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Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Aug 16, 2017
Benita27:
First of all, it takes two to tango. The behaviour on the part of ladies you condemn was encouraged by guys who want relationships with no string attached provided they pay and get the sex they desire.

Second of all, I don't see why calling someone broke on social media should be a problem if you know you're not going to remain broke. You don't expect to get a pat on the back for being broke, so those words should spur you to work harder. grin
yes and you should add that only broke ladies see the financial status of men they are dating or men that is approaching them for a relationship as important
grin grin grin

So it is also crucial that those ladies see the words of those calling them olosho as words of encouragement. Don't you think? grin
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Aug 16, 2017
TrapHedges:
lmfao fam.. Sounds like alot of work to me... LolLol
we are talking about your bae here. Common..

The spirit has asked me to preach love tonight smiley
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by TrapHedges(m): 9:10pm On Aug 16, 2017
redbeans:
we are talking about your bae here. Common..

The spirit has asked me to preach love tonight smiley
lmao.. Mi bae ? Am baeless brah... Fam love aint a thing cus people around tis side don't know shiiii bout it.
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Aug 16, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
I know it can be so cheesy to the new generation! they are more into social media now..Everything they take a sensual pose..

A 12-15 yrs old girls, most of them are showing azz and boobs..they become more into sex objects sha..So no wonder they end up having sex at the early age... embarassed undecided

spot on. A girl of 15 these days is already into different guys. She will definitely miss the concept of love all together.

our environment influences us a lot.
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Aug 16, 2017
sunshineG:
yes and you should add that only broke ladies see the financial status of men they are dating or men that is approaching them for a relationship as important
grin grin grin

So it is aslo crucial that those ladies see the words of those calling them olosho as words of encouragement. Don't you think? grin
I don't encourage mediocrity. People should go for their standard of spouses.
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Aug 16, 2017
Benita27:
I don't encourage mediocrity. People should go for their standard of spouses.
same here my sis
I am just pointing out that the word olosho exist for a reason
Anyway I got what you were trying to ssy from your first post
I was just trying to pull your legs wink
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Aug 16, 2017
redbeans:
spot on. A girl of 15 these days is already into different guys. She will definitely miss the concept of love all together.

our environment influences us a lot.
They will do everything to be on the spotlight.. angry

Craving for millions of followers instead of reading books and go to school every day..
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Aug 16, 2017
TrapHedges:
lmao.. Mi bae ? Am baeless brah... Fam love aint a thing cus people around tis side don't know shiiii bout it.
Oooh laaawd Geezuzz...

Dont let me talk and spill all kinds of beans u were hiding in redbeans thread lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by TrapHedges(m): 9:19pm On Aug 16, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
Oooh laaawd Geezuzz...

Dont let me talk and spill all kinds of beans u were hiding in redbeans thread lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
lmfao lol abeg spill cool
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Aug 16, 2017
TrapHedges:
lmfao fam.. Sounds like alot of work to me... LolLol
we are talking about your bae here. Common..

The spirit has asked me to preach love tonight smiley
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Aug 16, 2017
TrapHedges:
lmfao lol abeg spill cool
Hahahah...Baba e bi say u still in KANU eating some NUNU with chili or u change place and transfer to SOKOTO with a new bae? grin juz make sure they are fresh like agege bread grin

Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by TrapHedges(m): 9:26pm On Aug 16, 2017
BETlordnowpsych:
we are talking about your bae here. Common..

The spirit has asked me to preach love tonight smiley
fam mi reply to the original comment is above.
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by TrapHedges(m): 9:28pm On Aug 16, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
Hahahah...Baba e bi say u still in KANU eating some NUNU with chili or u change place and transfer to SOKOTO with a new bae? grin juz make sure they are fresh like agege bread grin

lmao am on mi way to sg.. Coming to eat urs... U know aw it is right ? grin
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Aug 16, 2017
TrapHedges:
fam mi reply to the original comment is above.
saw it. Guys are now rushing things while girls either want good sex or money.


No love found. i want to love o

Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Aug 16, 2017
Homeboiy:
tongue tongue tongue embarassed
so you are among them? Tell me, when last did you buy your girlfriend a gift?

Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Homeboiy: 9:51pm On Aug 16, 2017
redbeans:
so you are among them? Tell me, when last did you buy your girlfriend a gift?
i dont even have a gf
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 16, 2017
cos of recession
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by makydebbie(f): 10:16am On Aug 17, 2017
mhisbliss:
you almost made sense but ruined it at the end
Hey long time! What's up with you?
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by alen4smith(m): 10:44am On Aug 17, 2017
redbeans:
i remember when younger, relationships were usually fun to engage in. Then we would send love poems, go on romantic dates, play together and have butterflies in our belly. Now it's now a slutty-client kind of relationship. Chat two-three days and the next thing is sex. Sometimes even within a day, girls give in.


Not saying sex is bad. But after it, what next? How about taking her to a party or to kada plaza to play virtual games or watch a movie. Everything shouldn't end in the bedroom.. If you are not financially buoyant like moi, you can still do some stuff within your budget. How about engaging in a sport together, chilling in a not too expensive bar, going fruit harvesting in an orchard etc. And ladies don't be all about money. My one cent
supply now outweighs demand or better still there are many fishes in the river but few fishermen
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 17, 2017
alen4smith:
supply now outweighs demand or better still there are many fishes in the river but few fishermen
hmm.. Cunny and ingenious response smiley
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Agbasielo007: 9:47am On Aug 18, 2017
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Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by mhisbliss(f): 10:21am On Aug 18, 2017
makydebbie:
Hey long time! What's up with you?
hey Debbie, its been a while, am good, how are you
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by makydebbie(f): 12:13pm On Aug 18, 2017
mhisbliss:
hey Debbie, its been a while, am good, how are you
I'm fine, glad you hear you're good. I'm just where you left me. cry
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by mhisbliss(f): 12:46pm On Aug 18, 2017
makydebbie:
I'm fine, glad you hear you're good. I'm just where you left me. cry
grinbut i never left you, how can i, life intervened dear, I've been silently reading your chats with dauntless though
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by makydebbie(f): 3:21pm On Aug 18, 2017
mhisbliss:
grinbut i never left you, how can i, life intervened dear, I've been silently reading your chats with dauntless though
LOL, imagine. grin
I just wanted to be sure everything was alright. You're active on nl now abi?
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by mhisbliss(f): 4:01pm On Aug 18, 2017
makydebbie:
LOL, imagine. grin
I just wanted to be sure everything was alright. You're active on nl now abi?
thanks dear everything is fine, I'm not fully active now but I'm around
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Amarabae(f): 4:04pm On Aug 18, 2017
Its because Love is being equated to Sex these days. Many date for sexual pleasure only.
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by makydebbie(f): 4:12pm On Aug 18, 2017
mhisbliss:
thanks dear everything is fine, I'm not fully active now but I'm around
Great to have you around. kiss
Lola deactivated cry
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by mhisbliss(f): 4:15pm On Aug 18, 2017
makydebbie:
Great to have you around. kiss
Lola deactivated cry
i saw a comment from her alt yesterday, btw did she tell you why?
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by makydebbie(f): 4:20pm On Aug 18, 2017
mhisbliss:
i saw a comment from her alt yesterday, btw did she tell you why?
Yea, she's still around with that account. She's tired of nl like most of us and you just left unawares. We're supposed to flog you sef. angry
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by mhisbliss(f): 4:27pm On Aug 18, 2017
makydebbie:
Yea, she's still around with that account. She's tired of nl like most of us and you just left unawares. We're supposed to flog you sef. angry
grini was doing my internship in a rural area so coming online is a problem, there was a time i checked and i saw alot of mentions, some saying i have no gut to show my face anymore as my nudes are all over nairaland, i find it funny but annoying, i just got fed up with everything, so i can't blame lola, I'm tired too, btw i owe you guys an apology, I'm sorry for leaving like that, i felt i needed a break
Re: Why Are Relationships No Longer As Romantic As Before? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Aug 18, 2017
mhisbliss:
grini was doing my internship in a rural area so coming online is a problem, there was a time i checked and i saw alot of mentions, some saying i have no gut to show my face anymore as my nudes are all over nairaland, i find it funny but annoying, i just got fed up with everything, so i can't blame lola, I'm tired too, btw i owe you guys an apology, I'm sorry for leaving like that, i felt i needed a break
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