Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

juniweezy:
When our forefathers said girls should not go 2 school we been dey curse them.. Na this kind tin dey make papa no wan spend moni 4 him girl child. Just imagine the vomit this 1 is vomitting.. Please call him n get back 2 him then when u get d real belle come back n tell us d story so we can give u options of suicide

Nma27:
23 year old guy ain't ready for such. Better face your studies.

sunshineG:
Op how caring and loving is a man that leaves you cold in your time of need
How caring is man that was having sex with you but suggest you abort when you got pregnant for him
Do you need to go over the meaning of loving and caring again in your dictionary

Now I don't know the guy or how good was your relationship with him but then judging from your write up
I can tell something is clouding your judgment of this guy

Nma27:
Try dating a guy in his late 20s next time

Maxi112:
See waiting you'd advise person girlfriend, if na your gf waiting you go do? how would you feel if person they dish this kin advise give am.


@23 he isn't ready yet for anything.... I blame op.

sunshineG:
even if she dates a man in his late 50s and he is not responsible or matured nko
Or haven't you seen such before
I will prefare you use "next time date a matured and responsible man'
How will a lady know this(I mean if a man is matured) you might ask ?
Simple
From his character and words
Not his handsome face or huge wallet

IamKashyBaby:


At least u already know that he juz want to drill u and if ever u get pregnant (for real) , ur on ur own..

He's obviously NOT ready when shii is abt to go down..

Save urself for someone who is worth to keep you juz in case u get pregnant..

Traphedges, help this babe to mend her broken heart ooo..

TrapHedges:


LOL she obviously lost her "dlck" her self.. She should get it back her sef.. My hand no DE

Why she shud go back to someone who cant even afford to stand beside if ever she get pregnant?

Btw, isnt that u were looking for ur babay momma who will carry ur kids that lools like u ?

IamKashyBaby:


At least u already know that he juz want to drill u and if ever u get pregnant (for real) , ur on ur own..

He's obviously NOT ready when shii is abt to go down..

Save urself for someone who is worth to keep you juz in case u get pregnant..

Traphedges, help this babe to mend her broken heart ooo..

sunshineG:
Op how caring and loving is a man that leaves you cold in your time of need
How caring is man that was having sex with you but suggest you abort when you got pregnant for him
Do you need to go over the meaning of loving and caring again in your dictionary

Now I don't know the guy or how good was your relationship with him but then judging from your write up
I can tell something is clouding your judgment of this guy

Oyindidi:
You can't force a man to love you.

Olive4:


Tnx alot for your advice

Olive4:


I know.... I thought he really meant his words

Blackhawk03:
You'll be doing yourself a lot of good by getting over that asshole real quick. Some girls sef, mstcheeeeew. You're missing someone that hurled unprintable words at you because you were supposedly carrying his child... Anti, shey e gbadun sha? So your brain never tell you say na "hit and run" you be to him.

Blackhawk03:
You'll be doing yourself a lot of good by getting over that asshole real quick. Some girls sef, mstcheeeeew. You're missing someone that hurled unprintable words at you because you were supposedly carrying his child... Anti, shey e gbadun sha? So your brain never tell you say na "hit and run" you be to him.