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Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 8:59am On Aug 17, 2017
they met when the guy was still looking for admission and the lady was in her final yr in school. amidst bitterness and happiness, they have spent 5 years together in the relationship. the guy is now a final yr student and the lady currently running her masters program.


pls, if u have experienced such bfr, kindly share with us how u handled it.

do you tink this relationship can lead to marriage??

wht can be done to keep the relationship intacthuh

pls ur advice will be appreciated. tanks.

cc seun
lalasticlala
mynd
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Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by BornnAgainChild(f): 9:08am On Aug 17, 2017
If they can last 5years amidst their present situation then they can last forever against all odds
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by gabinogem(m): 9:12am On Aug 17, 2017
Most times What keeps a relationship strong is just that little understanding & respect... Irrespective of age & class.
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 9:21am On Aug 17, 2017
BornnAgainChild:
If they can last 5years amidst their present situation then they can last forever against all odds
hummm!! this is even coming from a lady. tnx for ur contribution
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 9:22am On Aug 17, 2017
gabinogem:
Most times What keeps a relationship strong is just that little understanding & respect... Irrespective of age & class.
u are very correct. tnx sir
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by blackylola(m): 9:28am On Aug 17, 2017
Keep doing what you have been doing for 5yrs
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by internationalman(m): 9:30am On Aug 17, 2017
what has level of education got to do with relationship. Like someone pointed out, understanding is d pillar with which a relationship is built on.
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by HeWrites(m): 9:34am On Aug 17, 2017
Give d Girl belle na


Marriage don set be dat grin
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 9:38am On Aug 17, 2017
blackylola:
Keep doing what you have been doing for 5yrs
u are appreciated
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 9:40am On Aug 17, 2017
internationalman:
what has level of education got to do with relationship. Like someone pointed out, understanding is d pillar with which a relationship is built on.
I tink u are ryt. but educational status matters to some pple. tnx for ur contribution sir.
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by pocohantas(f): 9:40am On Aug 17, 2017
They have been keeping it for 5yrs.

What do they want to hear from romancelanders who haven't kept any for 2yrs?

Long courtship should be avoided if it's convenient for both.
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 9:41am On Aug 17, 2017
HeWrites:
Give d Girl belle na


Marriage don set be dat grin
lolzzz. tnx sir
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 9:47am On Aug 17, 2017
pocohantas:
They have been keeping it for 5yrs.

What do they want to hear from romancelanders who haven't kept any for 2yrs?

Long courtship should be avoided if it's convenient for both.
tnx, they shall try as much as possible to avoid making it more longer bcus that alone is capable of causing issues
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by BornnAgainChild(f): 10:06am On Aug 17, 2017
lonikit:
hummm!! this is even coming from a lady. tnx for ur contribution
wink
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 10:11am On Aug 17, 2017
have u seen such cases bfor
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 10:12am On Aug 17, 2017
I mean has anybody here experienced such huh
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 10:13am On Aug 17, 2017
pls more advice needed
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 5:39pm On Aug 17, 2017
need ur advice pls
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 5:39pm On Aug 17, 2017
?
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 5:42pm On Aug 17, 2017
has anyone experienced this bfr
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by Nobody: 5:43pm On Aug 17, 2017
blackylola:
Keep doing what you have been doing for 5yrs
Exactly.
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 5:49pm On Aug 17, 2017
Rorachy:
Exactly.
tanx
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by Amarabae(f): 5:59pm On Aug 17, 2017
Whats the difference between a final year student and a masters degree student? The gap is not much. So nothing wrong with it, it can lead to marriage.
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 6:47pm On Aug 17, 2017
Amarabae:
Whats the difference between a final year student and a masters degree student?
The gap is not much.
So nothing wrong with it, it can lead to marriage.
the diff is NySC mobilization. tnx for the comment though
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 7:14pm On Aug 17, 2017
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Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Aug 17, 2017
lonikit:
they met when the guy was still looking for admission and the lady was in her final yr in school. amidst bitterness and happiness, they have spent 5 years together in the relationship. the guy is now a final yr student and the lady currently running her masters program.


pls, if u have experienced such bfr, kindly share with us how u handled it.

do you tink this relationship can lead to marriage??

wht can be done to keep the relationship intacthuh

pls ur advice will be appreciated. tanks.

cc seun
lalasticlala
mynd
mods
I will be honest unless things change for the guy financially I don't think it can work, at the end of the day women want security in marriage unless the guy has something doing. A lot of people will say it would but in reality there's gonna be a lot of pressure from either her own peers or family members to dump the guy and look for a better prospect. Sad but true yo
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 8:23pm On Aug 17, 2017
pcguru1:
I will be honest unless things change for the guy financially I don't think it can work, at the end of the day women want security in marriage unless the guy has something doing. A lot of people will say it would but in reality there's gonna be a lot of pressure from either her own peers or family members to dump the guy and look for a better prospect. Sad but true yo
tnx for ur contribution
Re: Serious Advice Needed: Undergraduate Guy Dating Post-graduate Lady. by lonikit(op): 8:23pm On Aug 17, 2017
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