Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. - Romance - Nairaland
Nairaland Forum › Nairaland General › Romance › Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. (1875 Views)
| Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by MKKO(op): 5:07pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Good evening all, I have this babe we have been together for 10 months and we don't have sex, though I do make attempts but she says she have not done it b4 blah blah blah, though the day he accepted she wanted me to go in naked that one is a no no for me, it pained me shaa b/c i don't know when next i will see her since I have relocated from the state which is very far from mine and really wanted to bleep her, something happened i broke into her FB and noticed that there is this guy that wants to marry her, and the guy have been smaching her, chai! it pained me shaa, in one of her chats with a friend she told the girl that she loves me but being that age is not on her side she will get married to that guy even if she don't love him, she is 25years and am a year older, she is nice and I have not cheated on her for once but i have decided to end the relationship since she didn't deem it necessary to inform me of all these, she is churchy type and behaves novice in relationships. I didn't even add that from her chats she is dating a married man who pays her bills, all these make me cringe in disbelief, i love the girl but I don't intend marrying in the next 4years. The issue now is how best to end the relationship without hurting her since i noticed she loves me and I don't wanna do something that will hurt her, am almost healed from the shock shaa. please romancelanders i want to know how best to end it though i still wanna let her know of her game but in a more palatable manner. Matured advice needed. this is my 1st topic here. dunno weda it is FP worthy but mods can do the needful. |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by smartty68(m): 5:10pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Lol! Without fights or quarrel, you may wish to withdraw yourself gradually away from her! Truth remains that she's a blatant liar, at 25 she's already looking for marriage  Naija girls are just amazing  3 Likes |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by UndisputedBosom(m): 5:10pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
You saw her chat with her friend that she wants to marry another guy even though she "still" loves you Do you still need more revelations on what is about to happen in the nearest future My advice: meet her, tell her u have seen what she told her friend (dont tell what actually what let her conscience remind her) and ask her what ur stand is in the relationship, there and then u can end the relationship on a mutual level dependin on her answer.....if you play ur game well u might end up gettin a well deserved puna to chop at the end  |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by whitebeard(m): 5:12pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
 u never really loved her, u just wanted to get laid, and because u couldn't get laid, u wanna break up...! |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Simple... Show her the proof what u saw on her fb...besides, breaking a serious relationship is not that easy like ABC's sha.. And it seems she already made up her mind to marry the other guy..let her go or juz go M.I.A but make sure u wont come back once ur gone. |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
@25 and age isn't on her side so she would marry a guy for marring sake. You guys should avoid girls who reason this way 'cause in actual sense; marriage may be her only life achievement. Speaking of liability, these ones tend to be one. How're you coping with a girl that's dating a married man 'cause he pays her bills, wants to marry another guy without love probably 'cause he's comfortable, and dating you for fun?. 3 Likes |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by ecdcyber: 5:23pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Are u a learner 1 Like |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by UndisputedBosom(m): 5:30pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Benita27:The guy just wanna get under her skirt |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by madone: 5:39pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
She must have noticed u don't intend getting married in next 4years that's why sheis giving such treating.maybe u just happen to fill a part of her life. Forget her if u can . If she told her friend she does not love the other guy but loves you ....mehn dont let that get into ur head. Girls can say anything about any girl to their friends ,the truth is always reserved in their heart. No girl at age 25 will rush into marrying a guy she does not love. |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
The girl mean o. Dump her sorry assz. Why date you when she has someone that want to marry her? I dislike people double dating, it ain't cool. 1 Like |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by ikp120(m): 5:41pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Hehehehehe Una don dey come out one by one. LMAO By the time she don do you finish eh, chai, you go know wetin dey. LWKMD Gucci all the way bro. Gucci over pussy bro because these hoes ain't loyal at all!
|
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by falconey(m): 5:45pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Benita27: How are we suppose to know before we propose? it's not written on their forehead or resumé. |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Never hack ur bae facebook. U go almost faint. I remember when i did it. My churchy babe was exposed. I made sure i collected my share of the pussy and told her about d chat. She denied till i told her i hv screenshots. Hoes everywhere |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
falconey:I think the ones who know what they want do know. Op seem to be one of those who'd settle down with anything. |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by MKKO(op): 7:31pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:from my perspective, it's childish breaking into someone else's life but I will tell her what I know but i won't let her know where I got it from. thanks for your advice. |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by MKKO(op): 7:38pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
ecdcyber:please explain SIR |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by Transcendwonder: 7:48pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
I like and respect this guy. In this time and age where love is proved only through lustful means, Your kind of person is rare and I hope you get to meet someone as special as you are. Someone kind and deserving of the kind of loving heart you have. As for this girl, you talking about here, just cut all communication ties with her and gingerly move on! 1 Like |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by MKKO(op): 11:58pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
mods should move this to FP for more advice please. |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by Cladez(m): 12:23am On Jul 31, 2017 |
She thinks marriage is an achievement so better run but before you do make sure you collect your share  |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by kkash: 12:52am On Jul 31, 2017 |
Wch kind advice u need again....just tell her its over nd move on.....trust me u gon find someone else..... |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by MKKO(op): 7:26am On Jul 31, 2017 |
Cladez:I can't do that anyway, have already lost that side. |
| Re: Heeeellllppp She Has Been Using Me. by chuckdee4(m): 10:50am On Jul 31, 2017 |
Benita27:You've said it all, that girl na real liability. If you want a woman that will help you grow and contribute to the building of your family, stay away from girls like this |
Is She Using Me To Satisfy Her Sexual Needs?? • I'm Giving You Free Sex And You Think You're Using Me? Big BOOBS Abuja Lady • "Is This Lady Using Me?" • 2 • 3 • 4
Lady Who Jokingly Asked I Buy Her Panties • If You Could Travel Back In History To A Time Period, What Period Would That Be? • Flimsy Excuses Naija Guys Give For Not Having A Girlfriend