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Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Nobody: 10:38am On Jul 18, 2017
BlaQWolf:
Offensive vaginal disorder, Seriously??
There is more to a story than meets the eyes.

Fine morning, you haven't been replying your messages nah
"Offensive vagina odour". It's just one of the possible factors I mentioned. Btw, I'll check it out.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by BlaQWolf: 10:40am On Jul 18, 2017
Benita27:
"Offensive vagina odour". It's just one of the possible factors I mentioned. Anyway, I'll check it out.
Ok o...but you raw sha...
Let me come and be going
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by BluntBoy(m): 10:45am On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice
You are not cursed. It's just that you stink like rotten fish.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by robosky02(m): 11:02am On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by jacyhelen(f): 11:55am On Jul 18, 2017
Spicy06:
How many so far, and what level are u at now?
must you knowhuh?..Help her if you can..If she mention 20 now,u go still call am ashawo.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by jacyhelen(f): 11:56am On Jul 18, 2017
DabLord:
Have you heard this song"Pass the agbara".
They're passing your agbarahuh
lol..
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by jacyhelen(f): 11:58am On Jul 18, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
Really? To be sincere with you if its not spiritual which I don't think it is, then its your character.

I said so because once a girl have sex with you, they just start believing that they've done you a great favour and unconsciously start trying to be in control of the relationship..this is something all guys can relate to. Only few girls maintain d tenderness that first attracted the guy to her even after sex and that's what inspires the guy to show more care.

When I meet such girl I usually have patience for a 2nd sex, after that I vapourize off. My long relationships are with girls that are simply feminine.

Other factors may include body odour, parasitic demands, lack of exposure, your disposition in public, level of neatness etc
lol..Mr Lecturer
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by jacyhelen(f): 12:01pm On Jul 18, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
All these things happen to you because you think opening your legs for a man you love would keep him tied down to you forever. I can guess you open them too early than most girls do which is wrong. The logic IS;

When you get into a relationship with a man, first, focus on building that relationship with him, work towards making him see you as a wife material as past experiences may have diverted his ways of thought towards woman and make him see you as no different from the others other than as a sex object. Show him love, care and attention and monitor to see if he'll do same. See if he'll detach himself little by little because you've not offered sex, see if he's reciprocating the love, care, attention and commitment even more than you do, take things easy, don't be too demanding, show him that you love him genuinely without pretence and study his behaviour when he asks for sex the first time and you refuse, if he still hangs around, then when in a romantic scenario, ask him if he loves you, if he says yes with seriousness and ask you why you had to ask, then explain to him how you have been hurt by pple you trust and love in the past and how you don't want to go through that path again... I'm sure if he's a man and not a furckboy, he'll see the right to love you and even care for you more and make you see the difference between him and those you dated in the past.

Good luck dear.

Sex should come last, take note.
hmmmm nottin but the Pure truth!!!
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by jacyhelen(f): 12:03pm On Jul 18, 2017
Pheals:
kuku tell her na only asshole attract asshole simple!
lol
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Acromial(m): 12:23pm On Jul 18, 2017
Try seeing a psychologist. You can get only so much here because you're not telling us the whole story, Besides all the advice people will give are based on their personal experiences which are different from yours.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Michelle55: 2:53pm On Jul 18, 2017
Choi, the matter just weak me. op stop sleeping with them, focus on building the relationship first and when you are certain that both of you are on the same page and you both love each other, then you can decide if you want to involve sex into the relationship or wait till after marriage... it all boils down to what you both truly want from each other and the relationship... always define the relationship from the onset to know where you belong in his life and lastly stop bleeping fuckboys!!
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Erums(m): 3:04pm On Jul 18, 2017
internationalman:
I'm in this category of men.
I don't know how will get married bcoz I always tend to develop a sudden hate for a lady after having my way with her like d OP said.
Ure immature... Uve nt made decision
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by internationalman(m): 3:12pm On Jul 18, 2017
Erums:
Ure immature... Uve nt made decision
I have decided to settle down but all to no avail.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Erums(m): 3:57pm On Jul 18, 2017
internationalman:
I have decided to settle down but all to no avail.
I laugh wen pple say that.... Guy, have u learn hoe to keep a woman when she wants to stay... Its a practice, u got to practice it... If she likes it, she would fall for u totally
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by safiaapussy: 4:03pm On Jul 18, 2017
Victornezzar:
Op is a cheerful giver
Keep on giving
Ur husband would be donating 2 oda people wen una dom marry
OP got disvirgined in 100L, this guy I quoted above is still 16 & yet to enter Uni, don't take advice from him OP. He kuku doesn't have anything meaningful to say because his brain is undeveloped.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by bossrillboss: 5:43pm On Jul 18, 2017
Pheals:
kuku tell her na only asshole attract asshole simple!
..abi ooo,just dey do leg ova go back nd beat around d bush.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by internationalman(m): 6:35pm On Jul 18, 2017
Erums:
I laugh wen pple say that.... Guy, have u learn hoe to keep a woman when she wants to stay... Its a practice, u got to practice it... If she likes it, she would fall for u totally
The problem with me isn't how to keep a woman, like I said I always lose interest in them when I have had my way.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Erums(m): 6:40pm On Jul 18, 2017
internationalman:
The problem with me isn't how to keep a woman, like I said I always lose interest in them when I have had my way.
Dats it, u need to really slow down and decide not to hate her after having ur way... Alot of goodies do not suffice ay early stages of a relationship.....i tink u shud learn to finish tins.... Bt ur case is scary thou.... Is like u want a perfect bieng after tha sex
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by internationalman(m): 6:47pm On Jul 18, 2017
Erums:
Dats it, u need to really slow down and decide not to hate her after having ur way... Alot of goodies do not suffice ay early stages of a relationship.....i tink u shud learn to finish tins.... Bt ur case is scary thou.... Is like u want a perfect bieng after tha sex
My own case tire me oh. Even if d girl was a miss world, I don't want to have anything to do with her or respect her after intercourse. I still think I haven't found d right girl Though.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Erums(m): 7:22pm On Jul 18, 2017
internationalman:
My own case tire me oh. Even if d girl was a miss world, I don't want to have anything to do with her or respect her after intercourse. I still think I haven't found d right girl Though.
Again... U need to make urself the right person cos obviously yre the one wit da problem.. Not them.... Listen not every fall in love at first sight and stay in love after first sight... Its up to u
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by lexxwiz(m): 8:49pm On Jul 18, 2017
virgina too big? Odor? Character sucks? Cheerful giver? million questions to obviously ask yourself. You're the only solution to your problem.. either be honest to yourself or abstinence. Goodwvevening
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice
Jealous Spirit husband . go for deliverance.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Marcelo290(m): 9:57pm On Jul 18, 2017
Guys are all about the punna these days, it's not about any rules, but the ultimate choice to yield to the pressure is absolutely yours, so I think you need to guide your V, if you continue with the mentality of opening for him with the mindset that it would make him love you, my sister hmmm

Guys eyes the red o, grin;Dsome can go to any extent to hit the jackpot.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by internationalman(m): 10:17pm On Jul 18, 2017
Erums:
Again... U need to make urself the right person cos obviously yre the one wit da problem.. Not them.... Listen not every fall in love at first sight and stay in love after first sight... Its up to u
OK sir thanks. you've been so helpful.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by NwaNimo1(m): 10:43pm On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice
Your a whhhhore...that's why,
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by TheAngry1: 10:44pm On Jul 18, 2017
Go to Synagogue, e fit be say na deliverance you need
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jul 18, 2017
Maybe your pussy stinks or you have a borehole in btw your legs.

Why not try giving your next guy Mouth Action instead of nacking him. He might stay you know.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by NwaNimo1(m): 10:45pm On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice
Your a whhhhore...that's why,

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Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by NwaNimo1(m): 10:45pm On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice
Your a whhhhore...that's why,

https://www.netanimations.net/Sexy-dancing-girl-in-short-black-skirt.gif

Stop being loose..... then guys may take you seriously.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Kenon9: 10:45pm On Jul 18, 2017
Go for proper sacrifice with the head of a live chicken grin
On a serious note ...cut off s.x and try to know the guy's intentions first before jumping to bed with him
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by dacovajnr: 10:46pm On Jul 18, 2017
What a cheerful giver grin grin
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