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MzLarem:
She says no to see, y'all come here to cry like a miserable baby who lost his candy... She says yes, y'all come here to wail that all she has to offer is sex... what the hell is your problem, why not marry your sisters then since no girl can satisfy y'all.

Fadiga24:
I hit a nerve, didn't I?

MzLarem:
Nope...you will have to try harder. just saying the plain truth.

Fadiga24:
You wouldn't know the plain truth even if it was staring you in the face.

MzLarem:
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Fadiga24:
Relationship is supposed to be a two way street, where feelings and giving is mutual. If one party gives and the other does not, feelings of discontent would start to creep in.

If you are not ready for the mutual giving which is characteristic of relationships.

Why enter one?

Anyway good chilly morning, have you had coffee?

MzErica:
You stupid father is bastard for not erupting the miserable sperm that formed you on the floor of the commercial bus he raped your orange hawker mother!


You ape-face cretin!

MzLarem:
And the only thing both parties have to give each other is sex and money?

Those two things should me given voluntarily out of the love you have for your partner, they are not the mandatory elements that has to be given in a relationship... Love, respect, communication, trust and understanding are. That is why most relationships fail.

I'm on the go already, couldn't wait for coffee.

Nma27:
Look for a lady that wants Sex! She has a right to say No to sex! Ha! Her own body kwa,!
Swerve Jor! Better carry your entitlement brain and swerve!

Fadiga24:
Love, respect are all essential components of relationships sadly they are immaterial.

When you are given material things such as money, jewelries, gifts etc do not expect to pay back in immaterial terms such as love and respect that he must have been receiving from family members, friends and relatives.

Like I said earlier, it breeds discontent.

MzLarem:
That is why you should give the material things out of self will and expect nothing in return, then that is love. Note that, ladies can also give the material things in return. Then, we are even

Fadiga24:
Except nothing in return, are we running a charitable organization?

You amuse me.

MzLarem:
Well,standards are different and I've told you that as a lady, knowing you guy's mentality, I will give in return materially and that way we are even.

cloud9usher:
Are your parents siblings? Because its only an incest born female like yourself that can be this disreputably slow-witted!

It must hurt you to hear the truth I know and hence your show of crudity and impertinence.

Now run along you rabid infested demented waste of human flesh!

toastedbread:
mzlarem, i understand your point. the problem is some ladies have made us understand that it's kudi for the booty. if we don't give, we'll not scratch that kitty.

now, most ladies grew up with that mindset that's why even if a guy decides to give and expect nothing in return, they'll label him a big fool.
what would you do if you've been labeled so?

MzLarem:
Well said, everyone's mentality is different but don't use that as a yardstick to judge all ladies. What you also want will determine the kinda person you end up with.

toastedbread:
i know there are ladies who uphold the standard of the good old days but such ladies hard to find.
what happens when what you want is denied visa to come end up with you?
i remember a saying that goes thus: "when the desired is unavailable, the available becomes the desired".


how's your morning going?

MzLarem:
You are right.
Going rough, stuck in traffic...yours?

toastedbread:
going well, idle morning.
seems you're stuck in the traffic i'm looking at.
brb, lemme hack into the grid and allow your vehicle pass.

MzLarem:
Lol...i will appreciate that. I so much hate it.

toastedbread:
i couldn't bypass the login screen.
it required the name of the person in traffic. upon entering the data, it requested for your phone number and since that cannot be gotten, seems you'll be in traffic for some seconds.

cloud9usher:
This has nothing to do with if a lady has a right to sex or not, every lady has a right to her sexual stand, I'm talking about the deceit some ladies engage in to deceive guys, they won't like a guy but would lie that they are virgins and don't want sex and keep him around so they milk him dry financially till he gets tired of the whole thing and leaves, that's the deception and fraud I'm talking about here.

MzLarem:
Lol...I'm out already, thanks.

toastedbread:
Was there traffic today?