the rat removed the net and tried forcing its way in.

So the wife was like who's that? I said its me o! I called my name and I was like pls open the door abeg ! Its urgent !
She opened with sleepy eyes and asked what happened !

With frightened eyes I said please can I borrow yur husband ?
She said what happened ? Then husband came to the door when he heard my voice . I said there's a huge rat trying to enter thru my bathroom, I take God beg u come help me , pls.

I forgot I was wearing a nightie.lol
The husband with sleepy eyes said ok, gimme a minute am coming . he washes his face and searched for a big stick.
And he helped me out. He killed the big gigantic rat . as he was hitting rat I was screaming , even as the rat was screaming .lol it was horrific and terrible that night .
That night I will never forget!

He then pulled it out dead ,mehn! Jeez! So irritating .. Mehn, he nearly stopped but I said look except u want me to come and sleep in yur house ? I take God beg u don't stop now. U are almost done !
He looked at me and shook his head and continued

He sha killed and removed it

And he threw it out of the compound.. Ha! I was so relieved . the wife was outside waiting for him .lol.
And I got back in my flat and realised I was wearing only short see thru nighties
Oh well! His wife will understand. And she did.

My dear, a man is important in the house , abeg!

lol yes every woman need a man vice versa, your write up do got me cracked up

Agozie48:



Its a Lie you have the intention to do it oh stop deceiving yourself "Every Man has the tendency to cheat and the ones who don't are trying". So in essence every Man is supposed to cheat on their wife? Don't get me wrong I know that there are women who cheat on their husband's but if you check the percentage you would see a huge difference . So in essence since there is tendency for every man to cheat why not forget about getting married ,just continue flirting around from girl to girl that one is better off than keeping a woman you call wife a.k.a Baby factory who is just good for producing babies for you , being a full time housewife while you go out and cheat on her . Don't worry God is watching all of You the day His anger will descend on you men you will forever regret it

Hahaha... It seems that your husband is cheating on you clearly to your face and you are frustrated emotionally.

Prayer can change things, but forgive him first cos moving from one man to another changes nothing and your newly anticipating man might be worse. If Jesus can forgive adulterous woman, you need to too.

I am a man whose wife will be proud of anyday, anytime.

Agozie48:


Abeg help me ask oh , If a man cheats its normal and should be tolerated ,If a woman now cheats it becomes an atrocity. Nonsense people

don't mind dem mtcheeeeeew

Omonigeriarere:


Hahaha... It seems that your husband is cheating on you clearly to your face and you are frustrated emotionally.

Prayer can change things, but forgive him first cos moving from one man to another changes nothing and your newly anticipating man might be worse. If Jesus can forgive adulterous woman, you need to too.

I am a man whose wife will be proud of anyday, anytime.

God forbid me to start trading insults with out, I don't have a cheating husband and am neither married yet . But you need to change your mentality its not everyman that cheats and its not every woman that cheats . Its a Lie from the pit of hell that there is a tendency in every man to cheat . Please if you don't have any useful thing to contribute please don't mention me again