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Hi Pinky, hope you good

I feel so bad my relationship ended with you( pink jacket) because we loved each other so much.

I just logged on to Instagram only to see you've blocked me after I officially revealed my girl friend, but it's OK.

We met 4years ago and have been dating since then till the relationship finally hit the rock, that I won't forget.

We were so into each other like crazy that we party together, eat in same plate and did so many cool things together, that I won't forget.

But you know, not all relationship lasts forever so we separated and that was the end of "US" as young couple.

Pinky is on nairaland and this the only way i could get across to you baby.

I'm sorry for all the unfaithfulness.
I'm sorry for that day.
I'm sorry for causing you so much heart breaks.

I'm glad you've found another man, please move on in peace.

I'm sorry it ended this way after all the dreams we shared together.

I was so happy for you when you posted a pic of your new man on IG and I pray you love him the way you loved me.

Forgive me dear.

I hope to meet you again sometime in future.


God bless you, God bless me.

It is too late to fail, Amen.

Who do you like this now?

You broke someone's heart and you came here to cry fowl!

She shouldn't not only block your silly ass, she should wipe the slate of your existence clean.

To think that you, a troll, would create a thread to type hogwash to a lady is utterly unbelievable. Your head don'knock' I swear.

I hate to say this but grow some sense boy. Nobody cares..

Listen son you are not the only one smoking weed.

Come boy hu are ur parents
Am not insulting u oo
it's a question

Hm nawa oo,why are you behaving like this,she is a nairaland member who asked you?don't you know that with this stupid post she can't feel free again to live a normal life on NL,she blocked you for a reason best know to her,maybe that's her own way of moving on.You are parading your new bae peaceful at the same time monitoring her kai

Attention seeking (also called drawing attention or garnering attention) is behaving in a way which is in pursuit of attention from others. The attention they receive gives them a good feeling and boosts their self-esteem and self-worth. [citation needed ] Where such behavior is excessive and inappropriate, the term is often used pejoratively in regard to children's behavior in front of peers or to negative domestic interactions.
Enjoying the attention of others is socially acceptable in some situations. [1] In some instances, however, the need for attention can lead to new difficulties and may highlight underlying, preexisting ones. However, as a tactical method, it is often used in combat, theatre ( upstaging ) and it is fundamental to marketing. One strategy used to counter various types of attention-seeking behavior is planned ignoring .
Reasons
If as a child, the person did not receive much attention from his parents or his peers then he may grow up feeling neglected. Those feelings will then be the main drive behind the person's attention-seeking behavior. Children of abusive parents and parents who are always absent may feel overlooked, and so the child may grow up becoming an attention-seeking adult.
Sometimes adults seek attention because of jealousy . When someone finds himself threatened by another person who takes all the attention, he may respond with attention-seeking behavior.
Lack of self-esteem can be another cause for attention-seeking behavior. Some people think that they are overlooked and so they think that the only solution to restore their balance is to bring back the lost attention. The attention they will get in this case will provide them with reassurance and will help them think that they are worthy.
Narcissists are also attention seekers. They consider this attention a good source of narcissistic supply and so they strive to get it. [2]
In different pathologies or contexts
Münchausen by Internet
Münchausen syndrome
Münchausen syndrome by proxy
Personality disorders – A sustained pattern of attention seeking in adults is often associated with histrionic personality disorder , borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder . [3]
Self-destructive behavior – It is a common misconception that self-destructive behavior is inherently attention seeking, or at least that attention is a primary motive. While this is undoubtedly true in many cases, often the motivation runs much deeper than that. Many self-injurers are very self-conscious of their wounds and scars and feel guilty about their behavior leading them to go to great lengths to conceal their behavior from others. This, however, brings up the issue of scars being seen which only shows others of the person's behavior which could be used as a deliberate attempt at seeking attention or sympathy. [4]
Voluntary false confession
"Attention seeking" is a term that can be misused in order to discredit people who are sincerely trying to reconcile themselves with past traumas - and their consequential maladaptive behaviors through others (which is necessary and beneficial when the trauma affects the personality), thus giving the impression of simply "seeking attention" - this is usually a consequence of extreme abuse and neglect which impair the sufferer's capacity for healthy interpersonal transaction. [5]
Planned ignoring
Main article: Planned ignoring
Planned ignoring is a strategy where a person gives no outward sign of recognizing a behavior, such as no eye contact, no verbal response and no physical response to the person seeking attention. The desired consequence of attention-seeking behavior is receiving attention in some form (positive or negative) from another person; when attention-seeking behavior no longer contacts attention , it will eventually cease.
See also
Acting out
Coping (psychology)
Exaggeration
Exhibitionist narcissism
Histrionic personality disorder
Proceptive phase
Internet troll
Victim playing
References
1. ^ Burns, Robert B. Essential Psychology , Kluwer Academic Publishers, 1991; ISBN 0-7923-8957-3
2. ^ M.Farouk Radwan, The Psychology of Attraction Explained , www.2knowmyself.com/Attention_seeker_psychology/attention_seeking_behaviour_personality
3. ^ Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Fourth edition Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR) American Psychiatric Association (2000)
4. ^ Truth Hurts Report , Mental Health Foundation, 2006,
ISBN 978-1-903645-81-9 , retrieved 2008-06-11
5. ^ https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/reporting-rates=September [permanent dead link] 2013
Further reading
Gewirtz, Jacob L Three determinants of attention-seeking in young children (1956)
Gewirtz, Jacob L A factor analysis of some attention-seeking behaviors of young children Child Development (1956)
Harvey, Eric & Mellor, Nigel Helping Parents Deal With Attention Seeking Behaviour (2009)
Leit, Lisa & Jacobvitz, Deborah & Hazen-Swann, Nancy
Conversational Narcissism in Marriage: Narcissistic attention seeking behaviors in face-to-face interactions: Implications for marital stability and partner mental health (2008)
Mellor, Nigel Attention Seeking: A Practical Solution for the Classroom (1997)
Mellor, Nigel The Good, the Bad and the Irritating: A Practical Approach for Parents of Children who are Attention Seeking (2000)
Mellor, Nigel Attention Seeking: A Complete Guide for Teachers (2008)
Smith-Martenz, Arden Attention-seeking misbehaviors (1990)
External links
Hysteria, Drama Majors and Drama Queens
Attention-seeking personality disorders

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attention_seeking

chai!! person Wey do u Dis thing dey Yankee de enjoy, u de nairaland de mumu. must you come here to tell us why can't you write to her...

O pari.

alexistaiwo:
Attention seeking (also called drawing attention or garnering attention) is behaving in a way which is in pursuit of attention from others. The attention they receive gives them a good feeling and boosts their self-esteem and self-worth. [citation needed ] Where such behavior is excessive and inappropriate, the term is often used pejoratively in regard to children's behavior in front of peers or to negative domestic interactions.
Enjoying the attention of others is socially acceptable in some situations. [1] In some instances, however, the need for attention can lead to new difficulties and may highlight underlying, preexisting ones. However, as a tactical method, it is often used in combat, theatre ( upstaging ) and it is fundamental to marketing. One strategy used to counter various types of attention-seeking behavior is planned ignoring .
Reasons
If as a child, the person did not receive much attention from his parents or his peers then he may grow up feeling neglected. Those feelings will then be the main drive behind the person's attention-seeking behavior. Children of abusive parents and parents who are always absent may feel overlooked, and so the child may grow up becoming an attention-seeking adult.
Sometimes adults seek attention because of jealousy . When someone finds himself threatened by another person who takes all the attention, he may respond with attention-seeking behavior.
Lack of self-esteem can be another cause for attention-seeking behavior. Some people think that they are overlooked and so they think that the only solution to restore their balance is to bring back the lost attention. The attention they will get in this case will provide them with reassurance and will help them think that they are worthy.
Narcissists are also attention seekers. They consider this attention a good source of narcissistic supply and so they strive to get it. [2]
In different pathologies or contexts
Münchausen by Internet
Münchausen syndrome
Münchausen syndrome by proxy
Personality disorders – A sustained pattern of attention seeking in adults is often associated with histrionic personality disorder , borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder . [3]
Self-destructive behavior – It is a common misconception that self-destructive behavior is inherently attention seeking, or at least that attention is a primary motive. While this is undoubtedly true in many cases, often the motivation runs much deeper than that. Many self-injurers are very self-conscious of their wounds and scars and feel guilty about their behavior leading them to go to great lengths to conceal their behavior from others. This, however, brings up the issue of scars being seen which only shows others of the person's behavior which could be used as a deliberate attempt at seeking attention or sympathy. [4]
Voluntary false confession
"Attention seeking" is a term that can be misused in order to discredit people who are sincerely trying to reconcile themselves with past traumas - and their consequential maladaptive behaviors through others (which is necessary and beneficial when the trauma affects the personality), thus giving the impression of simply "seeking attention" - this is usually a consequence of extreme abuse and neglect which impair the sufferer's capacity for healthy interpersonal transaction. [5]
Planned ignoring
Main article: Planned ignoring
Planned ignoring is a strategy where a person gives no outward sign of recognizing a behavior, such as no eye contact, no verbal response and no physical response to the person seeking attention. The desired consequence of attention-seeking behavior is receiving attention in some form (positive or negative) from another person; when attention-seeking behavior no longer contacts attention , it will eventually cease.
See also
Acting out
Coping (psychology)
Exaggeration
Exhibitionist narcissism
Histrionic personality disorder
Proceptive phase
Internet troll
Victim playing
References
1. ^ Burns, Robert B. Essential Psychology , Kluwer Academic Publishers, 1991; ISBN 0-7923-8957-3
2. ^ M.Farouk Radwan, The Psychology of Attraction Explained , www.2knowmyself.com/Attention_seeker_psychology/attention_seeking_behaviour_personality
3. ^ Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Fourth edition Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR) American Psychiatric Association (2000)
4. ^ Truth Hurts Report , Mental Health Foundation, 2006,
ISBN 978-1-903645-81-9 , retrieved 2008-06-11
5. ^ https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/reporting-rates=September [permanent dead link] 2013
Further reading
Gewirtz, Jacob L Three determinants of attention-seeking in young children (1956)
Gewirtz, Jacob L A factor analysis of some attention-seeking behaviors of young children Child Development (1956)
Harvey, Eric & Mellor, Nigel Helping Parents Deal With Attention Seeking Behaviour (2009)
Leit, Lisa & Jacobvitz, Deborah & Hazen-Swann, Nancy
Conversational Narcissism in Marriage: Narcissistic attention seeking behaviors in face-to-face interactions: Implications for marital stability and partner mental health (2008)
Mellor, Nigel Attention Seeking: A Practical Solution for the Classroom (1997)
Mellor, Nigel The Good, the Bad and the Irritating: A Practical Approach for Parents of Children who are Attention Seeking (2000)
Mellor, Nigel Attention Seeking: A Complete Guide for Teachers (2008)
Smith-Martenz, Arden Attention-seeking misbehaviors (1990)
External links
Hysteria, Drama Majors and Drama Queens
Attention-seeking personality disorders

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attention_seeking

See finishing.

Airforce1 right now:

alexistaiwo:
Attention seeking (also called drawing attention or garnering attention) is behaving in a way which is in pursuit of attention from others. The attention they receive gives them a good feeling and boosts their self-esteem and self-worth. [citation needed ] Where such behavior is excessive and inappropriate, the term is often used pejoratively in regard to children's behavior in front of peers or to negative domestic interactions.
Enjoying the attention of others is socially acceptable in some situations. [1] In some instances, however, the need for attention can lead to new difficulties and may highlight underlying, preexisting ones. However, as a tactical method, it is often used in combat, theatre ( upstaging ) and it is fundamental to marketing. One strategy used to counter various types of attention-seeking behavior is planned ignoring .
Reasons
If as a child, the person did not receive much attention from his parents or his peers then he may grow up feeling neglected. Those feelings will then be the main drive behind the person's attention-seeking behavior. Children of abusive parents and parents who are always absent may feel overlooked, and so the child may grow up becoming an attention-seeking adult.
Sometimes adults seek attention because of jealousy . When someone finds himself threatened by another person who takes all the attention, he may respond with attention-seeking behavior.
Lack of self-esteem can be another cause for attention-seeking behavior. Some people think that they are overlooked and so they think that the only solution to restore their balance is to bring back the lost attention. The attention they will get in this case will provide them with reassurance and will help them think that they are worthy.
Narcissists are also attention seekers. They consider this attention a good source of narcissistic supply and so they strive to get it. [2]
In different pathologies or contexts
Münchausen by Internet
Münchausen syndrome
Münchausen syndrome by proxy
Personality disorders – A sustained pattern of attention seeking in adults is often associated with histrionic personality disorder , borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder . [3]
Self-destructive behavior – It is a common misconception that self-destructive behavior is inherently attention seeking, or at least that attention is a primary motive. While this is undoubtedly true in many cases, often the motivation runs much deeper than that. Many self-injurers are very self-conscious of their wounds and scars and feel guilty about their behavior leading them to go to great lengths to conceal their behavior from others. This, however, brings up the issue of scars being seen which only shows others of the person's behavior which could be used as a deliberate attempt at seeking attention or sympathy. [4]
Voluntary false confession
"Attention seeking" is a term that can be misused in order to discredit people who are sincerely trying to reconcile themselves with past traumas - and their consequential maladaptive behaviors through others (which is necessary and beneficial when the trauma affects the personality), thus giving the impression of simply "seeking attention" - this is usually a consequence of extreme abuse and neglect which impair the sufferer's capacity for healthy interpersonal transaction. [5]
Planned ignoring
Main article: Planned ignoring
Planned ignoring is a strategy where a person gives no outward sign of recognizing a behavior, such as no eye contact, no verbal response and no physical response to the person seeking attention. The desired consequence of attention-seeking behavior is receiving attention in some form (positive or negative) from another person; when attention-seeking behavior no longer contacts attention , it will eventually cease.
See also
Acting out
Coping (psychology)
Exaggeration
Exhibitionist narcissism
Histrionic personality disorder
Proceptive phase
Internet troll
Victim playing
References
1. ^ Burns, Robert B. Essential Psychology , Kluwer Academic Publishers, 1991; ISBN 0-7923-8957-3
2. ^ M.Farouk Radwan, The Psychology of Attraction Explained , www.2knowmyself.com/Attention_seeker_psychology/attention_seeking_behaviour_personality
3. ^ Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Fourth edition Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR) American Psychiatric Association (2000)
4. ^ Truth Hurts Report , Mental Health Foundation, 2006,
ISBN 978-1-903645-81-9 , retrieved 2008-06-11
5. ^ https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/reporting-rates=September [permanent dead link] 2013
Further reading
Gewirtz, Jacob L Three determinants of attention-seeking in young children (1956)
Gewirtz, Jacob L A factor analysis of some attention-seeking behaviors of young children Child Development (1956)
Harvey, Eric & Mellor, Nigel Helping Parents Deal With Attention Seeking Behaviour (2009)
Leit, Lisa & Jacobvitz, Deborah & Hazen-Swann, Nancy
Conversational Narcissism in Marriage: Narcissistic attention seeking behaviors in face-to-face interactions: Implications for marital stability and partner mental health (2008)
Mellor, Nigel Attention Seeking: A Practical Solution for the Classroom (1997)
Mellor, Nigel The Good, the Bad and the Irritating: A Practical Approach for Parents of Children who are Attention Seeking (2000)
Mellor, Nigel Attention Seeking: A Complete Guide for Teachers (2008)
Smith-Martenz, Arden Attention-seeking misbehaviors (1990)
External links
Hysteria, Drama Majors and Drama Queens
Attention-seeking personality disorders

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attention_seeking

what's dis? b4,I start reading it

alexistaiwo:
Attention seeking (also called drawing attention or garnering attention) is behaving in a way which is in pursuit of attention from others. The attention they receive gives them a good feeling and boosts their self-esteem and self-worth. [citation needed ] Where such behavior is excessive and inappropriate, the term is often used pejoratively in regard to children's behavior in front of peers or to negative domestic interactions.
Enjoying the attention of others is socially acceptable in some situations. [1] In some instances, however, the need for attention can lead to new difficulties and may highlight underlying, preexisting ones. However, as a tactical method, it is often used in combat, theatre ( upstaging ) and it is fundamental to marketing. One strategy used to counter various types of attention-seeking behavior is planned ignoring .
Reasons
If as a child, the person did not receive much attention from his parents or his peers then he may grow up feeling neglected. Those feelings will then be the main drive behind the person's attention-seeking behavior. Children of abusive parents and parents who are always absent may feel overlooked, and so the child may grow up becoming an attention-seeking adult.
Sometimes adults seek attention because of jealousy . When someone finds himself threatened by another person who takes all the attention, he may respond with attention-seeking behavior.
Lack of self-esteem can be another cause for attention-seeking behavior. Some people think that they are overlooked and so they think that the only solution to restore their balance is to bring back the lost attention. The attention they will get in this case will provide them with reassurance and will help them think that they are worthy.
Narcissists are also attention seekers. They consider this attention a good source of narcissistic supply and so they strive to get it. [2]
In different pathologies or contexts
Münchausen by Internet
Münchausen syndrome
Münchausen syndrome by proxy
Personality disorders – A sustained pattern of attention seeking in adults is often associated with histrionic personality disorder , borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder . [3]
Self-destructive behavior – It is a common misconception that self-destructive behavior is inherently attention seeking, or at least that attention is a primary motive. While this is undoubtedly true in many cases, often the motivation runs much deeper than that. Many self-injurers are very self-conscious of their wounds and scars and feel guilty about their behavior leading them to go to great lengths to conceal their behavior from others. This, however, brings up the issue of scars being seen which only shows others of the person's behavior which could be used as a deliberate attempt at seeking attention or sympathy. [4]
Voluntary false confession
"Attention seeking" is a term that can be misused in order to discredit people who are sincerely trying to reconcile themselves with past traumas - and their consequential maladaptive behaviors through others (which is necessary and beneficial when the trauma affects the personality), thus giving the impression of simply "seeking attention" - this is usually a consequence of extreme abuse and neglect which impair the sufferer's capacity for healthy interpersonal transaction. [5]
Planned ignoring
Main article: Planned ignoring
Planned ignoring is a strategy where a person gives no outward sign of recognizing a behavior, such as no eye contact, no verbal response and no physical response to the person seeking attention. The desired consequence of attention-seeking behavior is receiving attention in some form (positive or negative) from another person; when attention-seeking behavior no longer contacts attention , it will eventually cease.
See also
Acting out
Coping (psychology)
Exaggeration
Exhibitionist narcissism
Histrionic personality disorder
Proceptive phase
Internet troll
Victim playing
References
1. ^ Burns, Robert B. Essential Psychology , Kluwer Academic Publishers, 1991; ISBN 0-7923-8957-3
2. ^ M.Farouk Radwan, The Psychology of Attraction Explained , www.2knowmyself.com/Attention_seeker_psychology/attention_seeking_behaviour_personality
3. ^ Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Fourth edition Text Revision (DSM-IV-TR) American Psychiatric Association (2000)
4. ^ Truth Hurts Report , Mental Health Foundation, 2006,
ISBN 978-1-903645-81-9 , retrieved 2008-06-11
5. ^ https://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/reporting-rates=September [permanent dead link] 2013
Further reading
Gewirtz, Jacob L Three determinants of attention-seeking in young children (1956)
Gewirtz, Jacob L A factor analysis of some attention-seeking behaviors of young children Child Development (1956)
Harvey, Eric & Mellor, Nigel Helping Parents Deal With Attention Seeking Behaviour (2009)
Leit, Lisa & Jacobvitz, Deborah & Hazen-Swann, Nancy
Conversational Narcissism in Marriage: Narcissistic attention seeking behaviors in face-to-face interactions: Implications for marital stability and partner mental health (2008)
Mellor, Nigel Attention Seeking: A Practical Solution for the Classroom (1997)
Mellor, Nigel The Good, the Bad and the Irritating: A Practical Approach for Parents of Children who are Attention Seeking (2000)
Mellor, Nigel Attention Seeking: A Complete Guide for Teachers (2008)
Smith-Martenz, Arden Attention-seeking misbehaviors (1990)
External links
Hysteria, Drama Majors and Drama Queens
Attention-seeking personality disorders

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attention_seeking

wat manner of fuckery is dis

Aunty pinky why na? Anyway life goes on

Okay

Amarabae:
Okay

dont you ever comment on my thread again

IamAirforce1:
dont you ever comment on my thread again

why dear?

on behalf of this Yaba patient, i'm on my knees right now begging the dying old woman responsible for the memory loss of this little boy, pls dnt take his brain to heaven, pls release it for himself cos he go need am. Pls if u no pity him, pity his future children. Thanks to Almighty God this lil boy is not frm my lineage, i would have disowned him and offered him as a burnt offering unto the gods

Jesus christ me!(touch chest) Nw i knw y some nairalanders r always cursing u.... D bea even dy here..



Enyi grow up abeg