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With the little experience i had,i notice some relationship fire keeps going down at some point,not because they don't love themselves again but because they stopped doing what they did to win the guy/lady's heart. I wanna share some few things here and i hope it helps.

1. Think about why you got together.... When u re in a dire situation where ur relationship is falling,spend some time reflecting on what you like about him or her in the first place. Maybe she could always make u laugh or he made sure he calls to see if you gets home safely. Think abt the little things that you use to love about the other person

2. Make sure u re both open to change....If both of you are willing to learn and grow together, ur relationship can develop overtime into something better,correct ur mistakes and wake towards change.

3. Enjoy hobbies together..... Though tastes may change,you should make time to do something you use to love doing together,If you use to love cooking together,going to beach,try it again by doing this u will rekindle some of the old passion you felt,however u might also try something new.

4. Get physical....You need to remember to connect to each other through touch,not just sex. When u re together hold each hands,cuddle or hug,tough her arm while she is talking,rub his knee while you re sitting beside him,tough is very important in maintaining intimacy.

5. Apply love languages....Try to use love languages to show that you care,if you know you partner love language is time,spend time with him or her to keep the fire burning.

6. Don't forget ur maker...Since you started with God, pray and fast fervently for ur urself, ur partner and the relationship when things start falling apart. Remember you cant slay life challenges but ur prayers can always make things right.

7. Feel free to add yours,am dropping my pen for now.........

nice one op

lemme call lalasticlala for you






btw.

8. Alwayz prepare good meals for each other. To Guys, Especially when she is ill or come home late from work..


9. Alwayz appreciate each other before you start criticizng him/her..

optional1:
nice one op

lemme call lalasticlala for you






btw.

8. Alwayz prepare good meals for each other. To Guys, Especially when she is ill or come home late from work..


9. Alwayz appreciate each other before you start criticizng him/her..

Thanks dear......kisses

BiafraBushBoy:

Did the post just broke your heart

optional1:
nice one op

lemme call lalasticlala for you






btw.

8. Alwayz prepare good meals for each other. To Guys, Especially when she is ill or come home late from work..


9. Alwayz appreciate each other before you start criticizng him/her..

Thanks dear.....Kisses

I'm just happy

BiafraBushBoy:

Kiloshele gan gan

Divay22:
I'm just happy

Am blushing...Thanks dear

Funky123:
Thanks dear.....Kisses

you welcome



lalasticlala oya nah

Hmmm

BiafraBushBoy:

abi i stole ur seat

Funky123:
With the little experience i had,i notice some relationship fire keeps going down at some point,not because they don't love themselves again but because they stopped doing what they did to win the guy/lady's heart. I wanna share some few things here and i hope it helps.

1. Think about why you got together.... When u re in a dire situation where ur relationship is falling,spend some time reflecting on what you like about him or her in the first place. Maybe she could always make u laugh or he made sure he calls to see if you gets home safely. Think abt the little things that you use to love about the other person

2. Make sure u re both open to change....If both of you are willing to learn and grow together, ur relationship can develop overtime into something better,correct ur mistakes and wake towards change.

3. Enjoy hobbies together..... Though tastes may change,you should make time to do something you use to love doing together,If you use to love cooking together,going to beach,try it again by doing this u will rekindle some of the old passion you felt,however u might also try something new.

4. Get physical....You need to remember to connect to each other through touch,not just sex. When u re together hold each hands,cuddle or hug,tough her arm while she is talking,rub his knee while you re sitting beside him,tough is very important in maintaining intimacy.

5. Apply love languages....Try to use love languages to show that you care,if you know you partner love language is time,spend time with him or her to keep the fire burning.

6. Don't forget ur maker...Since you started with God, pray and fast fervently for ur urself, ur partner and the relationship when things start falling apart. Remember you cant slay life challenges but ur prayers can always make things right.

7. Feel free to add yours,am dropping my pen for now.........

Op, didn't you apply this to your previous relationship,
Why did it die if you did?

You only try to save a relationship that was defined in the first place, most of the relationships we have today are not defined. They are just to for catching fun. Most girls see relationships as money spinners while guys see it as sex gateway.
God help this perverse generation.

No need to save a dying relationship, just move on.

Ollygentle:
Op, didn't you apply this to your previous relationship,
Why did it die if you did?

I knew someone like you will always show face but you know what i didn't create thread because of you......Get lost abeg

[quote author=Olalan post=58624186]You only try to save a relationship that was defined in the first place, most of the relationships we have today are not defined. They are just to for catching fun. Most girls see relationships as money spinners while guys see it as sex gateway.
God help this perverse generation.[/quote
Thanks dad....

Funky123:
I knew someone like you will always show face but you know what i didn't create thread because of you......Get lost abeg

OK, now I got my reply,
It simply means ur thread is useless to any dying relationship...

To a chill pill for ur boiling blood.

Ollygentle:
OK, now I got my reply,
It simply means ur thread is useless to any dying relationship...

To a chill pill for ur boiling blood.

I don't know why this section is full of people like this,someone cannot create thread in peace again....Am not boiling but ur response wasn't good enough because i never discuss my previous relationship with you so Man sorry if ve offended you.....lets take that chill pill together

Funky123:
I don't know why this section is full of people like this,someone cannot create thread in peace again....Am not boiling but ur response wasn't good enough because i never discuss my previous relationship with you so Man sorry if ve offended you.....lets take that chill pill together

OK,
Now I'm cool

Ollygentle:
OK, Now I'm cool

Thank God.....don't want to ve enemies here

Funky123:
With the little experience i had,i notice some relationship fire keeps going down at some point,not because they don't love themselves again but because they stopped doing what they did to win the guy/lady's heart. I wanna share some few things here and i hope it helps.

1. Think about why you got together.... When u re in a dire situation where ur relationship is falling,spend some time reflecting on what you like about him or her in the first place. Maybe she could always make u laugh or he made sure he calls to see if you gets home safely. Think abt the little things that you use to love about the other person

2. Make sure u re both open to change....If both of you are willing to learn and grow together, ur relationship can develop overtime into something better,correct ur mistakes and wake towards change.

3. Enjoy hobbies together..... Though tastes may change,you should make time to do something you use to love doing together,If you use to love cooking together,going to beach,try it again by doing this u will rekindle some of the old passion you felt,however u might also try something new.

4. Get physical....You need to remember to connect to each other through touch,not just sex. When u re together hold each hands,cuddle or hug,tough her arm while she is talking,rub his knee while you re sitting beside him,tough is very important in maintaining intimacy.

5. Apply love languages....Try to use love languages to show that you care,if you know you partner love language is time,spend time with him or her to keep the fire burning.

6. Don't forget ur maker...Since you started with God, pray and fast fervently for ur urself, ur partner and the relationship when things start falling apart. Remember you cant slay life challenges but ur prayers can always make things right.

7. Feel free to add yours,am dropping my pen for now.........

K