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U wia looking fr sumtin n u found it...so y complaining

grayht:
Dj Idondon.. abeg how much u dey charge for events

just two cans of black bullet and two big hollandia

I took time to ready every comments here coz I barely do.
I have some specific people and friends I watch their comments for reason known to me..

My observation mostly the ladies are sounding perfect in their own way and feel such mistakes or things can't happen in their relationship..

But my questions now goes to those ladies who use the word ''childish''
What made you come into or start by saying or use the word ''childish''
Coz am confused why..

scooby12:
Won ti de

Is that you. You are sexy

bbbabes:
Is that you. You are sexy

But you don't like guys na. I for don toast you like shoprite bread.

Just accept the fact that you have lost him. If a guy feel insecure dating u,definitely he wil be looking for a way to leave u. Now you have have created a way for him.

rosy16:
Please, I need advice on what to do, I have known my boyfriend for 10months now, and we love each other, but his ex keeps on disturbing him and this makes me jealous.

So I decided to open a new facebook account with a different identity, I asked my boyfriend out to see if he will fall for it but he was sincere enough, I then decided to insult his ex through the new facebook account, but my boyfriend later found out I was the one who did all those things and now he said he doesn't want the relationship again that I have hurt him by tempting him and insulting his ex.

I have apologized to him but he is still adamant, am confused cos I love him with all my heart. Please what do I do?

See Wetin insecurity don cause? Well girl actions have consequences and you reap what you sow.

You just proved yourself to be immature no human has it deal with that level of immaturity. Even if there was doubt in his mind about you , you accelerated the process .He was good to you but that was not enough. Accept the consequences and learn from this experience for your next relationship.

indodon:
just two cans of black bullet and two big hollandia

then u go come dey mix rubbish with ur disk jockey abi

scooby12:
But you don't like guys na. I for don toast you like shoprite bread.

Who told you that, can I screw myself... Just that my environment presents so many guys to me on a platter of gold... It's not easy for strangers to hit at me and get successful... How can I even like someone have never seen his pictures

You OYO if you take this advice...

ItalianWine:
Let him be with his shakara......he'll come back to his senses, unless he is playing your ass and his ex ass as a ball

Lalas247:
Childish
You are not ready to be in a relationship ... let him go learn from this
If he is willing to give it all up after u pleading then he doesn't love u as much cause if he did really he shouldn't care wt u say to his ex
But he too was on shaky grounds so u literally open the door for him

You women and your upside down interpretation of love. I have loved someone before like crazy and stopped loving her because of her insecurity. When people are overly insecure they leave you with little to love about them and yourself. One of the things we get from love is the positive image about ourselves that we see in the other persons eyes. A person who is constantly afraid you will cheat is presenting to you an image of yourself that you might hate.
Besides, a girlfriend who is showing your ex she is threatened by her is placing herself below someone you've upgraded from. It is mumu behaviour. Who wants a mumu?

MissRaine69:
You just proved yourself to be immature no human has it deal with that level of immaturity. Even if there was doubt in his mind about you , you accelerated the process .He was good to you but that was not enough. Accept the consequences and learn from this experience for your next relationship.

You have spoken well(weldon)

rosy16:
Please, I need advice on what to do, I have known my boyfriend for 10months now, and we love each other, but his ex keeps on disturbing him and this makes me jealous.

So I decided to open a new facebook account with a different identity, I asked my boyfriend out to see if he will fall for it but he was sincere enough, I then decided to insult his ex through the new facebook account, but my boyfriend later found out I was the one who did all those things and now he said he doesn't want the relationship again that I have hurt him by tempting him and insulting his ex.

I have apologized to him but he is still adamant, am confused cos I love him with all my heart. Please what do I do?

.. I won't blame u tho....cus girls are very very jealous...but he shouldn't see that as a reason for breakup....I guess he's already tired of d relationship..still try to plead him.... and also asked some of your close trusted frds to help u talk to him...if he still doesn't forgive...then chill and move on .the love is not there......sorry sha

ItalianWine:
Let him be with his shakara......he'll come back to his senses, unless he is playing your ass and his ex ass as a ball

never take advice from worded pictures.... It never applies to every situation and no 2 situation are actually d same

grayht:
then u go come dey mix rubbish with ur disk jockey abi

just like drunken master, I do. better on acho acho hol

rosy16:
Please, I need advice on what to do, I have known my boyfriend for 10months now, and we love each other, but his ex keeps on disturbing him and this makes me jealous.

So I decided to open a new facebook account with a different identity, I asked my boyfriend out to see if he will fall for it but he was sincere enough, I then decided to insult his ex through the new facebook account, but my boyfriend later found out I was the one who did all those things and now he said he doesn't want the relationship again that I have hurt him by tempting him and insulting his ex.

I have apologized to him but he is still adamant, am confused cos I love him with all my heart. Please what do I do?

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Let him be if he truly love u he will come back to u.
What is meant for u will not pass u what passes u is definitely not for u.
Truth is better.

I love a girl when I was in university, I was very honest with the relationship and I have done alot to keep this girl but at the end she told me that she was in love with some else that she can not move on with me.

l zero my mind and let her be.
We need to accept the truth and move on.
You will find your own heart desire.
Notin in life worth dying for

May God Be With You

what you did is not enough reason for him not to forgive you if he truely loves you...be open to him that you did what you did cos you wanted to be sure before you totaly commit to him,then apologize once more if he doesn't want to 4give you still,then move on honey.

bbbabes:
Only stupid people fall in love

If I tell you say I love you nko...are you Yoruba?

bbbabes:
Only stupid people fall in love

If I tell you say I love you nko...are you Yoruba?

Chai!!!! this small pikin self dey love, how old are you, u need serious flogging, u better go and read your book

Ladies are actually been realistic here which is commendable. Op sure you've learnt from your misdeeds but too late to undo them now. Beg your alleged ex and if he's really into you, he'll overlook it and forgive u but pls don't try that again. Most ladies can't handle the outcome of sniffing around.

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You may think not, but you are the type who pours acid on innocent girls just because your man says 'hello' to them. From what you wrote, you are hoping that your relationship leads to marriage or anything better. If that is the case, you have to, first of all, learn how to trust in a relationship before learning how to be defensive against your man. Don't lose hope yet.If you are apart, keep sending him morning and evening messages on how sorry you are and how you have learnt your lessons and how you want another chance to be the woman he craves you to be. If he loves you enough to ever think of keeping you, he will have a rethink. Good luck.

Biko love is not by force o.let him go if he wants to go.U sef no make ur hand dey scratch u to type abusive words to his ex.

"Sorry" is a nice word. use it genuinely and see if ur guy acknowledge it...but if he doesn't...move on with ur life and learn from it!

rosy16:
i didn't know it will result to this,is d nothing I can do to bring back his love?

Create another face book account and tell him sorry and to the ex....say good things to her on ur new face book.....since the whole thing got spoilt tru facebook...
And thank me later

Congratulations...

U dey look for trouble en don come now u no fit handle

OP, if it's possible, try and reach out to your boyfriend, preferably face to face. Despite what many of the other commenters are saying, the original problem stemmed from your boyfriend's ex still contacting him. He needed to inform her that he was in a serious relationship and/or cut her off completely. Granted, what you did didn't help matters but there were steps your boyfriend should've taken to distance himself from his ex.

OP, apologize to him and tell him what you did is wrong. Explain to him why you did what you did. Tell him how important he is to you and how he's become such a vital part of your life. If he chooses to forgive and get back with you, great. But if he says things are over, try to move on. I know it's hard but let it be a lesson that you should always trust your partner until they give you a reason not to. Good luck.