sonofLuci:


Because she's far from earning that.

ha' come I nor wan laugh today ooo eh I let hear her say,then we will know how far

Martin0:
:aaaaa Ọlọrun wa ilẹ Why u talk like that?

lol happy sunday

sekxy:
lol happy sunday

same to you oooo,,,wait ooo,my talk something
Any owerri man wey no carry u as side chic is blind abeg ooo na joke ooo

If I fall in that category of women earning above 200k, my man had better start earning above 500k.

Only dumb girls tell their men/ husband their full salary cos history has proven time and time again that when you feed most nigerian men he becomes lazy and looks for a way to scam you of your money and marry a side chick.
See the o ye faithful parole doesn't work o, send your man to work hard and never give him handouts from you.
If the economy is so hard, how come girls are making it.

IamKashyBaby:
I agree...

With this economy crisis all over the world right now..chaiii! Dont let ur children suffer too coz u cant afford a decent house, 3 good meals and a good education for them...

This is reality.

funmisticqueen:
If I fall in that category of women earning above 200k, my man had better start earning above 500k.

Only dumb girls tell their men/ husband their full salary cos history has proven time and time again that when you feed most nigerian men he becomes lazy and looks for a way to scam you of your money and marry a side chick
See the o ye faithful parole doesn't work o, send your man to work hard and never give him handouts from you.
If the economy is so hard, how come girls are making it.

my sis how did you arrive at that conclusion
Can you ever trust a man? Remember trust is love
Why do you always have bias towards man?
If you can't tell your husband how much you earn, should you be living with him the first place ?

It is not about trusting men, it is about being smart. Do not put all your eggs in one particular basket called relationship. The heart of men are desperately wicked

sunshineG:
my sis how did you arrive at that conclusion
Can you ever trust a man? Remember trust is love
Why do you always have bias towards man?
If you can't tell your husband how much you earn, should you be living with him the first place ?

funmisticqueen:
It is not about trusting men, it is about being smart. Do not put all your eggs in one particular basket called relationship. The heart of men are desperately wicked

sis wickedness is not gender specific
Both men are women are wicked

I have sha said my own, women should be smart.

sunshineG:
sis wickedness is not gender specific
Both men are women are wicked

This ain't bad. I'm definitely gonna be earning more than that before i settle down for marriage.

funmisticqueen:
I have sha said my own, women should be smart.

I have sha said my own. A lady needs to trust a man to be truely in love with him

Blackhawk03:
This ain't bed. I'm definitely gonna be earning more than that before i settle down for marriage.

sunshineG:

What?

He'll mop my floor with that his bushy beards...

Blackhawk03:


What?

more than 200k per month before marriage?
Where are you working

sunshineG:
more than 200k per month before marriage?
Where are you working

My mummy's kitchen.

RaggedyAnn:
That's alright. The emergence of this phylum of men is a good and welcome sign. It balances the distribution of social power to have these dependent men.

He should just be sure to read the remainder of that particular memo, if he's bent on turning tables: be sure to keep yourself pretty; keep your ass and gut tight, pluck your hairs, soak yourself in perfumed oils to smell good everyday, spruce yourself up in form fitting clothes that show-off your assets (because women are visual creatures), and accept that you're expired goods at thirty-five, no matter what. But not to worry, bae will still take care of you and the kids. She'll leave you enough money for feeding and trips abroad, so you'll have no cause to complain when she goes after younger, prettier dependent men. Because, suddenly, it's in a woman's DNA to cheat. And you'll accept it, because you need to be taken care of.

You'll learn to accept other things too; like a big bellied woman with a loose pussy and poor hygiene. Because now, the true beauty of a woman is the size of her pocket. You'll marry older women, because you'll prefer them to be 'made' and able to sustain your lavish cravings. This will make wealthy older women a sought-after specie, and people will ignore the cracks of age and droopy breasts, claiming she ages like fine wine while a guy (whose belly bulges by an inch over his belt) ages like milk. And because you don't want to give up your lifestyle, you'll let your woman disrespect you as she pleases. You'll realize that the ego of a woman is fragile and needs constant cultivating. You'll become a prayer-warrior to protect your home from side-kicks; you'll raise the children and take the blame if any of them turns out to become wayward............

And eventually, it will be decided that the system of patriarchy is a grand conspiracy that has overrun its course; you'll decide this to discredit the Bible's claim that men have indeed been cursed to suffer and sweat for food (Genesis 3:17). And alluding to the pre-historic matriarchal religions and the highly organized matriarchal societies in nature (honey-bees, lions, killer whales), you'll support the claim that God is a woman. It will be entertained for a century to give women an edge for being born the 'right gender'. Lol!

If that's the agenda of the dependent man, I don't mind it. But it's definitely not the feminist agenda. There's no denying that it gives feminists a shorter distance to cover for equality, when men are running backwards...... Still, you are on your own with all this.

No of fence bit, the guy who called this comment trash is right.

When you realise that women were designed to be cared for, you will understand that a woman will never truly desire a man beneath her status. This is the way of life.

Women look for a mentally, psychologically and financially superior male to settle with, and she will always resent him of he falls beneath her initial valuation of him. In other words, she will eventually get tired of a fukcboy.

On the other hand, men will always gun for younger women, especially Nigerian men that have enough testosterone to share among the rest of west africa and still have surplus. Divorces will rise like the death toll during the bubonic plague. Once omoboy is financially set he will bounce. You can take that to the bank.

Men are not made to take orders from their lovers, unless the ones who have been psychologically damaged by subpar upbringing. Funny enough, women despise such men naturally, and men revile women who don't respect them. It is simply an unsustainable relationship dynamic. That is why the patriarchy exists in the first place, it is the correct, natural order of things.

In closing, boys are wising up now. They have realized that the women of this generation are not worth the sacrifice men are expected to make for their wives and lovers especially now that the economy is in the doldrums. Women are saying marriage is overrated and are acting like it is, and men are catching up. Why should I slave for an ingrate who can give me nothing but pvssy I can get freely without the commitment? Think about it... You think it is an easy thing to be expected to be responsible for the welfare of other people? Men do it out of responsibility, a responsibility that the patriarchy thrusts upon them. It is extremely hard being a man, that is why women hate men who force them into being the man on the relationship. I hope you know that the leading cause of divorce is finances? If the man doesn't earn enough the woman begins to lose desire.

Jara: Men would gladly live and fvck in cardboard boxes if women didn't want houses.

Take note.

To some extent he is correct.


But if u no see the one with such salary scale, make do with the one u see. The most important thing is that she must be earning something, no matter how little.

Blackhawk03:


My mummy's kitchen.

you ehn

sunshineG:
you ehn

funmisticqueen:
If I fall in that category of women earning above 200k, my man had better start earning above 500k.

No problem with this.

Only dumb girls tell their men/ husband their full salary cos history has proven time and time again that when you feed most nigerian men he becomes lazy and looks for a way to scam you of your money and marry a side chick.

This might sound true but is a little more complicated than you make it sound. The main thing that makes a man leave a woman he financially depended on is the see-finish phenomenon. Most men with pride will bide their time, take the ensuing insults and move on to a woman who will respect them, usually a woman who still sees him like he's Jesus. It is not an idle admonishment that women be submissive to their men. Of course, their are unscrupulous men who only see the money and not the woman but, honestly, see-finish leads to more of such break-ups that any wickedness. A man needs his woman's respect more than a high-paying job.

See the o ye faithful parole doesn't work o, send your man to work hard and never give him handouts from you.

Again, sounds true but really is too simplified. Yes, don't encourage him to be a leech, and be wary of guys that have no qualms asking for money. In fact, don't give him money unless it's for something really important.

However, you cannot be spreading your eggs everywhere like a lizard and still expect him to stay when his money comes. That would be tantamount to playing yourself and, believe me, most guys know when you're seeing other guys or, at least, encouraging them or keeping your options open. Don't play yourself.

If the economy is so hard, how come girls are making it.

Simple. P U S S Y.

Even in our homes, the female child gets more money from parents and relatives than male ones because she is being protected. Female dependents in Nigeria spend more money than male dependents. Women almost never lack airtime, data subscription, body cream, hair cream, etc. How many men can nonchalantly call up people to send them airtime or credit their accounts? You think women get these favours because of their super personalities? On the contrary, that wound they have that never heals is a magnet for material things.

Think about it, university undergrads use hair extensions and enhancements that run into tens, if not, hundreds of thousand of naira while their male counterparts are struggling with something as basic as food, you think its because these girls are hardworking? There is a reason why girls date older men, these are the one that can "maintain" the lifestyle they dream of.

So, I repeat, P U S S Y is the reason.

Shalom.

CaeserVelli:

No problem with this.


This might sound true but is a little more complicated than you make it sound. The main thing that makes a man leave a woman he financially depended on is the see-finish phenomenon. Most men with pride will bide their time, take the ensuing insults and move on to a woman who will respect them, usually a woman who still sees him like he's Jesus. It is not an idle admonishment that women be submissive to their men. Of course, their are unscrupulous men who only see the money and not the woman but, honestly, see-finish leads to more of such break-ups that any wickedness. A man needs his woman's respect more than a high-paying job.


Again, sounds true but really is too simplified. Yes, don't encourage him to be a leech, and be wary of guys that have no qualms asking for money. In fact, don't give him money unless it's for something really important.

However, you cannot be spreading your eggs everywhere like a lizard and still expect him to stay when his money comes. That would be tantamount to playing yourself and, believe me, most guys know when you're seeing other guys or, at least, encouraging them or keeping your options open. Don't play yourself.


Simple. P U S S Y.

Even in our homes, the female child gets more money from parents and relatives than male ones because she is being protected. Female dependents in Nigeria spend more money than male dependents. Women almost never lack airtime, data subscription, body cream, hair cream, etc. How many men can nonchalantly call up people to send them airtime or credit their accounts? You think women get these favours because of their super personalities? On the contrary, that wound they have that never heals is a magnet for material things.

Think about it, university undergrads use hair extensions and enhancements that run into tens, if not, hundreds of thousand of naira while their male counterparts are struggling with something as basic as food, you think its because these girls are hardworking? There is a reason why girls date older men, these are the one that can "maintain" the lifestyle they dream of.

So, I repeat, P U S S Y is the reason.

Shalom.

pussy might be for majority of the women, and definitely not me. I am on my way to the top and it is by working smart and being in tune with the will of God.
Why wont girls date older men, because the younger ones are still finding their bearings, dont know what to do with their lives yet or are still being irresponsible. Girls will always gravitate to stronger men either physically, mentally, intellectually or spiritually. I personally dont date anyone less than 10 years older than me. I work my ass off to be where i am today. I am a slay queen but you hardly see me posting photos of camel toe to feed the porn addiction of irresponsible men.

I cannot invest too much in a relationship with someone i dont trust and my trust has to be earned. Most guys just assume i should give it to them. Even when i am in love, my sense is still working 100%

funmisticqueen:
pussy might be for majority of the women, and definitely not me. I am on my way to the top and it is by working smart and being in tune with the will of God.

I'm sure the will of God isn't for you to spread tour eggs all around, no pun intended.
Furthermore, the exception doesn't make the rule. Even as an exception, would you date a broke dude? I think not. Why not? Will all irresponsible men be poor? Will all hardworking men be rich? So, I ask again if you would marry a broke but hardworking and responsible man?

Why wont girls date older men, because the younger ones are still finding their bearings, dont know what to do with their lives yet or are still being irresponsible.

All part of growing into the kind of older men you like.

Girls will always gravitate to stronger men either physically, mentally, intellectually or spiritually.

Erm, this would be preaching to the choir.

I personally dont date anyone less than 10 years older than me.

Hardly surprising.

I work my ass off to be where i am today.

Good to know.

I am a slay queen but you hardly see me posting photos of camel toe to feed the porn addiction of irresponsible men.

Lol. You sound like you've got a chip on your shoulder. I believe no one requires you to do this.

I cannot invest too much in a relationship with someone i dont trust and my trust has to be earned. Most guys just assume i should give it to them. Even when i am in love, my sense is still working 100%

Again, you sound like you've got a chip on your shoulder but I could very well be wrongly assuming that you're overreacting to what I think shouldn't be that big of a deal. Everyone with a good shoulder on their head should know trust is earned not automatically bestowed.

He has hit them below the belt and feminists are scampering, giving lousy alterations.

The truth is nobody wants to marry a liability anymore, If you want a rich and hardworking husband, you have to be rich and hardworking yourself.

I will not marry a broke man. Never, i would rather stay single and adopt a child which is nice by the way than to be yoked with poverty. I cannot. After everything i went through, getting an education and many other things. No way. I respect the struggle. I am the eldest of my siblings, i will not now come and add an extra mouth to feed. Irresponsible men know better than to approach me so they don't. Broke hustling men can come but i dont have the patience to struggle with someone else i am not sure of.

I think you misunderstanding when i say put my eggs in the relationship basket. I dont mean put eggs in other relationships but to put eggs in other things apart from A relationship, things like financial ventures, vacations, educational seminars, things to focus and improve my life. I will not come and die, or jumping from a pastor to another when a man begins to misbehave. If someone used juju on him, it is because he made himself vulnerable to the wiles of other women. I cannot come and sacrifice my life for a husband and children who will not take of me.
Dont get me wrong, i will do everything possible to make them comfortable, but i will not sacrifice my happiness for them.

CaeserVelli:

I'm sure the will of God isn't for you to spread tour eggs all around, no pun intended.
Furthermore, the exception doesn't make the rule. Even as an exception, would you date a broke dude? I think not. Why not? Will all irresponsible men be poor? Will all hardworking men be rich? So, I ask again if you would marry a broke but hardworking and responsible man?


All part of growing into the kind of older men you like.


Erm, this would be preaching to the choir.



Hardly surprising.



Good to know.



Lol. You sound like you've got a chip on your shoulder. I believe no one requires you to do this.


Again, you sound like you've got a chip on your shoulder but I could very well be wrongly assuming that you're overreacting to what I think shouldn't be that big of a deal. Everyone with a good shoulder on their head should know trust is earned not automatically bestowed.

CaeserVelli:


No of fence bit, the guy who called this comment trash is right.

When you realise that women were designed to be cared for, you will understand that a woman will never truly desire a man beneath her status. This is the way of life.

Women look for a mentally, psychologically and financially superior male to settle with, and she will always resent him of he falls beneath her initial valuation of him. In other words, she will eventually get tired of a fukcboy.

On the other hand, men will always gun for younger women, especially Nigerian men that have enough testosterone to share among the rest of west africa and still have surplus. Divorces will rise like the death toll during the bubonic plague. Once omoboy is financially set he will bounce. You can take that to the bank.

Men are not made to take orders from their lovers, unless the ones who have been psychologically damaged by subpar upbringing. Funny enough, women despise such men naturally, and men revile women who don't respect them. It is simply an unsustainable relationship dynamic. That is why the patriarchy exists in the first place, it is the correct, natural order of things.

In closing, boys are wising up now. They have realized that the women of this generation are not worth the sacrifice men are expected to make for their wives and lovers especially now that the economy is in the doldrums. Women are saying marriage is overrated and are acting like it is, and men are catching up. Why should I slave for an ingrate who can give me nothing but pvssy I can get freely without the commitment? Think about it... You think it is an easy thing to be expected to be responsible for the welfare of other people? Men do it out of responsibility, a responsibility that the patriarchy thrusts upon them. It is extremely hard being a man, that is why women hate men who force them into being the man on the relationship. I hope you know that the leading cause of divorce is finances? If the man doesn't earn enough the woman begins to lose desire.

Jara: Men would gladly live and fvck in cardboard boxes if women didn't want houses.

Take note.

It hurts when people show this kind of commitment towards constructing a response to a post, only for it to completely miss the point. At least the other guy was brief. No offense but, ignorance is a lot more decent when it is expressed economically.

My comment acknowledged the bearded guy's advocacy for a man to be taken care of (financially)by a woman, in a bid to flip the tables on them. And I painted a picture of what that ultimately looks like (since men seem to think women have it easy), welcoming the idea of men turning themselves into 'wifey-men', if that's what they wanted. And now you're claiming that such men don't exist? Really? When this thread was started because of a comment that implies exactly that.

It's pointless, really..........

That would be nice. Reversed traditional roles. Women work and earn, men stay home...cook, clean, wash clothes, bathe the kids...etc. That'll be wonderful...

NL guys are becoming mentally drained, they never have logical response to arguments. Only to call feminist. These feminist must be giving some people sleepless nights Na wa! Na real wa!!

dingbang:
trash... He is right

We agree he's right. But hope he earns more than that? Else no woman who earns more than 200k will be nice with a dude who's either jobless or earning 100k.

He has to earn more than her.

Benita27:
We agree he's right. But hope he earns more than that? Else no woman who earns more than 200k will be nice with a dude who's either jobless or earning 100k.

He has to earn more than her.

It's already happening o. There are ladies out there earning moe than their husbands. When men earn higher, they think the world revolves around them. When a woman earns higher, she can't even breathe in peace without people saying she is proud...and the endless rants of how women abuse wealth and power.

This is why lots of them go for richer guys. No one wants to deal with the insecurity of 'broke' guys.

I agree with him. The 200k thing might vary from guys to guys but women should stop thinking they are entitled to the money of their partners

pocohantas:


It's already happening o. There are ladies out there earning moe than their husbands. When men earn higher, they think the world revolves around them. When a woman earns higher, she can't even breathe in peace without people saying she is proud...and the endless rants of how women abuse wealth and power.

This is why lots of them go for richer guys. No one wants to deal with the insecurity of 'broke' guys.

I know there are situations where women earn more than their spouses but this beaded dude made it sound like men should start going for women who earn more that 200k. Hope he's also bringing something worthwhile to the table?.

He sounds like a leech to me.

Some ladies wont like dis o

Benita27:
I know there are situations where women earn more than their spouses but this beaded dude made it sound like men should start going for women who earn more that 200k. Hope he's also bringing something worthwhile to the table?.

He sounds like a leech to me.

He will get tired he ain't the first to come out with such crap ...