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Urgent Divorce Needed by meskezzy(op): 12:15am On Aug 13, 2017
I got married to a guy at ikeja registry before leaving the country for America about 4 years ago . I have heard a lot about the guys doing back in Nigeria like taking so many girls out, he squanders the money I always send to him to help me keep, I also recently got some of the pictures of his initiation as the cult leader of a particular fraternity. This Last and his constant threat to my life is making so scared and I with the support of my parents have decided to file a divorce. The issue now is I am too scared to come to Nigeria because I been warned not to, that coupled with his constant threat too. My mom is all our wedding documents in Nigeria. (1) Is there any way my mom can assist me file for the divorce in Nigeria while I am in America? (2) what would be my strongest excuse (3) how sure is my chances of winning because I really need to cute ties with him (4) how long will it take?...
Kindly advise
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by stacyadams: 12:17am On Aug 13, 2017
get a lawyer.its possible to fly into naija quietly widout him knowing..,,
meskezzy:
I got married to a guy at ikeja registry before leaving the country for America about 4 years ago . I have heard a lot about the guys doing back in Nigeria like taking so many girls out, he squanders the money I always send to him to help me keep, I also recently got some of the pictures of his initiation as the cult leader of a particular fraternity. This Last and his constant threat to my life is making so scared and I with the support of my parents have decided to file a divorce. The issue now is I am too scared to come to Nigeria because I been warned not to, that coupled with his constant threat too. My mom is all our wedding documents in Nigeria. (1) Is there any way my mom can assist me file for the divorce in Nigeria while I am in America? (2) what would be my strongest excuse (3) how sure is my chances of winning because I really need to cute ties with him (4) how long will it take?...
Kindly advise
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by Nobody: 12:19am On Aug 13, 2017
You got married to him, not your mom. You'll have to find a way to come back home without announcing it and file for the divorce yourself

But I hope you're not just looking for a way to get rid of him because you've seen one oyibo horseband huh This one you're looking for excuse, ayam not understanding oh undecided
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by ngwaba(m): 12:24am On Aug 13, 2017
Hmmm. This sounds funny. Anyway first discuss this with a very good lawyer to know his opinion and the way forward.
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by TheHistorian(m): 12:24am On Aug 13, 2017
Do you have kids for him?

If "NO"........
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by Immaculatesnow(m): 2:55am On Aug 13, 2017
meskezzy:
I got married to a guy at ikeja registry before leaving the country for America about 4 years ago . I have heard a lot about the guys doing back in Nigeria like taking so many girls out, he squanders the money I always send to him to help me keep, I also recently got some of the pictures of his initiation as the cult leader of a particular fraternity. This Last and his constant threat to my life is making so scared and I with the support of my parents have decided to file a divorce. The issue now is I am too scared to come to Nigeria because I been warned not to, that coupled with his constant threat too. My mom is all our wedding documents in Nigeria. (1) Is there any way my mom can assist me file for the divorce in Nigeria while I am in America? (2) what would be my strongest excuse (3) how sure is my chances of winning because I really need to cute ties with him (4) how long will it take?...
Kindly advise
When I will always say many of you ladies should stop marrying for money reasons and family obligations, you will all say I am the bad guy but now your working out of a onces a happy marriage, I have nothing to say to your kind, I do not even see you going via another marriage again, good luck woman.
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by meskezzy(op): 5:48am On Aug 13, 2017
OK I understand that but my parents and I are scared of this guy.. He is sounding and acting dangerously. But I only want to know if there are alternative ways to go about it?
stacyadams:
get a lawyer.its possible to fly into naija quietly widout him knowing..,,
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by meskezzy(op): 5:50am On Aug 13, 2017
No it's not about finding an oyibo. I just want to be happy and safe in my marriage. Rumour reaching me is that he already has a child also now.
skarlett:
You got married to him, not your mom. You'll have to find a way to come back home without announcing it and file for the divorce yourself

But I hope you're not just looking for a way to get rid of him because you've seen one oyibo horseband huh This one you're looking for excuse, ayam not understanding oh undecided
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by meskezzy(op): 5:52am On Aug 13, 2017
Thanks so much.. Do we have any lawyer here please?
ngwaba:
Hmmm. This sounds funny. Anyway first discuss this with a very good lawyer to know his opinion and the way forward.
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by meskezzy(op): 5:54am On Aug 13, 2017
No kids at all. But I am getting information that he has a kid.
TheHistorian:
Do you have kids for him?

If "NO"........
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by meskezzy(op): 5:57am On Aug 13, 2017
Well you have a right to what you think about me or ladies generally.. I never got married for money or any material gain, but it's fine though.. Thanks for your comment
Immaculatesnow:
When I will always say many of you ladies should stop marrying for money reasons and family obligations, you will all say I am the bad guy but now your working out of a onces a happy marriage, I have nothing to say to your kind, I do not even see you going via another marriage again, good luck woman.
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by titted(f): 6:27am On Aug 13, 2017
Do a background investigation on the child and use that against him + get a competent lawyer.

You also need to change ur location beforr he send his men down there, This guys (Cultist)have their men all over the world.
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by CAPSLOCKED: 7:58am On Aug 13, 2017
meskezzy:
OK I understand that but my parents and I are scared of this guy.. He is sounding and acting dangerously. But I only want to know if there are alternative ways to go about it?



HOW DID YOU MEET HIM?

DID YOU GET MARRIED WHILE SLEEPING? NA WAH O.


PEOPLE WILL JUST BE JUMPING INTO MARRIAGES LIKE SAY NA DANFO. angry
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by Lewist(m): 8:28am On Aug 13, 2017
contact me on lewislewis1900@yahoo.com I may be of help,mind you I live here in US too and i dont ask nobody for a dime

quote author=meskezzy post=59419407]I got married to a guy at ikeja registry before leaving the country for America about 4 years ago . I have heard a lot about the guys doing back in Nigeria like taking so many girls out, he squanders the money I always send to him to help me keep, I also recently got some of the pictures of his initiation as the cult leader of a particular fraternity. This Last and his constant threat to my life is making so scared and I with the support of my parents have decided to file a divorce. The issue now is I am too scared to come to Nigeria because I been warned not to, that coupled with his constant threat too. My mom is all our wedding documents in Nigeria. (1) Is there any way my mom can assist me file for the divorce in Nigeria while I am in America? (2) what would be my strongest excuse (3) how sure is my chances of winning because I really need to cute ties with him (4) how long will it take?...
Kindly advise[/quote]
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:53am On Aug 13, 2017
- Marry a dude then leave to the US for 4 damn yrs, while expecting him to be faithful (aka not have biatches)?!
- constant threat to your life yet you keep sending him money?!
- send HIM money to keep for you, as if its not WISER to put it in any BANK?!
- being afraid of some BS cultist Harry Potter Nonsense?!
- asking us for a valid "excuse" to divorce this demon?!


these above are all the points that would have me believe that you are either very STOOPID and/or very CLUELESS!
Re: Urgent Divorce Needed by richidinho(m): 12:02pm On Aug 13, 2017
all this fabricated stories shaa!

an African lady, a Nigerian at that will get married, travel to America and be sending you money, ehn! what a perfect woman.


ndi ara!
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