Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

How many so far, and what level are u at now?

Have you heard this song"Pass the agbara". They're passing your agbara

Really? To be sincere with you if its not spiritual which I don't think it is, then its your character.

I said so because once a girl have sex with you, they just start believing that they've done you a great favour and unconsciously start trying to be in control of the relationship..this is something all guys can relate to. Only few girls maintain d tenderness that first attracted the guy to her even after sex and that's what inspires the guy to show more care.

When I meet such girl I usually have patience for a 2nd sex, after that I vapourize off. My long relationships are with girls that are simply feminine.

Other factors may include body odour, parasitic demands, lack of exposure, your disposition in public, level of neatness etc

Since you already know, then stop having sex with them. Wait after the wedding. My advice

falconey:
Pics please......

u want to check her out also? ....op maybe ANIMASHAUN

Pheals:
u want to check her out also? ....op maybe ANIMASHAUN

Haba pheals kilagbe kileju? My intention is completely honourary. I just wanna see what she looks like before i postulate.

All these things happen to you because you think opening your legs for a man you love would keep him tied down to you forever. I can guess you open them too early than most girls do which is wrong. The logic IS;

When you get into a relationship with a man, first, focus on building that relationship with him, work towards making him see you as a wife material as past experiences may have diverted his ways of thought towards woman and make him see you as no different from the others other than as a sex object. Show him love, care and attention and monitor to see if he'll do same. See if he'll detach himself little by little because you've not offered sex, see if he's reciprocating the love, care, attention and commitment even more than you do, take things easy, don't be too demanding, show him that you love him genuinely without pretence and study his behaviour when he asks for sex the first time and you refuse, if he still hangs around, then when in a romantic scenario, ask him if he loves you, if he says yes with seriousness and ask you why you had to ask, then explain to him how you have been hurt by pple you trust and love in the past and how you don't want to go through that path again... I'm sure if he's a man and not a furckboy, he'll see the right to love you and even care for you more and make you see the difference between him and those you dated in the past.

Good luck dear.

Sex should come last, take note.

I'm in this category of men.
I don't know how i will get married bcoz I always tend to develop a sudden hate for a lady after having my way with her like d OP said.

Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

I won't know your short comings. But I think You need a honest assessment of your self.


There is a saying :

"if you met an asshole in the morning, you met an asshole.

If you met an asshole in the afternoon on the same day, you met an asshole.

But if you meet an asshole in the evening the same day -
You are the asshole"

Not that am calling you an asshole. There is a chance that you attract only assholes - you should find out why.

It might be that your vjay smells awfully,no pun intended

falconey:


Haba pheals kilagbe kileju? My intention is completely honourary. I just wanna see what she looks like before i postulate.

ok naw...!!! u want to check if op is chop and go abi?

SolexxBarry:
It might be that your vjay smells awfully,no pun intended

chai murderer!!!

pryme:


I won't know your short comings. But I think You need a honest assessment of your self.


There is a saying :

"if you met an asshole in the morning, you met an asshole.

If you met an asshole in the afternoon on the same day, you met an asshole.

But if you meet an asshole in the evening the same day -
You are the asshole"

Not that am calling you an asshole. There is a chance that you attract only assholes - you should find out why.

kuku tell her na only asshole attract asshole simple!

Op is a cheerful giver
Keep on giving
Ur husband would be donating 2 oda people wen una dom marry

Instant deliverance needed

Pheals:
ok naw...!!! u want to check if op is chop and go abi?

Hahahahaha person fit know from looks? Not sure if the op is real anyways. no d.p, the moniker and signature are all about bitcon.

falconey:


Hahahahaha person fit know from looks? Not sure if the op is real anyways. no d.p, the moniker and signature are all about bitcon.

yeah that's why I take everything for a joke.... have check it

Pheals:
kuku tell her na only asshole attract asshole simple!

I wish a can say that, but the law of physics does not work with Fvckboys, they don't know when a lady is out of their league (they believe there is no pvssy they can't conquer) so they go for any woman - I mean any woman. They are more Bold and arrogant. So whether you are a decent lady or not, you will still attract fvckboys.

With that said, a real man will not be attracted to some ladies whether they are beautiful or not.

Sorry about that.

But do some introspection honestly.

What could be scaring them off?

Are you good in bed in your opinion? If not, some may just consider it a waste of time sticking around. Let nobody fool you. It is not all about sex BUT very important for many people.

Does your behaviour change after first sex like becoming possessive?
Do you now start harping on about marriage after sex?

Consider all the guys you have been with: are they all the same type of people? Maybe potential gigolos? Did they pay you money after sex or you insisted "codedly" on money?

One embarrassing thing almost no guy will tell you after sex: some ladies have a pungent (usually strong fishy) VJ flavour that she may not perceive herself. It maybe due to bacterial vaginosis that is not causing her any symptoms.

It can be treated nicely. But nobody wants to embarrass a lady. And they won't return again though.

If all the above do not apply, then just be more careful. Study your dates more. Find out their plan. And more.

Op opens her legs too easily. More often than not, when a guy sleeps with you without much effort they tend to feel if they could get you that cheap then every other guy that came your way did same. Secondly, do you have offensive vagina odour?, that's another thing that could be responsible. Check yourself, and change your ways.

start prayer and fasting, because only God can help u now.

emakoji:
Since you already know, then stop having sex with them. Wait after the wedding. My advice

How sure are you the husband will not divorce after the wedding night

Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

Maybe the guys you meet are all ass holes.

On a scale of 1-10, how cute are you?

If this op fine wella like nadia buari or Juliet abrahim.

I swear I go engage her sharply.


I they serious.




But if not.

Please F5 is the exit.

Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

By everything other girls do, what do you mean?

I think the way we portray our issues isn't right... You see how you just blamed it all on the sex?

Benita27:
Op opens her legs too easily. More often than not, when a guy sleeps with you without much effort they tend to feel if they could get you that cheap then every other guy that came your way did same. Secondly, do you have offensive vaginal odour?, that's another thing that could be responsible. Check yourself, and change your ways.

Too much knowledge isn't good knowledge

BlaQWolf:



Too much knowledge isn't good knowledge

Meaning?.
Good morning.

Benita27:
Meaning?.
Good morning.

Offensive vaginal disorder, Seriously??
There is more to a story than meets the eyes.

Fine morning, you haven't been replying your messages nah