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I was here four months ago to seek advice from romancelanders regarding the issue i was having in my relationship. for those that didnt see the post, i will briefly summarize what went on between me and Amaka and how i gently ended the the love story.
we started in 2014 when she was 20. it was a perfect union. little did i know that nothing lasts for ever . i never for one day thought that things will change.
The turning point came in April. she just woke up one day and told me that another guy asked her out and she accepted . that single statement changed everything. she started giving me attitudes . picks my call at wish. does not call again .I used everything within me to fight for what i love to no avail .
MY good friends here adviced me to let her go. one faithful night, i made up my mind to be a man . i decided never to be a sissy again. i cried and cried but had to do it . i started writing a text, reminded her of how far we have gone and the promises we have made to each other . told her that i can no longer continue to fight for her since she has made up her mind. told her to always bear in mind that i did not in any way wronged her. wrote so many things shaaa, plus tears .
the only reply i got from her was *I WISH YOU WELL TOO*. the next morning, i deleted her ; numbers, whatsapp , pictures and her fb from my phone and that was the last time i heard from my love.

The problem now is ;
WHY DO I STILL SEE HER IN MY DREAMS every night,
Considering the fact that i no longer ; think of her, wish to be with her again or even want to see her again .
I really need this to stop. who ever knows what might be the cause should please let me know so i can work on it .

Just get a job that brings you money..

Thank me later

Don't worry..You'll get over it with time.

maybe u are just telling urself that u aren't thinking about her, with time u will heal

Your are in detox stage it's normal
After a while u wont have the dreams again...

Do you know that when your mind is fixated on a particular thing for too long it's likely to appear in the events of dreams. I experienced same years back and I'll tell you for a fact that you'll actually feel that dreaming about her means you two are meant to be, and you may be tempted to look for her again for reconciliation but don't. With time the dreams will stop.

Write her name in a sheet of paper, pray at night wen u're about to lay ur head to God to reveal it to u if she's ur future partner, put it i the middle of ur bible (psalm precisely) if u still see her clearly.. Let me knw. Make anybody no quote me anyhow oo.

Ask Oshun to release you.

ifex370:
Just get a job that brings you money..

Thank me later

you are right.........am doing my best bro.....the hustle is real

4months is enough to get over someone.

You sure say no be jazz she use on you, this one wey you dey see her for dream .

Find another girlfriend biko.

phintohlar:
Write her name in a sheet of paper, pray at night wen u're about to lay ur head to God to reveal it to u if she's ur future partner, put it i the middle of ur bible (psalm precisely) if u still see her clearly.. Let me knw. Make anybody no quote me anyhow oo.

are you serious or kidding?

Rorachy:
4months is enough to get over someone.

You sure say no be jazz she use on you, this one wey you dey see her for dream .

Find another girlfriend biko.

i will have to upgrade b4 i do that. for now , am after the cheque and not the chic

concho:
i will have to upgrade b4 i do that. for now , am after the cheque and not the chic

If you are busy pursuing money as you claim, you won't be thinking about her, I once went through something I considered a breakup during an exam, I didnt give a flying fu*k about it but cos I was busy.

So get busy.

concho:
are you serious or kidding?

far 4rm kidding,am serious