₦airaland Forum

Fresca:
I'm a proud dark skin beautiful woman and nothing will change that... something I noticed here on Nairaland is that men attack me and the first thing they always mention is my skin colour, how black I am, how dirty my skin looks, one guy even said that I should go and rub small bleaching cream..

So this got me wondering, we ladies might love our colour but constant bashing from our DARK men or brothers who have mothers and sisters that are dark like me are the reasons why girls especially those with low self esteem bleach..

This is something men need to stop. This is Africa, Nigeria is an African country with black people, we should be proud of our skin and love ourselves. Most White people already hate our skin so why add to the hatred?

If you're an African man, be it light/dark and you say a dark girl should go bleach, then maybe you should check yourself. You might have self hate issues and you need to evaluate yourself.....


Seun

shinarlaura:
Am doing fine hun...... hope ur day was good.


What's for dinner tonight?

Martin0:
Shinarlaura, s'il vous plaît, j'ai quelque chose à vous
parler, peut-on en discuter en privé via l'adresse
électronique, s'il vous plaît, envoyez-moi un courriel
via mon ancien compte de messagerie

sonofLuci:
Guy be like I gats unfollow you asap, I hate fake ass speaking french niggaz

Tryna hit on a bitch using fake french. So awkward.

Cc Toks2008.

shinarlaura:
Am doing fine hun...... hope ur day was good.


What's for dinner tonight?

Martin0:
hahahahahahahhaa na wa oooo why is it that Men think negatively,jesus this simply mean's you will do same to you lover,it obviously clear,I try to respect people's privacy publicly,and not all words need to be said openly in public for people not to classify her into some nasty instinct,hahahahahahaha see quarry hahahahah wonderful,well you can decide to unfollow if you wish to,hahahahhahaha una dey make person laugh sha hahahahahahahhaahah chai

sonofLuci:

Martin0:
na wa oooo see throwing

sonofLuci:

Safiaa:
But that picture is not of you though. Why are you trying to catfish? If we're talking about self love, why not use your own picture instead of some one else's. Just saying.

Martin0:
Shinarlaura, s'il vous plaît, j'ai quelque chose à vous
parler, peut-on en discuter en privé via l'adresse
électronique, s'il vous plaît, envoyez-moi un courriel
via mon ancien compte de messagerie

kaboninc:
Does it matter at all if it's her picture or not?

She's sending out a message which is really really important and you can help by contributing to the discus. Haha, everything no be fight....

So if I talk about how guys should do regular exercises and upload a picture of one cocky fellow, you'll just ask me to take it down?

Martin0:
Shinarlaura, s'il vous plaît, j'ai quelque chose à vous
parler dire (ou raconter ), peut-on en discuter en privé via l' mon adresse
électronique, s'il vous plaît, envoyez-moi un courriel courrier
via mon ancien compte de messagerie

thepussyhunter:


ok so its all african tonight ........theres:
ekoki
palm nut soup
bitterleaf soup with boiled plaintain served at the side
fufu with ground nut soup
fried prunes simmered in salvory tomato sauce
accra banana
achu soup
ndole
and
ekwang

which would you want tonight hun




and yeah i had a swell day.....thanks for asking

shinarlaura:
Oh my God.... how come u know all that....... Ndole is what I ate today with boiled plantains.

thepussyhunter:
i kinda knew of ndole. Ekwang, achu soup, and ekoki
for the others its all google's doing

you see even the universe thinks we're made for each other...........i could i have guessed right without it's help


you plan on turning in late tonight qui?

shinarlaura:
Did u have a taste of any of them?

My missing rib

Nothing particular today. Just under the blanket

luminouz:
OP..how am I even sure those picz are urs

Safiaa:
Yes it matters because of her first paragraph. The picture is clearly not hers, yet she's drawing attention to it claiming that guys insulted her based on the colour of her skin. But thats not even her picture. Why lie? We already know colourism is a huge issue in africa, but i don't support hiding under another persons identity to prove a point. It doesn't make sense, and I'm sure the owner of the pic will not be happy with someone using their picture, on top of being very manerless and ignorant. She should've just generalised her article instead of making it personal. Nobody would have the reason to question her. Its that simple

Safiaa:
Yes it matters because of her first paragraph. The picture is clearly not hers, yet she's drawing attention to it claiming that guys insulted her based on the colour of her skin. But thats not even her picture. Why lie? We already know colourism is a huge issue in africa, but i don't support hiding under another persons identity to prove a point. It doesn't make sense, and I'm sure the owner of the pic will not be happy with someone using their picture, on top of being very manerless and ignorant. She should've just generalised her article instead of making it personal. Nobody would have the reason to question her. Its that simple

lalasticlala:
Let me help you with Google search

Safiaa:
Yes it matters because of her first paragraph. The picture is clearly not hers, yet she's drawing attention to it claiming that guys insulted her based on the colour of her skin. But thats not even her picture. Why lie? We already know colourism is a huge issue in africa, but i don't support hiding under another persons identity to prove a point. It doesn't make sense, and I'm sure the owner of the pic will not be happy with someone using their picture, on top of being very manerless and ignorant. She should've just generalised her article instead of making it personal. Nobody would have the reason to question her. Its that simple

Fresca:
Did I say that it was my picture? So me being a proud black girl means that's my pic? Mumu

Safiaa:
Yes it matters because of her first paragraph. The picture is clearly not hers, yet she's drawing attention to it claiming that guys insulted her based on the colour of her skin. But thats not even her picture. Why lie? We already know colourism is a huge issue in africa, but i don't support hiding under another persons identity to prove a point. It doesn't make sense, and I'm sure the owner of the pic will not be happy with someone using their picture, on top of being very manerless and ignorant. She should've just generalised her article instead of making it personal. Nobody would have the reason to question her. Its that simple

Tahrah:
The op wanted attention and now she's getting it albeit negative.

Fresca:
Attention you say? Believe me I receive that thousands of time in my mentions so calm down.

Colorism issues are issues you probably face too so if you cannot contribute anything sensible to this thread... COME AND BE GOING..

Tahrah:
Oh yes i am a black lady and some people give me attitude because of my color but i do not use another lady's picture as my dp and then create a thread saying some male nairalanders abuse me because of my color when i am actually not the one in the dp.That is hypocritical.

Fresca:
Is that the point of the thread?? Whether I'm the girl or not, guys attack dark skin girl. So stop looking for the attention that you're saying I want and go sit on a dick or something.

Fresca:
I'm a proud dark skin beautiful woman and nothing will change that... something I noticed here on Nairaland is that men attack me and the first thing they always mention is my skin colour, how black I am, how dirty my skin looks, one guy even said that I should go and rub small bleaching cream..