Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

didinrin

"You don't need to Change the other person just accept people the way they are"

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Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

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Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

What if you and your feature husband stays in a one room apartment. Una go demarcate am?

Asito:
wife that does not complain and argue about every little thing, is that one wife?

tufia!!! but if she complain you go call am nagging

Baba Were

Number one point says it all,how I wish my ex saw it this way instead of thinking I didn't love him enough

pterson:
introverts rock, I'm one.

Same here o

favoured78:
All the points interlinked and can be summarised into UNDERSTAND HER AND LET HER BE AT TIMES SHE WANTS TO JUST BE.......

i thought is only me that noticed ooo...He successfully danced around a singular aspect of the matter

I hate extroverts, such douchebags.

First of all, introverts always think they are this special kind/breed of human beings

He who lives alone will die alone

Good U were born to do things by yourself but U have to realise at the end of the day U need to relate with other ppl and do things with them u dont really like, thats what being a superior intellectual being is: the ability to adapt to every environ and situation using your intellect

Dull yourself there that you are an introvert hence you dont have the energy to mingle or accept ppl into your life..


No be only U get wahala!!! Even Extros get their own sheets and they dont even advertise it the way intro does...

Its almost as if we should pity them or is it glorify them¿

WiredLeggings:
future hubby, take notes.

you cannot change an introverted person. you gotta understand them and accept them as they are.

but do you know that it is very possible for an introvert to change and become an extrovert?

Nairalandsss:
When two people live under the same roof, they have to first digest the fact that it won’t be easy to to get along with all aspects of the other person. At the same time, you don’t need to change the other person and make a clone of yourself. In fact, even if you try hard, you can’t change anyone on this planet. The only option you have is to live harmoniously with the other person by accepting the differences. An introvert woman and extrovert man can live happily without conflicts. Love can survive only in places where understanding is.Here are some ways to deal with an introverted wife.

Ways to deal with an introverted wife are:


1.She requires solitude: When she requests you to leave her alone, don’t get offended. Being an introverted wife, she just needs solitude. It doesn’t mean that she hates your company. Introverts need solitude to rejuvenate and function well. That’s their psychological and emotional necessity. Don’t get her wrong when she withdraws herself into silence or solitude.

2.Let her be: Just let her be. See whether you can accept her way of living. It is better to let her live in her comfort zone. When she needs your company, she will voluntarily come and give you a hug. Sometimes, you will luckily see the wild side of a romantic introverted woman.

3.Don’t force her into a conversation: If she is silent, don’t force her into a conversation. Introverts participate in interesting conversations but they do it only when they feel like doing it; not when you want it. So, the next time when you suddenly start speaking about an interesting topic, don’t expect her to get excited about it. If she is in the mood, she will continue the talk but if she is in her regular introverted moods, she would simply smile and pretend that she is listening. Either ways, you must just let her be. She will love you more for doing so.

4.Never force her to socialise: Introverts do socialise but only when they feel like. So, how to handle an introvert wife? Well, ensure that you never force her to those evening parties and other social events that you are fond of. But you can always invite her and give her the option of saying yes or no. Your wife doesn’t need to be just like you in every aspect. Respect her individuality and enjoy those social events with your friends. In fact, an introverted woman is a lot better than an extroverted woman.

5.Give her some space: If you can do this, allot a room for her in your house. This is the best way to deal with an introvert. She would love to have some private space all for herself. Don’t be suspicious about it. She has nothing to hide from you. She just enjoys that private silent space. Now, you must have understood how to deal with an introverted wife.

These are the ways to deal with an introverted wife.



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http://www.naijabroad.com/index.php/2017/07/12/ways-deal-introverted-wife/

let's do it the ancient way!

shout on that mathafvcka! and tell her how ya paid her bride price and if she isn't want to cooperate, tell her that ya got a black niggic biitch rolling on ya rod


no time to be sentimental on ya all black bitttches

Introvert women are very sensual and romantic ..

muller101:
The future tense of that marriage will be a divorce

As a matter of fact, introverts are the most loyal people on the planet. Once you gain their trust, that's all. They'll never go away.

As for op, all I see are the negative sides of an introvert. If you bring out the traits of marrying an extrovert its probably worse than this. You forgot to add that introverts are deep thinkers. They don't cause unnecessary trouble.They connect on a deeper level and can be very passionate. They are tolerant and easy to please. They are great supporters and don't care to be in the limelight which means as a man your ego of superiority is saved. Introverts are very creative too and if you give them that space they will do brilliantly. However, if you know you can't cope with them, leave them for people who are more reasonable.

Me personally I've dated a few extroverts, they're very unserious and too playful. Extroverts want to wear the crown without doing any work. Very show-offy and braggadocious. Its better to have a quiet house and a profitable life than a noisy arena with little to show for it

Ok
Will comment tommorrow

Most Introverts makes good wifey so they are for keeps. Extroverts are somewhat b!tchy they are for funs.

Ebuka2016:

but do you know that it is very possible for an introvert to change and become an extrovert?

i know it is for other pple but not me, lol. i've tried but it never worked. at this point I'm a lost cause w/ being introverted. i just have to be okay with being me.

Asito:
wife that does not complain and argue about every little thing, is that one wife?

you want someone that will complain and argue abt everything. your case is sorry

WiredLeggings:
i know it is for other pple but not me, lol. i've tried but it never worked. at this point I'm a lost cause w/ being introverted. i just have to be okay with being me.

no need to feel sorry!! many extroverts want to be introverts but they can't, all they do is secretly admire from afar

Effiezynews:
Introvert women are very sensual and romantic ..

too emotional as well. they easily do things you never expect they could and you will never notice. so secretive, I hate that part

BEAUTIFUL op, you are very very correct. I enjoy it when am left alone most times. Inshort, few things I have ever achieved i life, I got the ideas during the moments of silence. For me, that is when my subconscious mind works, that is when I receive direction.

I'm an introvert, I'm very quiet when I want to. But in your wildest fantasy you can't picture my fierceness. I'm a wild lioness only when I want, with only few people around to witness it.

Being an introvert is a privilege not a curse, I love myself. Introvert is the new sexy.

We don't take shiit from nobody, once you're out of our head and life, my dear, you can't get back in, even if you're wrap in a coffin

I'm an extrovert and I really like to see introverted ladies.To be honest, introverted people have a better personality.

Asito:
wife that does not complain and argue about every little thing, is that one wife?

So u want someone that will give u heart attack?

goingape1:
let's do it the ancient way!

shout on that mathafvcka! and tell her how ya paid her bride price and if she isn't want to cooperate, tell her that ya got a black niggic biitch rolling on ya rod


no time to be sentimental on ya all black bitttches

and you have to quote the whole post ba?? Oya take

Ginaz:
I'm an introvert, I'm very quiet when I want to. But in your wildest fantasy you can't picture my fierceness. I'm a wild lioness only when I want, with only few people around to witness it.

Being an introvert is a privilege not a curse, I love myself. Introvert is the new sexy.

We don't take shiit from nobody, once you're out of our head and life, my dear, you can't get back in, even if you're wrap in a coffin

wow i like that ferociousness.

goingape1:
let's do it the ancient way!

shout on that mathafvcka! and tell her how ya paid her bride price and if she isn't want to cooperate, tell her that ya got a black niggic biitch rolling on ya rod


no time to be sentimental on ya all black bitttches

Your village ppl neva gree leave you?