Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

This is how all those disaster-going-somewhere-to-happen nutjobs are created. you're still calling him caring after ditching you in a time of need like that.

Get it straight: me giving you what you want to get what i need from you is not love; it's just a way of me showing love to me instead of me loving you!

Hence, he scoped you since, chopped u wella but your mom's War-Against-Free-Pvssy-Donation Prayers for your life were stronger and fate got him failing that test you gave him just so you can know where he'd really stand with you when the cookie crumbled.

Take the hint, take a hike!

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

Love aside, you are petty for pulling such stunt.

You as a person, are you ready to raise a child at 22?

Do you know the way he has planned his life?

Let me be frank with you, him telling you to abort it is very bad but that in no way is a real test of his love for you.

What if he does not have the finance and ability to cater for himself alone talk less of you and a child.

You are so immature to think you can gauge his love like that.

90percent of 23 years old in Nigeria will tell you to abort, when the country is not even smiling.

If you are doubting his love, then pull out and stop being needy and childish

Kondomatic:
I wish I can sell you on OLX right now.



How about the 23yrs old guy that is having unprotected sex with his age mate in Buhari's regime?

Is that what they sent him to do in school??

LOL

[[/color]quote author=Olive4 post=58477149]pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls[color=#990000]
[/quote]

You went too far, how ?
You were being smart my dear, and now you know where you stand with him if such eventually happens. For it might, if you take him back and the sex continues because it's obvious you guys don't use protection.

I would say move on, but you might still be hung on him since emotion isn't a switch you just turn off .
So please if you take him back, please kindly close your legs, before this expensive joke becomes a reality and he totally abandons you.

And no darling, you haven't lost him, instead he just lost you.

IamKashyBaby:


Why she shud go back to someone who cant even afford to stand beside if ever she get pregnant?

Btw, isnt that u were looking for ur babay momma who will carry ur kids that lools like u ?

lol e fo be u ooo.. But u run

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

Sincerely OP, if it was me; I would just cut the call and off my phone.


then later call you back the next day.

I would never tell you to remove the baby.

---

Even if I don't like you, I would not shout at you that moment.

it's left for you to decide whether to keep the baby or not.


But I suggest you leave that guy.


Don't say I didn't warn you

---

But at 23 I'm not redy for such girl

TrapHedges:


lol e fo be u ooo.. But u run

Chineeeke!

U wan ur booboo will kill me eehn? besides, i want octuplets..

iamVirus:


Sincerely OP, if it was me; I would just cut the call and off my phone.


then later call you back the next day.

I would never tell you to remove the baby.

---

Even if I don't like you, I would not shout at you that moment.

it's left for you to decide whether to keep the baby or not.


But I suggest you leave that guy.


Don't say I didn't warn you

---

But at 23 I'm not redy for such girl

Did you see the hypocrisy in your comment..

You will end up getting call...

You will not tell her to remove it..

It is left for her to decide, because she impregnated herself?

The guy was being sincere and she knows it is the truth.

Even you agree that at 23 you will not accept it, so forgetting all you typed, the LCM is she will abort it or you abandon her.

Why telling her to leave him?

The only reason she should leave him is because she does not trust him again as she stated!

Prevho:


Did you see the hypocrisy in your comment..

You will end up getting call...

You will not tell her to remove it..

It is left for her to decide, because she impregnated herself?

The guy was being sincere and she knows it is the truth.

Even you agree that at 23 you will not accept it, so forgetting all you typed, the LCM is she will abort it or you abandon her.

Why telling her to leave him?

The only reason she should leave him is because she does not trust him again as she stated!

lol


bro, I said leave him because she's not yet pregnant oo.

she has the opportunity to run or abstain now

Adorbs:
[[/color]quote author=Olive4 post=58477149]pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls[color=#990000]


You went too far, how ?
You were being smart my dear, and now you know where you stand with him if such eventually happens. For it might, if you take him back and the sex continues because it's obvious you guys don't use protection.

I would say move on, but you might still be hung on him since emotion isn't a switch you just turn off .
So please if you take him back, please kindly close your legs, before this expensive joke becomes a reality and he totally abandons you.

And no darling, you haven't lost him, instead he just lost you.

tnx....i feel better

Tnx to everyone that commented.... I really appreciate all your advices. I feel more better now and not in pain anymore.

Olive4:
Tnx to everyone that commented.... I really appreciate all your advices. I feel more better now and not in pain anymore.

So are u guys "OK" now

well...na puppy love dey worry una..oya pm me make we go chop fresh fish and a borrle of origin to calm u down ....the guy dey fear pregnancy thats means he is not ready at all..

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

that boy don't love you... You'll see how it ends.

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

Thats d problem wit datin all dis children sef
I almost tot it was my gf posting dis thang...d onky difference here was ur age n how long u guys dated
Wtf!!! R u kiddin me
Dont joke wit dat kinda stuff pls...wen my gf did dat i was almost goin nuts
We r in d same sch n girls know me as dat guy dat can form...den just picture say i come belle girl....lol...not so pleasant....
Whats d use of all dese test u guys give niggas...if a guy luvs u he luvs u stop all dis nonesense test i begg.. After d test my girl n i have just lost dat connection jor...d tin ruined my days...n i got a replacement lined up for her
But d only way out now
Just go c him
Tell him u tot he luved u no mata wat but it was obvious he didnt truely luv u... Coz if he did he wldnt have left...he will definately lie sha...just later tell him u wia just checkin to c how far ur relationship wld go...if na breakup make una break up ooo....hhahahahahaha...justdei tell u now. From a niggas mind...but dat thang aint funny

Monaco2:




So are u guys "OK" now

Nop.... he recently send me the pic of his new gf and called me a prostituted just because I asked y he is sending d pix to me

donMIG:


Thats d problem wit datin all dis children sef
I almost tot it was my gf posting dis thang...d onky difference here was ur age n how long u guys dated
Wtf!!! R u kiddin me
Dont joke wit dat kinda stuff pls...wen my gf did dat i was almost goin nuts
We r in d same sch n girls know me as dat guy dat can form...den just picture say i come belle girl....lol...not so pleasant....
Whats d use of all dese test u guys give niggas...if a guy luvs u he luvs u stop all dis nonesense test i begg.. After d test my girl n i have just lost dat connection jor...d tin ruined my days...n i got a replacement lined up for her
But d only way out now
Just go c him
Tell him u tot he luved u no mata wat but it was obvious he didnt truely luv u... Coz if he did he wldnt have left...he will definately lie sha...just later tell him u wia just checkin to c how far ur relationship wld go...if na breakup make una break up ooo....hhahahahahaha...justdei tell u now. From a niggas mind...but dat thang aint funny

He has moved on with someone else and even sending her pix to me

Olive4:
pls I need your help right now.... I am so down

I have a guy who I have being dating for close to 7months now... he is very caring and loving but sometimes I doubt his love for me.
so in order to know how much he loves me, I lied to him that I was pregnant and there is no way I am going for abortion (I intend keeping it) . he quickly suggested that I should flush it or else his hands are off, that I want to tie him down with pregnancy... infact he said alot of things. I was really hurt by his words and that made me very angry and I warned him never to call my line again. the way he changed all of a sudden,surprised me. he is 23 and I am 22

I know I went too far, but I miss him now and his numbers has been off since.

I need your advice pls

I don't know what he actually said but if I were him, I might have said worse. How would u get pregnant @ 22 when its just bf/gf relationship? Even if it was meant to be a test, I'm pregnant is equal to cardiac arrest for a guy who isn't ur husband. Just learn ur lessons from this incident and use a condom for Gods sake, its just #50, there are conditions worse than pregnancy.

IamRaizo:
that boy don't love you... You'll see how it ends.

He doesn't love me one bit but I have moved on.... U guys kind words really helped me

Apina:

I don't know what he actually said but if I were him, I might have said worse. How would u get pregnant @ 22 when its just bf/gf relationship? Even if it was meant to be a test, I'm pregnant is equal to cardiac arrest for a guy who isn't ur husband. Just learn ur lessons from this incident and use a condom for Gods sake, its just #50, there are conditions worse than pregnancy.

Olive4:


He doesn't love me one bit but I have moved on.... U guys kind words really helped me

its better to see his true colours on time than seeing it later on when "maybe" it might have been too late...


Good thing you're strong enough to move on...one of the best will come your way soon

Olive4:



Nop.... he recently send me the pic of his new gf and called me a prostituted just because I asked y he is sending d pix to me

Na crase e b?!?
U should av blocked him a long time ago to avoid such, n delete his number.
Out of sight out of mind....
No worry,love go find u

Monaco2:


Na crase e b?!?
U should av blocked him a long time ago to avoid such, n delete his number.
Out of sight out of mind....
No worry,love go find u

Amen o

IamRaizo:
its better to see his true colours on time than seeing it later on when "maybe" it might have been too late...


Good thing you're strong enough to move on...one of the best will come your way soon

Yeah

Olive4:


He has moved on with someone else and even sending her pix to me

Wat
Dat guy is heartless...but look on d bryt side..u found out he didnt really love u...he was just using u...dont worry...let KARMA catch up wit hin

Olive4:


Yeah

stay safe.

donMIG:



Wat
Dat guy is heartless...but look on d bryt side..u found out he didnt really love u...he was just using u...dont worry...let KARMA catch up wit hin

I have already

sunshineG:
Op how caring and loving is a man that leaves you cold in your time of need
How caring is man that was having sex with you but suggest you abort when you got pregnant for him
Do you need to go over the meaning of loving and caring again in your dictionary

Now I don't know the guy or how good your relationship was with him but then judging from your write up
I can tell something is clouding your judgment of this guy

I think d cloud hovering ard her judgement is d guyz d***...dude be lyk mayweather of kpekus
..

Wot makes you think a 23 yrs old boy is ready for marriage in naija?

Even if his family is financially sound or he's a graduate and working, the chance that he's ready to settle down is very slim.


He is nt jst ready now. Bt he might in d future though. Bt given ur age difference, d chance dt you cn wait for him to b ready, is even slimmer.



Join cawid.com