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Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by succyblinks(op):
So, if am an independent lady who can afford to take care of myself and a guy till infinity singlehandedly, what else can a guy offer me?

Honest answers needed


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So the comments have been rolling in and everyone one is mentioning psychological support, so why are girls being tagged useless. Don't get me wrong I don't support leeches but the truth be told, sex and money are jus secondary aspects of a relationship but the companionship and support is everything

Please let's change our mindsets, everyone is useful and important in their various roles in a relationship
Thank you
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by SmellingAnus(m): 6:59pm On Jul 31, 2017
Honesty, faithfulness, emotional care, sexual care... Marriage certificate... The sperm that will produce the kids... Financial support too... ( a real man should contribute financially even if he has a billionaire wife... Etc
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by BornnAgainChild(f): 6:59pm On Jul 31, 2017
Nothing!!!

With se*x toys everywhere...they seem irrelevant
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jul 31, 2017
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Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Earthquake1:
A dick.

Modified :
Appreciation
Care
A listening ear
Support
Protection
Inspiration
Last but not least a dick.
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Blackhawk01: 7:01pm On Jul 31, 2017
#Shrugs tongue
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by falconey(m): 7:04pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
So, if am an independent lady who can afford to take care of myself and a guy till infinity singlehandedly, what else can a guy offer me?

Honest answers needed

In other words you lot go into relationship for cash.
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Emodeee: 7:05pm On Jul 31, 2017
hmmmm.... you want to replace his dick with cucumber abi?
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
So, if am an independent lady who can afford to take care of myself and a guy till infinity singlehandedly, what else can a guy offer me?

Honest answers needed
See the aristocratic lie...

Bible says...money answereth all things.

Women in other parts of the world may be natural, money apart.

But naija woman! Over 90% of their problems is solved with money
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by succyblinks(op): 7:12pm On Jul 31, 2017
SmellingAnus:
Honesty, faithfulness, emotional care, sexual care... Marriage certificate... The sperm that will produce the kids... Financial support too... ( a real man should contribute financially even if he has a billionaire wife... Etc
really??

Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Shorsky1(m): 7:13pm On Jul 31, 2017
For something like this

Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by succyblinks(op): 7:14pm On Jul 31, 2017
falconey:

In other words you lot go into relationship for cash.
No, but the recent trend has made it look like every girl is going into a rltshp cos of money. Its annoying
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Gourdoinc(m): 7:15pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
So, if am an independent lady who can afford to take care of myself and a guy till infinity singlehandedly, what else can a guy offer me?

Honest answers needed
even you know the answer to that, ask yourself why you ever even for once dated a broke ass nigga or cheat on a rich dude with a broke ass nigga. the presence of a man is worth more than the money he brings. note such only applies to a good man oh. a good woman married to a bad man is a living widow
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by SmellingAnus(m): 7:16pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
really??
I am very serious dear except the woman is unfortunate to meet the wrong person...
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jul 31, 2017
Security, his home, his name etc
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by succyblinks(op): 7:18pm On Jul 31, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
See the aristocratic lie...

Bible says...money answereth all things.

Women in other parts of the world may be natural, money apart.

But naija woman! Over 90% of their problems is solved with money
You yourself have said it that money answereth all this, now am not supporting girls excess love of money but it cuts both ways in this country right now, in fact some guys gold dig than girls now. So let's stop this name calling cos I believe the main reason for a relationship is for companionship everything else is secondary

Even the bible says God created Eve cos he saw Adam was LONELY
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by succyblinks(op): 7:20pm On Jul 31, 2017
Nma27:
Security, his home, his name etc
Babe, security? Like seriously
His home? As in a house or what I don't undstnd
His name? Tf! So a lady is nameless without a man?

Abeg I give up
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Kondomatic(m): 7:22pm On Jul 31, 2017
BornnAgainChild:
Nothing!!!

With se*x toys everywhere...they seem irrelevant
I agree they're irrelevant, after all 8 out of your 10 close friends are guys
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by lilmax(m): 7:23pm On Jul 31, 2017
hold up, the people that will make you look stup!d are coming grin
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by lilmax(m): 7:24pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
Babe, security? Like seriously
His home? As in a house or what I don't undstnd
His name? Tf! So a lady is nameless without a man?

Abeg I give up
with this comment, there's no point arguing
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by jericco1(m): 7:26pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
Babe, security? Like seriously His home? As in a house or what I don't undstnd His name? Tf! So a lady is nameless without a man?
Abeg I give up
what's your problem? you seem to know everything. allow people to give their opinion.
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by BornnAgainChild(f): 7:31pm On Jul 31, 2017
Kondomatic:
I agree they're irrelevant, after all 8 out of your 10 close friends are guys
Proof huh
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Burgerlomo: 7:33pm On Jul 31, 2017
Cassava
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by succyblinks(op): 7:34pm On Jul 31, 2017
jericco1:
what's your problem?
you seem to know everything.
allow people to give their opinion.
I'm not hindering anyone from commenting oh, I jus thought it a was a discussion kinda thing. You don't need to be rude pls
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by succyblinks(op): 7:35pm On Jul 31, 2017
lilmax:
hold up, the people that will make you look stup!d are coming grin
Am honestly waiting cheesy grin
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by jericco1(m): 7:42pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
I'm not hindering anyone from commenting oh, I jus thought it a was a discussion kinda thing. You don't need to be rude pls
OK. but put urself in others shoes. not everyone reasons the way you do.
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by jaksmillioniar: 7:44pm On Jul 31, 2017
Nma27:
Security, his home, his name etc
his blocus
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
Babe, security? Like seriously
His home? As in a house or what I don't undstnd
His name? Tf! So a lady is nameless without a man?

Abeg I give up
I won't argue with u.
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jul 31, 2017
succyblinks:
So, if am an independent lady who can afford to take care of myself and a guy till infinity singlehandedly, what else can a guy offer me?

Honest answers needed
Well if you have everything, you don't have a dicck. Not just any type sef. A PhD. ( Pretty Huge Dick)

Now you will tell me about dildos.

And then you can't procreate alone.

Uhmm....okay, there's the ivf using sperm donor.

You are good to go.
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Modragon(m): 8:19pm On Jul 31, 2017
BornnAgainChild:
Nothing!!!

With se*x toys everywhere...they seem irrelevant
Ur name and profile portrays a different personality
F**k girl and hypocrite
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by BornnAgainChild(f): 8:20pm On Jul 31, 2017
Modragon:
Ur name and profile portrays a different personality
F**k girl and hypocrite
So wetin make we con do na huh
Re: Apart From Money, What Else Can A Guy Offer? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jul 31, 2017
grin
Apart from the obvious which has been stated in numerous post above
grin

Support (both ways)I.e moral support, listening ears amongst others

Protection (protect the lady )

A man is needed around a home to do manly stuffs wink heavy lifting and all
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