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Why Are You In A Relationship?? by Mhorlaitan(op): 2:54pm On Jul 30, 2017
WHY ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP??
Every friendship should have a purpose and every relationship should have a focus. The focus of every relationship should be marriage. You have no business being in a relationship with someone if you know you are not going to marry the person.​ You need to have the right focus why you want to be in a relationship with someone, and the focus should be because you want to marry the person.​
It is so sad that a lot of people are in a relationship for wrong reasons, some are in a relationship because they feel lonely and they need someone to be with, others are in a relationship for sex, some also are in a relationship for fun, many too are in a relationship because all their friends are in a relationship and they feel left out, some people too are in a relationship because someone is putting pressure on them so they decide to be in a relationship. But all these are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
It amazes me sometimes to see people in a relationship with a married man or woman,​ but the question is, what business do you have dating somebody's husband or wife ?​ This is not the life of a responsible, matured person. Have the right focus for being in a relationship. Don't start something with the intention of not finishing, if you know you are not going to continue and finish then don't start it at all.​
Be a responsible person, may be you are reading this article,​ and you know you are in a wrong relationship,​ is time to quit​ and come of such unhealthy relationship which does not have a future. I mostly tell ladies, when a guy or a man come into your life,​ there are two things you should find out from him. Whether he has a plan for your life​ or he want to play with your life.​ This man or guy who claim to be in love with you, does he want to make an honourable woman​ out of you, to be his wife and the mother of his children ?​
If you are a guy who is fun of using ladies and dumping them,​ is time for you to stop and repent.​ Some guys are so proud of how they use ladies and dump them, but that's a foolish thing to do, there is no sense in that at all. The bible says, you will reap what you sow, so if you are reading this today,​ is because God want you to repent. Women are not intimacy gadget or object that must be use​ and dump at will, it is so sad that when some men see women, all they see is breast, buttock and sex. But women are unique beings created by God to be a blessing to men and the world,​ so as a man, see women beyond sex object.
Are you in a relationship with the right person ?​ Is your relationship headed for marriage or you just want to have fun ? If you are in a relationship with someone, is time for both of you to define that relationship. Ask yourself, why are you in that relationship ?​ is it for the right reason, if not, is time to quit,​ if you are also in a sexical relationship, is time to say no to sex and come out of such relationship and live pure and clean before God.​
If you are in a relationship with someone and you know you want to get married, you have to set a Godly boundary around that relationship and know your limits.​ Don't tread on dangerous grounds. As a lady, the fact that he is going to marry you does not mean you should be sleeping over his place,​ that's a wrong thing to do. Some of you know it's wrong but you still do it in the name of proving him your love, stop that If in case you visit him and it's late, then if he has a car let him drive you home,​ if he doesn't then he should call for a taxi for you to go home.​ Never sleep over a guy's place who is not yet married to you. Show yourself a little dignity, honour and respect.​
The Worst Feeling Is When after He/She Leaves You To Marry Someone Else.
# Mhorlaitan
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by taylor88(m): 2:55pm On Jul 30, 2017
cos my sisters get fuvcked every other day




have to pay back
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by ladyF(f): 3:01pm On Jul 30, 2017
Hmmmm...
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by Michelle55: 3:03pm On Jul 30, 2017
hmmmm, I'm here to read comments and to learn one or two things...
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by eph12(m): 3:06pm On Jul 30, 2017
My dear I don't think it's the men's fault that when they look at the ladies all they see are the breasts, ass. The fact is that that's what the ladies actually want the men to see.

Why don't you suggest ways a lady can show or prove her love to her man?
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by iweecureyou: 3:07pm On Jul 30, 2017
Mhorlaitan:
WHY ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP??
Every friendship should have a purpose and every relationship should have a focus. The focus of every relationship should be marriage. You have no business being in a relationship with someone if you know you are not going to marry the person.​ You need to have the right focus why you want to be in a relationship with someone, and the focus should be because you want to marry the person.​
It is so sad that a lot of people are in a relationship for wrong reasons, some are in a relationship because they feel lonely and they need someone to be with, others are in a relationship for sex, some also are in a relationship for fun, many too are in a relationship because all their friends are in a relationship and they feel left out, some people too are in a relationship because someone is putting pressure on them so they decide to be in a relationship. But all these are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
It amazes me sometimes to see people in a relationship with a married man or woman,​ but the question is, what business do you have dating somebody's husband or wife ?​ This is not the life of a responsible, matured person. Have the right focus for being in a relationship. Don't start something with the intention of not finishing, if you know you are not going to continue and finish then don't start it at all.​
Be a responsible person, may be you are reading this article,​ and you know you are in a wrong relationship,​ is time to quit​ and come of such unhealthy relationship which does not have a future. I mostly tell ladies, when a guy or a man come into your life,​ there are two things you should find out from him. Whether he has a plan for your life​ or he want to play with your life.​ This man or guy who claim to be in love with you, does he want to make an honourable woman​ out of you, to be his wife and the mother of his children ?​
If you are a guy who is fun of using ladies and dumping them,​ is time for you to stop and repent.​ Some guys are so proud of how they use ladies and dump them, but that's a foolish thing to do, there is no sense in that at all. The bible says, you will reap what you sow, so if you are reading this today,​ is because God want you to repent. Women are not intimacy gadget or object that must be use​ and dump at will, it is so sad that when some men see women, all they see is breast, buttock and sex. But women are unique beings created by God to be a blessing to men and the world,​ so as a man, see women beyond sex object.
Are you in a relationship with the right person ?​ Is your relationship headed for marriage or you just want to have fun ? If you are in a relationship with someone, is time for both of you to define that relationship. Ask yourself, why are you in that relationship ?​ is it for the right reason, if not, is time to quit,​ if you are also in a sexical relationship, is time to say no to sex and come out of such relationship and live pure and clean before God.​
If you are in a relationship with someone and you know you want to get married, you have to set a Godly boundary around that relationship and know your limits.​ Don't tread on dangerous grounds. As a lady, the fact that he is going to marry you does not mean you should be sleeping over his place,​ that's a wrong thing to do. Some of you know it's wrong but you still do it in the name of proving him your love, stop that If in case you visit him and it's late, then if he has a car let him drive you home,​ if he doesn't then he should call for a taxi for you to go home.​ Never sleep over a guy's place who is not yet married to you. Show yourself a little dignity, honour and respect.​
The Worst Feeling Is When after He/She Leaves You To Marry Someone Else.
# Mhorlaitan
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Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by ikp120(m): 3:08pm On Jul 30, 2017
Because I love to finger the babe pussy as she sucks my dick until I cùm. Hehehehehe grin grin grin grin

I'm single at the moment sha.
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 3:33pm On Jul 30, 2017
cry cry
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by Mhorlaitan(op): 3:40pm On Jul 30, 2017
iweecureyou:
Mtcheeew nurnsense pose pliss ask ya farthar why he wars in realasionsheep with ya mama beafur cumin hia to ask stewpid quuenssionangry
cc itsjude
sexybbstar
thepussyhunter
redbeans
maxi112
teehamzat
victornezzar
comradespade
Mrcork
lefulefuangry
lol..
e don pain u?? Na u I dey follow talk?? why u take am personal?? abeg make una change oooo
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by whatsupbitches: 3:47pm On Jul 30, 2017
To lash and while lashing also see if I can be able to find the kind of ride or die chick that I need to wife and give all my love to. I pray I meet her soon, sometimes one gets tired of lashing although meeting a lady with great juicy puni keeps one going.
Ladies with desert puni makes you want to despise the second most sweet thing in this world. cheesy smiley
Re: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jul 30, 2017
Relationship abi situationship matter don tire person sef.

Naija guys are their drama too much.
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