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Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jun 29, 2017
elomez:
I think you guys should just end things. It's going to hurt her a lot but you just have to tell her the truth. This was the situation in my last relationship. He just lost interest for no reason but loves me. Yet, he was turned on by someone else whom he doesn't love. We ended things and l think it's better. Although he lied that he wasn't having sex with anyone else until I found out about it. I felt betrayed because he was pleasing himself and kept me in the dark, only for him to apologize that he was confused and was feeling he wasn't man enough until he decided to get intimate with someone else and found out that nothing was wrong with him.
I think it's a psychological thing. There is something going on in your mind about her that has turned off that sexual desire for her. It's better you guys don't push things. Imagine getting married tomorrow and then you can't get intimate with her, yet you can with someone else. It's going to be frustrating and with time too she will also start seeing someone else. I don't think you will be happy to share her with someone else and likewise she finding out that you are getting it elsewhere and can't get intimate with her. Honestly, it's quite a mystery. It's not all about sex but it's a vital aspect in a relationship.
i dont want to break up with her, i really really love her, i dont mind working on myself but letting her go isnt even somtin i can live with, she is everything, there is nobody like her, i would work on myself, reduce my outside acts and find that spark, its not abt just love to me she is perfect
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jun 29, 2017
itsJude:
alternate waiting for page 2 cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
wink wink wink

Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jun 29, 2017
itsJude:
i dont want to break up with her, i really really love her, i dont mind working on myself but letting her go isnt even somtin i can live with, she is everything, there is nobody like her, i would work on myself, reduce my outside acts and find that spark, its not abt just love to me she is perfect
Alright then. Try working on yourself and see how it goes.
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by TrapHedges(m): 8:56pm On Jun 29, 2017
Lol Jude.. U #o well
to d topic.. See weti Mouth Gig done cause ?
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jun 29, 2017
TrapHedges:
Lol Jude.. U #o well

to d topic.. See weti Mouth Gig done cause ?
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy devil cheesy cheesy cheesy thats nt the problem jor, its somhow to explain, she just no dey my blood rush fast
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by TrapHedges(m): 9:03pm On Jun 29, 2017
itsJude:
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy devil cheesy cheesy cheesy thats nt the problem jor, its somhow to explain, she just no dey my blood rush fast
lmao.. Make una just take break.. Asin miss ller..
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by SirMichael1:
itsJude:
abeg show me man wen no dey cheat make i show u a liar

I need tips to spice things up, weekend is coming and she will be here all weekend i cant continue lying to her
There he goes, unrepentant, having no iota of remorse to the atrocities he commits. When a lady cheats it will be him and his that will come swaying that fingers and typing crazy things... Because you live in a zoo where the men are uncultivated doesn't mean all men are beast that fūçks any female animal in their geographical location (zoo)

Whatever you do, I don't care just make sure that you use condom though. I don't want you to produce your type of specie again.
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jun 29, 2017
TrapHedges:
lmao.. Make una just take break.. Asin miss ller..
i done call am tell am abt the dress plan, she agreed, after this weekend if i dont improve, i go give her space, u knw say my stick dey used to different engine
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jun 29, 2017
SirMichael1:
There he goes, unrepentant, having no iota of remorse to the atrocities he commits. When a lady cheats it will be him and his that will come swaying that fingers and typing crazy things... Because you live in a zoo where the men are uncultivated doesn't mean all men are beast that fūçks any female animal with their geographical location (zoo)

Whatever you do, I don't care just make sure that you use condom though. I don't want you to produce your type of specie again.
wonderful are u a man or woman shocked abeg all men cheat rest, ur girl no dey read the thread no need to pretend
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Cleopatra4(f): 9:08pm On Jun 29, 2017
thepussyhunter:
aha! If it isnt cleopatra the lady who leaves the image of her beauty and beautiful eyes imprinted in every thread she enters smiley smiley

i've been good o,,.,.,,,,,just been here and there doing some snooping around for hot e-fights cheesy cheesy

trust you had a wonderful day, qui?
Oh God! I'm flabbergasted..
My day was cool.
If u go pussyhunting what do you expect me to do then embarassed
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by TrapHedges(m): 9:13pm On Jun 29, 2017
itsJude:
i done call am tell am abt the dress plan, she agreed, after this weekend if i dont improve, i go give her space, u knw say my stick dey used to different engine
#a like dat win am cool
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jun 29, 2017
TrapHedges:
#a like dat win am cool
look up u see that manwoman cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy u knw who him dey form for cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by SirMichael1:
itsJude:
wonderful are u a man or woman shocked abeg all men cheat rest, ur girl no dey read the thread no need to pretend
Guy are you this stupid off nairaland or you just showcase it here? Being a man or a woman has nothing to do with my post maniac.
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by superemmy(m): 9:29pm On Jun 29, 2017
See as I jump come page 2. Jude vs Biafrabushboy. No disappoint us
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by TrapHedges(m): 9:39pm On Jun 29, 2017
itsJude:
look up u see that manwoman cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy u knw who him dey form for cheesy cheesy cheesy
lmfao bro u cray
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jun 29, 2017
Cleopatra4:
Oh God! I'm flabbergasted..
My day was cool.
If u go pussyhunting what do you expect me to do then embarassed
LOL honey you'd come with me na

i could make use of ur pretty eyes and girl-experience to trap them you know wink wink
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Funlord2(m): 9:56pm On Jun 29, 2017
BiafraBushBoy:
You always had this wish that you look better than me.... carry go...

But tell me, why did I Fvck your girlfriend, since you looked better?
grin grin grin


O.p sorry oh....
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by RuggedArab: 10:02pm On Jun 29, 2017
MsRoe:
Role playing requires that you seriously commit to character. You can play out whatever fantasies you have......(strangers at a bar in a public restroom, burglar in her room, teacher & student, etc).....you don't necessarily have to dress up in medieval gear.

You can try blindfolding each other and get each other off; set time limits to give each other orgasms; do it in your car before seeing a movie; get her off at the movies; play strip poker, T or D; use ice; get high; reminisce on your favorite sexual moments....etc
Hehehe.... this girl has killed it. I'll try the bolded this weekend. This babe have to love me. Lol
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Cleopatra4(f): 10:24pm On Jun 29, 2017
SirMichael1:
There he goes, unrepentant, having no iota of remorse to the atrocities he commits. When a lady cheats it will be him and his that will come swaying that fingers and typing crazy things... Because you live in a zoo where the men are uncultivated doesn't mean all men are beast that fūçks any female animal with their geographical location (zoo)

Whatever you do, I don't care just make sure that you use condom though. I don't want you to produce your type of specie again.
grin grin
It haff be cheesy
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Cleopatra4(f): 10:28pm On Jun 29, 2017
thepussyhunter:
LOL honey you'd come with me na

i could make use of ur pretty eyes and girl-experience to trap them you know wink wink
No nah..
How can I follow u to hunt pussy..
Give me one of ur sweet line lemme use it and sleep fine wink
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by MrCork: 8:25am On Jun 30, 2017
professorfal:
Wait those two niggaz dey fight for who fine pass?
^^^^ lonely Gay comedian! undecided
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by teehamzat(m): 9:05am On Jun 30, 2017
itsJude:
one day u will experience it and understand
sorry to bust your bubble, it cant...but on the real you should as well talk to her about this, who knows, she might have the key to your fixing...a little bit of her making you jealous will trigger so many dead hormones in your system...yeeaaaaa we men are wired that way

enjoy ur day man
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by professorfal: 10:33am On Jun 30, 2017
MrCork:
^^^^ lonely Gay comedian! undecided
Go suck a dick cock_!
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Alphamale2017(m): 10:43am On Jun 30, 2017
itsJude:
u no go understand bro, at one point wen i see her naked i go just tire look elsewhere
wish u could travel for one month plus. when u come back, Na fire. she go feel am
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by fumisko(f): 11:11am On Jun 30, 2017
Must u do every weekend?
Why won't u get tired
U guys should go to the movies
Hang out with mutual friends etc this weekend
So u can miss her body and the next one would be hot
itsJude:
u have earned my respect today cool i like sensible people, teacher and student will do it for me, the idea is already getting me mad with interest, na to find kinky school uniform buy from all those tailors, i will screenshot ur tips, long weekend will try as much as i can, thanks alot dear kiss
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by oodua1stson: 11:31am On Jun 30, 2017
itsJude:
make i no talk much una knw me, do anyhow and i go sacrifice this thread face u


This is my problem, i love my gf, i swear love is not the problem but of late i dont enjoy sex with her anymore, its not her fault its me, anytime she tires anything i always look for a reason to refuse, baby the ac is not on, baby am hungry, baby i just woke up, work was stressful, baby i dont like what u said yesterday


she hasnt changed, she is still beautiful and sexy but i think that i am losing touch with her sex appeal and this is sombody that i want to marry, my cheating has increased recently because of this

there was this day i told that i was not going to be home till 11pm so she wouldnt come over because i wanted to spend the night with another, i dont love or enjoy these girls but my body responds to them more than my gf


i have read and asked around somhow nothing works, i have starved myself off sex self no way, if i tell her she will form understanding but i knw her, once i say it i have declared war embarassed i dont knw if guys here have had this problem but this is new for me, i usually throw my feelings up and down, now that its going to one person this is happening. I swear i still love her
I'm just like you but my own is more severe.



Once i have sex with a lady i just no longer initiate sex. I married my wife but i hardly have sex with her again
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jun 30, 2017
oodua1stson:
I'm just like you but my own is more severe.



Once i have sex with a lady i just no longer initiate sex. I married my wife but i hardly have sex with her again
make i give u my pastor number?
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jun 30, 2017
fumisko:
Must u do every weekend?
Why won't u get tired
U guys should go to the movies
Hang out with mutual friends etc this weekend
So u can miss her body and the next one would be hot
that is not the problem, i dont think its because we do it often, i still see my ex and we run things once once and i have been with my ex many times, yet i still want more of her, love and sex eh cry mixing them is somtin that shld be carefully done, will try the role playing this weekend and see how far that one will go
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jun 30, 2017
teehamzat:
sorry to bust your bubble, it cant...but on the real you should as well talk to her about this, who knows, she might have the key to your fixing...a little bit of her making you jealous will trigger so many dead hormones in your system...yeeaaaaa we men are wired that way

enjoy ur day man
u knw the meaning of drama queen? that is my gf, i would prefer to fix myself in silence
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by oodua1stson: 2:48pm On Jun 30, 2017
itsJude:
make i give u my pastor number?
even your pastor get him own problem

Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jun 30, 2017
oodua1stson:
even your pastor get him own problem
savage cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: What Do You Do When You Loose Sexual Interest In Som1 You Love by khiaa(f): 3:05pm On Jun 30, 2017
itsJude:
its not easy like that, i love this girl, she still makes me smile and i love being around her
Then friendzone her so that she can meet the good loving appreciative man who is meant to share her life, you are a hinder in her life, you are preventing her from her destination.
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