Lawlahdey:
Redbeans...
You are right oh

doctorkush:
who get time baby let's play love we won't have sex but will only smooch ...I dislike sex ..

Lawlahdey:

I dislike sex too

QueenSekxy:
lol that is your personal opinion re.dbeans....
I don't know how you are handling yours and the types of ladies you meet..btw,, you shouldn't generalize

Lawlahdey:
Redbea.ns...
You are right oh

doctorkush:
holy God! perfect match... but hope you prefer Ibadan than Tokyo... love in Tokyo is old fashioned. hope you have ass? well I don't touch, just stare

Dlordsamurai:
I think it depends on the persons involve, a boring guy will eventually be boring in his relationship. "And one aspect that must be looked into, is the reason for such union, for example a guy thats in a relationship with a lady because of sex will not want to spend quality time with the lady, all he does is bribes the lady with money and have sex. "But a guy whoose mentality is beyond sex, a guy who really wants to care and be with the lady, will eventually spend quality time with his girlfriend. "IT depends on the purpose of the relationship.

redbeans:
hope you are glad about the kind of thread i'm creating now?

Lawlahdey:
Tokyo? What is Tokyo? I love my good ol' ibadan
I don't have ass oh, is that a problem?

sunshineG:
Things change
When girls started seeing relationship as transaction in Nigeria

I can recall one thread created by one Cinderella
Where she stated categorically that only rich guys should be able to have sex and it received support from fellow female nairalanders

So sex for money. Simple logic isn't it

One wonders why those fuckboys keep calling some girls olosho

ITbomb:
Things are moving much faster than then

We are processing much larger amount of data than before so we don't have time to play that slow romance.

Just go straight to the point, finish up and face your work, if you are comfortable with each other, you stay, if not you move on

Lawlahdey:
LOL.

redbeans:
for real na. We no longer pay full attention to relationships as before. The best memories i had where in the past. Now it's either people are bothered only about sex, their phones, their life, money or promiscuity.


Be sincere, when last did you have a romantic text sent to u, or a lovely gift from a beloved or u played with the opposite sex

redbeans:
omo yoruba..

Black is beautiful.

Natural lady

Original woman..

Pulchritudinous baby

Wife/G.f material

Jovial lady...


Hope my lines burst your speakers? I wanna reignite that fire in me?

Benita27:
Must you blame the ladies for everything?. Tomorrow now, if you're unable to impregnant your wife you'll blame Naija girls for that.

It goes both ways. All you should be more concerned about is the mindset with which people go into relationships with. To some it all boils down to sex and nothing more even when the other party is craving for more.

QueenSekxy:

Lol almost everyday..even this night is so romantic for me and boo..hehehehe

redbeans:
awww sweet. Hope he cooks and wash with you too? Bath you, feed you, carry you and all those things

redbeans:
i remember when younger, relationships were usually fun to engage in. Then we would send love poems, go on romantic dates, play together and have butterflies in our belly. Now it's now a slutty-client kind of relationship. Chat two-three days and the next thing is sex. Sometimes even within a day, girls give in.


Not saying sex is bad. But after it, what next? How about taking her to a party or to kada plaza to play virtual games or watch a movie. Everything shouldn't end in the bedroom.. If you are not financially buoyant like moi, you can still do some stuff within your budget. How about engaging in a sport together, chilling in a not too expensive bar, going fruit harvesting in an orchard etc. And ladies don't be all about money. My one cent

i remember when younger, relationships were usually fun to engage in. Then we would send love poems, go on romantic dates, play together and have butterflies in our belly.

I know it can be so cheesy to the new generation! they are more into social media now..Everything they take a sensual pose..

A 12-15 yrs old girls, most of them are showing azz and boobs..they become more into sex objects sha..So no wonder they end up having sex at the early age...

sunshineG:
OK I really sorry if my post appeared to be blaming ladies for the terible state of romantic relationships today

However, I think you will agree with me that the mindset of some ladies nowadays plays a crucial role in what romantic relationships have become today

Most ladies of today sees their Virginia as some sort of instrument or facility for self empowerment. They will hook up with any random rich guy as long as those guys are ready to pay for their time.

Yet, the worst part of these degrading behavior from this ladies is not the random hook up with those rich guys, it is how they try to justify their actions by insulting broke guys. Calling broke guys all sorts of degrading names.

redbeans:
i remember when younger, relationships were usually fun to engage in. Then we would send love poems, go on romantic dates, play together and have butterflies in our belly. Now it's now a slutty-client kind of relationship. Chat two-three days and the next thing is sex. Sometimes even within a day, girls give in.


Not saying sex is bad. But after it, what next? How about taking her to a party or to kada plaza to play virtual games or watch a movie. Everything shouldn't end in the bedroom.. If you are not financially buoyant like moi, you can still do some stuff within your budget. How about engaging in a sport together, chilling in a not too expensive bar, going fruit harvesting in an orchard etc. And ladies don't be all about money. My one cent