Ginaz:
I'm an introvert, I'm very quiet when I want to. But in your wildest fantasy you can't picture my fierceness. I'm a wild lioness only when I want, with only few people around to witness it.

Being an introvert is a privilege not a curse, I love myself. Introvert is the new sexy.

We don't take shiit from nobody, once you're out of our head and life, my dear, you can't get back in, even if you're wrap in a coffin

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Rubbish, why would I marry an introvert sef. abi u na no date b4 marriage.

Nairalandsss:
When two people live under the same roof, they have to first digest the fact that it won’t be easy to to get along with all aspects of the other person. At the same time, you don’t need to change the other person and make a clone of yourself. In fact, even if you try hard, you can’t change anyone on this planet. The only option you have is to live harmoniously with the other person by accepting the differences. An introvert woman and extrovert man can live happily without conflicts. Love can survive only in places where understanding is.Here are some ways to deal with an introverted wife.

Ways to deal with an introverted wife are:


1.She requires solitude: When she requests you to leave her alone, don’t get offended. Being an introverted wife, she just needs solitude. It doesn’t mean that she hates your company. Introverts need solitude to rejuvenate and function well. That’s their psychological and emotional necessity. Don’t get her wrong when she withdraws herself into silence or solitude.

2.Let her be: Just let her be. See whether you can accept her way of living. It is better to let her live in her comfort zone. When she needs your company, she will voluntarily come and give you a hug. Sometimes, you will luckily see the wild side of a romantic introverted woman.

3.Don’t force her into a conversation: If she is silent, don’t force her into a conversation. Introverts participate in interesting conversations but they do it only when they feel like doing it; not when you want it. So, the next time when you suddenly start speaking about an interesting topic, don’t expect her to get excited about it. If she is in the mood, she will continue the talk but if she is in her regular introverted moods, she would simply smile and pretend that she is listening. Either ways, you must just let her be. She will love you more for doing so.

4.Never force her to socialise: Introverts do socialise but only when they feel like. So, how to handle an introvert wife? Well, ensure that you never force her to those evening parties and other social events that you are fond of. But you can always invite her and give her the option of saying yes or no. Your wife doesn’t need to be just like you in every aspect. Respect her individuality and enjoy those social events with your friends. In fact, an introverted woman is a lot better than an extroverted woman.

5.Give her some space: If you can do this, allot a room for her in your house. This is the best way to deal with an introvert. She would love to have some private space all for herself. Don’t be suspicious about it. She has nothing to hide from you. She just enjoys that private silent space. Now, you must have understood how to deal with an introverted wife.

These are the ways to deal with an introverted wife.



lalasticlala mynd44



http://www.naijabroad.com/index.php/2017/07/12/ways-deal-introverted-wife/

Why can't you just write 'ways to deal with an introverted partner?'. You bloggers need to stop using women as topics to draw traffic to your blogs. So there are no introverts among men abi? If woman no kill una,nothing else will.

I remember when I celebrated my 10th birthday. I thoroughly hated it. I was miserable throughout.

I am introverted by nature!

Tahrah:
Your village ppl neva gree leave you?

I don't do village package and got no village people on my back

Mehn! This is hard work.

YOUNGSTUNNA:
I'm not a woman, but everything written up there is so me... especially no. 3.

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I can go a whole day, the only words I said to anyone are *greetings*

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but when I'm back to normal... I'm a Lotta fun to hang around...


hate crowds and gathering with passion

I'm not an introvert but I so much hate crowd.... As in I get scared

My dear if you are anything like what the op described above.. Abeg Abeg I take God beg you, for the sake of your heart ND blood pressure. Begin make the adjust ment na, or take chances with the next generation of Slay mamas wey still dey primary 6.. FYI dey no dey know man finish, so u kwa no use ur hand create the chance ohh, especially that number 4, na there e take dey start ohh.. Just a friendly advise

WiredLeggings:
future hubby, take notes.

you cannot change an introverted person. you gotta understand them and accept them as they are.

I just love the quite nature of introverts..it made us understand nature in a quite simple mode

Asito:
wife that does not complain and argue about every little thing, is that one wife?

Lmfao, u don see shomshin

rotexteymie:

I'm not an introvert but I so much hate crowd.... As in I get scared

I guess we can board this plane together baby


those who don't understand thinks i'm anti-socia


crownd seriously freaks me out, and make me feel unease,,,,


but my job demand i address crowd sometimes

HouseOfWine:
First of all, introverts always think they are this special kind/breed of human beings

He who lives alone will die alone

Good U were born to do things by yourself but U have to realise at the end of the day U need to relate with other ppl and do things with them u dont really like, thats what being a superior intellectual being is: the ability to adapt to every environ and situation using your intellect

Dull yourself there that you are n introvert hence you dont have the energy to mingle accept ppl into your life..



No be only U get wahala!!! Even Extros get their own sheets and they dont even advertise it the way intro does...

Its almost as if we should pity them or is it glorify them¿

Why are you so pained, did one leave you behind?
Yes, they're special
You think anybody will fall into your grave with you?
You don't need to do anything you don't like and it's funny how you are the one defining what being the superior intellectual being is
I don't really get why you take it upon yourself to bear these burdens
What they're asking for you wouldn't give, yet you're here thinking anybody is looking for your pity or glory, when all you have to do is petty.

i wonder what fun the marriage brings....'






i can't settle for such..


i always wanna cudddllleee and smooch with ma bae!!!!!

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

Maryann Ibeh?

goingape1:
let's do it the ancient way!

shout on that mathafvcka! and tell her how ya paid her bride price and if she isn't want to cooperate, tell her that ya got a black niggic biitch rolling on ya rod


no time to be sentimental on ya all black bitttches

My nigga

When i was growing up, people use to tell me i am an extrovert, now i could sense everything about me is introvert features, please how can i reset to extrovert.

wetin concern me

Herrmes:
Why are you so pained, did one leave you behind?
Yes, they're special
You think anybody will fall into your grave with you?
You don't need to do anything you don't like and it's funny how you are the one defining what being the superior intellectual being is
I don't really get why you take it upon yourself to bear these burdens
What they're asking for you wouldn't give, yet you're here thinking anybody is looking for your pity or glory, when all you have to do is petty.

Am not but i just noticed smth

One user on another thread said this forum is mostly dominated by intros and currently its looking most likely

I have no ill will agst intros but i just dont get how they think doing what they do is the ultimate pathway to life neither is the Extros, hey but then again its just my opinion, no offense!

Ginaz:
I'm an introvert, I'm very quiet when I want to. But in your wildest fantasy you can't picture my fierceness. I'm a wild lioness only when I want, with only few people around to witness it.

Being an introvert is a privilege not a curse, I love myself. Introvert is the new sexy.

We don't take shiit from nobody, once you're out of our head and life, my dear, you can't get back in, even if you're wrap in a coffin

Yeah, the person OP described is actually a moody person who needs someone to give her some spark.

I am a major introvert but extroverts fear me when I step into the "club". Hehehehehe

Knowing fully well she is this dull I will take her down the aisle? Ain't getting married to a doll, we will see to it that she crawls outta tha introverted shell or at least knuckles up her social behaviour before marriage.

This article exactly describes my ex-girlfriend Vivian. She's the only girl I ever loved, but I never really understood she was an extreme Melancholic. I always felt she never loved me in our 4 year relationship, whereas I never knew she was just this kind of person.

Nairalandsss:
When two people live under the same roof, they have to first digest the fact that it won’t be easy to to get along with all aspects of the other person. At the same time, you don’t need to change the other person and make a clone of yourself. In fact, even if you try hard, you can’t change anyone on this planet. The only option you have is to live harmoniously with the other person by accepting the differences. An introvert woman and extrovert man can live happily without conflicts. Love can survive only in places where understanding is.Here are some ways to deal with an introverted wife.

Ways to deal with an introverted wife are:


1.She requires solitude: When she requests you to leave her alone, don’t get offended. Being an introverted wife, she just needs solitude. It doesn’t mean that she hates your company. Introverts need solitude to rejuvenate and function well. That’s their psychological and emotional necessity. Don’t get her wrong when she withdraws herself into silence or solitude.

2.Let her be: Just let her be. See whether you can accept her way of living. It is better to let her live in her comfort zone. When she needs your company, she will voluntarily come and give you a hug. Sometimes, you will luckily see the wild side of a romantic introverted woman.

3.Don’t force her into a conversation: If she is silent, don’t force her into a conversation. Introverts participate in interesting conversations but they do it only when they feel like doing it; not when you want it. So, the next time when you suddenly start speaking about an interesting topic, don’t expect her to get excited about it. If she is in the mood, she will continue the talk but if she is in her regular introverted moods, she would simply smile and pretend that she is listening. Either ways, you must just let her be. She will love you more for doing so.

4.Never force her to socialise: Introverts do socialise but only when they feel like. So, how to handle an introvert wife? Well, ensure that you never force her to those evening parties and other social events that you are fond of. But you can always invite her and give her the option of saying yes or no. Your wife doesn’t need to be just like you in every aspect. Respect her individuality and enjoy those social events with your friends. In fact, an introverted woman is a lot better than an extroverted woman.

5.Give her some space: If you can do this, allot a room for her in your house. This is the best way to deal with an introvert. She would love to have some private space all for herself. Don’t be suspicious about it. She has nothing to hide from you. She just enjoys that private silent space. Now, you must have understood how to deal with an introverted wife.

These are the ways to deal with an introverted wife.



lalasticlala mynd44



http://www.naijabroad.com/index.php/2017/07/12/ways-deal-introverted-wife/

WiredLeggings:
i know it is for other pple but not me, lol. i've tried but it never worked. at this point I'm a lost cause w/ being introverted. i just have to be okay with being me.

what makes you different from the other pple?? If they can do it hun, u can also do it. Its not a must to be an extrovert but to me i think its very necessary for some reasons. Great feets are not achieved easily, i mean how would it be easy for someone to break out from who she has always been her entire life?? Ok let me take myself for an example. I used to be a chronic introvert, hardly associated with pple because i do not feel the need to. Loved my own space then but at a time i knew i had to change because being an introvert robbed me of a lot of things: Confidence, freindship, maturity and so on. So i already had reasons for not wanting to remain an introvert. Then i worked on it, truth is, it ws not easy for me but i was determined to leave my shell. And i did. Am not a hardcore extrovert right now but at least am better than what i used to be. Am more confident, more social, more smart. It just a matter of developing the right mindset

Horlahmah:
When i was growing up, people use to tell me i am an extrovert, now i could sense everything about me is introvert features, please how can i reset to extrovert.

As people go through life, events, environments, and people they come across tune their lives and give them some sort of shape which they knew nothing about.

You simply have to flow with who you really are, not who you were before or who you want to be.

If you're an introvert, don't try to be an extrovert (but you can choose to be more outgoing like extroverts, that might actually cause a subconscious switch. It's a simple psychological finding that what you do for long gets registered in your subconscious.) just be you, don't try to be them.

If you think you're somehow boring, then think of what to do to make yourself less boring. You can tweak your life just the way you can tweak an Android phone without stopping the phone from being an Android phone. You just have to be careful when doing that, because things could get really messy.

I am an introvert, but I have done a lot of tweaking on my personality.

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

So you mean people like us that live in one room face me I face you can't marry you? Issorait.

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

Marriage is not about "I must" or "my My my my"


Enter first then u go no say no be by posting on nairaland

So she will be the one setting the tune of events at home.

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

My wife has her own room. So it's not too much to request for your own room from your future or whatever husband. Everybody needs some privacy sometimes

Taurus + Introvert = complication

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managersam:
Same here o

you get