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hinky:
Why do we find it hard to keep friends?? like i lose friends almost every month... Nd they b lyk m complicated

No be only u, right now I don't have friends am only me, the last time I went to the cinema to watch a movie by myself I feel like the ground should open up and swallow, I don't like to being around crowd, I was feeling uncomfortable throughout.

I feel at home in this thread

Raiyell:
Astrology having existed since pre-historic times does not negate the fact that it is nothing but a pseudoscience. Astrology is a bunch of ancient nonsense and superstition which cannot stand the rigors of scientific inquiry. If you are a staunch believer of astrology in this age of science, then I daresay you're a superstitious bunch and a superstitious fellow is a fellow with low intellect, so there you go.

This doesn't have anything to do with Christianity. If you can show me one example of your personal reading that came to pass, then be prepared for me to present to you thousands of your personal reading that never came to pass. Wisdom is profitable my brother, learn to court wisdom.

Infact, wisdom fall on you.

I use my own personal experiences to tell the authenticity and fact of astrology. I don't need any other evidence than that!
You also have low intellect because you don't believe in a particular ideology yet try to force another to believe in yours. It shows you lack something very vital. Go figure! Keep feeling yourself because even fools think they are smarter than wise people.

Heterodox:
Check your dictionary for the meaning of girlfriend and compare it to reality.

I don't get how that relates to the topic of discussion. All the same,you said you are a schizoid. Not me.

Biamond:
Yeah, One good thing about being introvert is that we always believe in ourselves. We're a special creature.

Where are you located?

çali

lamarrj:
Maybe your introvert life was boring. I have no desire to change my introverted life. I have zero interest in fitting in. Trust me, I enjoy so hard!

How on earth is an introverted life interesting?? Like I said I've lived an introvert life and I don't see anything interesting in it..... Or was I missing something??

Zero interest of fitting in?? or you just can't fit in, please don't make me laugh

Being the punch line of almost any joke even among friends because of lack of reply. Thinking too much and paying too much attention to everything.

snowblaq:
1.Before talking with people.. I play scenerios in my head
2. I'm my own best company
3. Silence is never boring
4. I don't know how to make friends... And the few i have... Most times, i never know what to say to them
5… i am addicted to novels and i always have one with me.. Incase i have to be in any awkward place.
6. Atimes when i notive someone trying to talk with me.. I pretend to answer calls on my fone rather than talk..... I'm not trying to be rude... But most times.. I just panic... For no known cause.
7. I break a sweat when I'm the centre of attraction.
8. I hate birthday parties... Especially mine because of no. 7.
EtC...

Where you just told to write my biography? Damn, birthday parties dont excite me at all. Being alone and secluded creates a unique sense of serenity in my mind.

ORIJIN201:
just 2 yet.
The 1st is unsure while this one seems immature to me.
Me keeping quite after telling me to made her look silly. She couldn't even face me in school today. My silence will deal with her

Chai!

Just come to school tomorrow in a 2013 Toyota venza and watch what happens. If she doesn't beg to give you blow j0b, call me a bastard.

On average, 75 year old has spent 25 years asleep, 5 years eating and 10 Years of doing other miscellaneous things that a total of 40 years wasted either you like it or not.

Most introverts lie to themselves that they find solace in their loneliness which I know it's a big lie which is why most introvert easily gets depressed and are not able to Overcome their emotions, like I said this life is too short to "come and go" and die heart attack due to depression

The funniest parts is when to introverts fall in love with each other, they will just be looking at each other like zombies waiting for who would make the first move. They hardly get a girlfriend even if they do it doesn't last which makes most of them find solace in masturbation, the worst of it all is that most of the female ones will
never reach orgasm, one of the best gift of life.

Even job self them no fit get because most employers will prefer to employ an extroverted person to an introvert which limit their chance of getting a good job.

In a short note, an introverted attitude is a curse which only the brave are able to break free except for deliverance from a pastor

Cc: Cleopatra4
lamarrj
SPEEDEPITOME

princessayesha:
I am very free while chatting, but once I meet people, I find it hard to even look them in the eyes

Eiyaa, I just feel a compulsive need to give you a hug now.

snowblaq:
1.Before talking with people.. I play scenerios in my head
2. I'm my own best company
3. Silence is never boring
4. I don't know how to make friends... And the few i have... Most times, i never know what to say to them
5… i am addicted to novels and i always have one with me.. Incase i have to be in any awkward place.
6. Atimes when i notive someone trying to talk with me.. I pretend to answer calls on my fone rather than talk..... I'm not trying to be rude... But most times.. I just panic... For no known cause.
7. I break a sweat when I'm the centre of attraction.
8. I hate birthday parties... Especially mine because of no. 7.
EtC...

Awww, you have a boyfriend?

ismailaja:
am your twin brother, I can practice java for 10hr

so Java is double dating?

ismailaja:
am your twin brother, I can practice java for 10hr

so Java is double dating? I can't believe she's cheating on me. after so many hours of intimacy.

snowblaq:
1.Before talking with people.. I play scenerios in my head
2. I'm my own best company
3. Silence is never boring
4. I don't know how to make friends... And the few i have... Most times, i never know what to say to them
5… i am addicted to novels and i always have one with me.. Incase i have to be in any awkward place.
6. Atimes when i notive someone trying to talk with me.. I pretend to answer calls on my fone rather than talk..... I'm not trying to be rude... But most times.. I just panic... For no known cause.
7. I break a sweat when I'm the centre of attraction.
8. I hate birthday parties... Especially mine because of no. 7.
EtC...

my twin sister

Petitediva14:
I hate crowds. I hate going out (I don't know how I would find a husband like that). I hate talking to people on the phone. I like texting or chatting. I get bored easily when people are talking. I don't have time for plenty friends which is challenging considering I have a start up handmade skincare and hair brand, a blog and youtube channel and I need people to buy things, read my blog or watch my videos.
It is well o.

what's your youtube channel?

Sometimes i feel like if i was adam , i will tell eve to eat the fruit aging when am looking at her , then i will tell her to keep cool till God come back to see us.

MobileGees:
On average, 75 year old has spent 25 years asleep, 5 years eating and 10 Years of doing other miscellaneous things that a total of 40 years wasted either you like it or not.

Most introverts lie to themselves that they find solace in their loneliness which I know it's a big lie which is why most introvert easily gets depressed and are not able to Overcome their emotions, like I said this life is too short to "come and go" and die heart attack due to depression

The funniest parts is when to introverts fall in love with each other, they will just be looking at each other like zombies waiting for who would make the first move. They hardly get a girlfriend even if they do it doesn't last which makes most of them find solace in masturbation, the worst of it all is that most of the female ones will
never reach orgasm, one of the best gift of life.

Even job self them no fit get because most employers will prefer to employ an extroverted person to an introvert which limit their chance of getting a good job.

In a short note, an introverted attitude is a curse which only the brave are able to break free except for deliverance from a pastor

Cc: Cleopatra4
lamarrj
SPEEDEPITOME

so,, what did you mean?

MobileGees:
On average, 75 year old has spent 25 years asleep, 5 years eating and 10 Years of doing other miscellaneous things that a total of 40 years wasted either you like it or not.

Most introverts lie to themselves that they find solace in their loneliness which I know it's a big lie which is why most introvert easily gets depressed and are not able to Overcome their emotions, like I said this life is too short to "come and go" and die heart attack due to depression

The funniest parts is when to introverts fall in love with each other, they will just be looking at each other like zombies waiting for who would make the first move. They hardly get a girlfriend even if they do it doesn't last which makes most of them find solace in masturbation, the worst of it all is that most of the female ones will
never reach orgasm, one of the best gift of life.

Even job self them no fit get because most employers will prefer to employ an extroverted person to an introvert which limit their chance of getting a good job.

In a short note, an introverted attitude is a curse which only the brave are able to break free except for deliverance from a pastor

Cc: Cleopatra4
lamarrj
SPEEDEPITOME

F9

You are just seeking for attention

Raiyell:
Lol... I could I identify your pain points because all my life, that is what I have been going through. When it comes to friendships, an uncle whom I idolize made me realize that I was an "intellectual snob", meaning that I only relate with people who can match me pound for pound in my interests which happen to be quite obscure. Not that I deliberately choose obscure interests, rather, the things that excite me are a turn off to majority of people in my sphere.

Same uncle then advised me to fake it -- learn how to relate with everyone, and on everything in order to give them a sense of access to me because you know... no man is an island. If I continually rebuff people's attempt to connect with me, they will soon feel slighted and leave me alone. Meaning that the days when I actually need help, there might be no one around me to raise me up. So, these days, I try to relate with everyone who makes an attempt, feign interest in the things they like etc... let me not lie, it's actually exhausting but I've gotten better at faking it.

Don't know why I'm spilling all but the essence of what I am trying to say is: sometimes, you have to indulge those people and their boring topics or you may alienate people who really do care for you.

Soldier on dear. Noisy people are the most visible in the world, however, the power of quiet is what has brought civilization to it's current height. Take pride in your makeup as a quiet person because internal self-sufficiency -- not needing the outside world to feel good -- is a thing that the noisy ones amongst us will never experience.

Had to screen shot this...

Very real advice because one thing is certain, one cannot avoid these people but must constantly come in contact with them. So it is essential to know how to deal with them. ..but then, that was my problem...well, not until your advice.


Thank You...I indeed appreciate

emmryz:
what's your youtube channel?

Oh, wow. Thanks for asking. I go by Petite Diva on Youtube.

Here is a link to one of my mad videos...

https://youtu.be/-EiLeeY8biM

MobileGees:
How on earth is an introverted life interesting?? Like I said I've lived an introvert life and I don't see anything interesting in it..... Or was I missing something??

Zero interest of fitting in?? or you just can't fit in, please don't make me laugh

Oh really? I can't fit in?? Oh lord Loool, you have no idea. I don't even have all that time to start a defence.

MobileGees:
On average, 75 year old has spent 25 years asleep, 5 years eating and 10 Years of doing other miscellaneous things that a total of 40 years wasted either you like it or not.

Most introverts lie to themselves that they find solace in their loneliness which I know it's a big lie which is why most introvert easily gets depressed and are not able to Overcome their emotions, like I said this life is too short to "come and go" and die heart attack due to depression

The funniest parts is when to introverts fall in love with each other, they will just be looking at each other like zombies waiting for who would make the first move. They hardly get a girlfriend even if they do it doesn't last which makes most of them find solace in masturbation, the worst of it all is that most of the female ones will
never reach orgasm, one of the best gift of life.

Even job self them no fit get because most employers will prefer to employ an extroverted person to an introvert which limit their chance of getting a good job.

In a short note, an introverted attitude is a curse which only the brave are able to break free except for deliverance from a pastor

Cc: Cleopatra4
lamarrj
SPEEDEPITOME

You're one of those energy drainers, I don't have all that time to start a defence likewise.

Divay22:
Staying out for long makes me unhappy..
Going out can be so frustrating, annoying, let's just stay at home Eat popcorn and watch movies, wetin i wan use cinema do ....
But it has cost me alot, I have missed opportunities, words I'll rehearse :Din my head, but wouldn't be able to say it out, memories i couldn't gain....I wouldn't want any of my child to be one.....

And how do you plan to do that cos dis thing seem to be how God created one

Introverts don't mind staying in another planet where they can be aliens, the world seems too populated to them
But i love them because THEY CARE, THEY CARE MORE THAN THEY SHOULD.....i give them A1 When it comes to taking care of others, even if they don't like you.....
Tell an introvert your secret, it's save for life,they barely have time to gossip
Commonly used word :I DON'T KNOW

No wonder we all wanted a quite.

freebrowsingtime:
AND everyone is now an introvert. Even those that can fight and have fought in the market square

Lool right

Neyoor:
Wow! I can relate with most of this. I'm allergic to parties even if I'm forced to attend, I will just sit at a corner observing everyone yet, hiding my eyes from meeting someone else's own. I don't know how to keep friends, maximum of 3 months, I would be bored and tired, that their calls won't even move me. I don't miss people. Highly emotional and I trust people even at first sight.

am just like you, but trust capital NO I don't trust people at all, I always expect the worst from people

SPEEDEPITOME:
You know, there's this thing called emotional intelligence. It's understanding why people behave the way they behave and knowing how to act in different situation. Why would you blame someone else for your actions? You said you are annoying, now you're suffering depression because of of them? You just admit having a personality flaw, work on yourself Bro.
...Why would anyone claim to be an introvert when they are not? Yes, some people don't truly understand their personality; some are just shy, some have low self confidence/esteem and so think they are introverted. it's not because there's a medal for it, its just because that's what they think they are.

introversion is not based on self confidence and esteem shit also stop tagging or stereotyping ursef... Bleep introverts, Bleep extroverts.we r all d same abeg .. if u av esteem issues or confidence issues den work on dem..don't give excuses

snowblaq:
1.Before talking with people.. I play scenerios in my head
2. I'm my own best company
3. Silence is never boring
4. I don't know how to make friends... And the few i have... Most times, i never know what to say to them
5… i am addicted to novels and i always have one with me.. Incase i have to be in any awkward place.
6. Atimes when i notive someone trying to talk with me.. I pretend to answer calls on my fone rather than talk..... I'm not trying to be rude... But most times.. I just panic... For no known cause.
7. I break a sweat when I'm the centre of attraction.
8. I hate birthday parties... Especially mine because of no. 7.
EtC...

maybe of av panic anxiety or shyness.. u jus av to work on it.. same way am tryna work on mine.. tho I talk a lot.. I hate silence

a

Limitless72:
Lol....
Bro people find it hard to understand me......
Infact nobody understands me..
Only my mumsi

Even me sef, don't understand me

iPurge:
introversion is not based on self confidence and esteem shit also stop tagging or stereotyping ursef... Bleep introverts, Bleep extroverts.we r all d same abeg .. if u av esteem issues or confidence issues den work on dem..don't give excuses

See, I respect people's opinion but when I see outright display of ignorance and you no still wan dey your lane, I no fit just waka pass.
First, NO ONE said introversion was based on Self esteem/confidence
2). Again, i say, If you have low self esteem, it's not a factor of being introverted or not.
3).No, we are not all the same
4). Introversion or extroversion is basically about social relationships, self esteem however, is deeper than that.
You said everyone is the same, says a lot about your reasoning. No two people are completely the same. There are concepts and theories in life that I do not know how they work but that does not in way reduce the validity of those concepts and theories.
That you do not understand how something works does not mean it doesn't exist.
If you do not understand how a thing works, study and try to get it. It won't kill you.

kagari:
Cause you are an introvert