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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 2:47pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

So it even cost more lol u see my pant na 23k 3 k change remain seff
It's not my fault o .. blame exchange rate .. one day sha naira will carry small weight
YOU AND THIS PANT.WHAT A Bleep!!!

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Habeyy(m): 2:51pm On Aug 21, 2017
GMBuhari:



Hehehehe well people are naturally critics of good thing i shared a topic with some of my friends it was about n power, several thousands of you know who condemned the program calling it a ready made cake for Hausas


One of the critics was the first person to open a thread about not receiving salaries even though it wasn't a month yet


Point is these ladies have turned slaying into olosho business, young and old but majority of them don't want to work,


I met a female student once, she learnt catering used to do cakes for environmental department in an institution she didn't have much but she was people's envy when she launched her slay queen career she was dating a Yahoo boy, that one carries her around in his muscle, shops for her this and that,


She still dated a student, that one was a bricklayer / Mason very diligent and makes average monies

. This same biatch is dating Okada boy that one too gives her money,


While the puszzy was selling she abandoned catering, contrary to what everybody thought one shopping is about 200k, an amount more than enough to open shop and establish that amount is different from pocket money from bricklayer and Okada


Eventually all three guys met at her house, fought maturely and left her she's back to square - 5 now , story spread like wild fire she can't buy flower let alone buy pants, her shop is gone, nobody wants to sponsor her, what do you think of that?
thank you my bro
Another series of story that touch
The bitter truth is, not all girls are marriage materials
If you Marry because of the fake physical beauty
You will regret it
My question
Is dia father driving a G wagon when he meet dia mother
My brother,thank God you shared my believe, we should be mindful of our comment on social platforms, some of it gives hope to the deprived and some force life out the destitute as well
As for me.. .i will never marry a slay queen.. .slay with you head and senses not with the hole between your legs
Some if not most,are as fake as refurbished Samsung Galaxy. .the outward appearances is killing and nice but the inner that matters is less than zero
Guys work hard,even God will not despise the days of little beginning
Pray for all un married bros to meet a good girl outside
Not the ones that knows not the true meaning of the word 'slay'

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Biodun1929(m): 2:52pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

Haha @ carry her load u too funny grin that must be in the village
U can't do wedding for 20k in Lagos
But I just don't understand how ppl can shag while Broke sad me I don't even smile if I don't make my daily earning let alone spread leg dey born up n down
I don't get it sha

Shuttup uglyy girl. You talk too much. Because some nairaland kids have been sending you pm and giving you attention, you are feeling like a queen. It is obvious you have low self esteem and you come here to talk down on people so you can feel good about your shitty life.

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by ApostleJoseph: 2:53pm On Aug 21, 2017
Good Money Management is the SECRET you need God Bless You....

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by vislabraye(m): 3:01pm On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
a decent and conducive House for starters is 120k for a couple o and that's just a neat and habitable self con .so op supporters respect yourself.marriage is not your priority now if you're earning 20k

That's it. 120k that depends where you live. In Abuja for instance, you will need to go far away from town (where things happen) to get such accommodation. And if you go far away from your place of work, you will spend more on transportation. You will be lucky if the company you work for provides you with free bus.

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by teelaw4life(m): 3:20pm On Aug 21, 2017
If you earn less than 35k monthly, it's best to just stay single. This is a poverty propagating thread.

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 3:27pm On Aug 21, 2017
teelaw4life:
If you earn less than 35k monthly, it's best to just stay single. This is a poverty propagating thread.

Lol @ This is a poverty propagating thread

Anyway, 60k hubby, 20k wife is good to go, it depends on both parties, but effort must be made to propagate the family's income
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Gerrard59(m): 3:29pm On Aug 21, 2017
AreaFada2:


It is not about coming from anybody.

Simple reality is many are having kids without any income at all. Hardly anything you or I can do to stop it.

Many cannot even afford condom. Because free WHO condoms end up in chemists for sale. I saw that as a kid in the chemist decades ago already. Some have no information (that you may have) on how to get free ones. Nor be today.

I while I'd not dare start a family earning below 250K monthly if I was in 9ja environment, millions of people are not going to use yours or my ideal standard as theirs. If they did, there would we far less poverty today.

Now, how many people have you been able to dissuade from having kids in poverty? shocked shocked

In 9ja, we like to sit on the high horse postulating what is ideal & lofty. Meanwhile the opposite is happening all around us. That becomes sheer hypocrisy.

The man is here giving a practical solution on how to manage, not theory.

As usual, you ooze sense.

As for the bolded, well, none so far. But I'm targeting the next set of potential mothers and fathers (they are my contemporaries). Telling them the dangers of procreating children one cannot take proper care of.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by lloydhassan(m): 3:37pm On Aug 21, 2017
20k wey no reach corper....


Naim u wan use take settle down...

Isoryt

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dantori(m): 3:39pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine Even my pant cost more grin but nice sha for ppl with low funds
LOL I want your pant

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by UBTHEGREAT(m): 3:39pm On Aug 21, 2017
Did the writer get married on a 20k salary?? I guess not. See as your brain dy busy dy calculate how man go spend 20k for 1 month. #ChaiThereIsGodooh

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 3:39pm On Aug 21, 2017
lloydhassan:
20k wey no reach corper....


Naim u wan use take settle down...

Isoryt

grin grin grin
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 3:55pm On Aug 21, 2017
dantori:


LOL I want your pant
Wetin u wan take am do o grin

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Gerrard59(m): 3:57pm On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
area fada excuse me please

There's a poor family I met in my church. A family with 8 children and the wife is a full time housewife relying on the father for everything. The man is a bike man and on a good favourable day he comes home with 2k or 2,500

I talked to him about family planning and tried dissuading him from having more kids, eventually all my talking yielded nothing. [/b]Recently his wife called me they have a son now,making 9 children all of them relying on 2k per day.[b]


When I told him about the dangers inherent in having more kids before he had the 9th that he cannot take Care of ,his response was "it's God that takes care of children"


Many of them refuse to listen that's the problem and if you keep talking about it it will look as if you're prying into their business or private lives

When he told me that he had his 9th child and 2 of his kids were sent out of school and I should give him money, I hung up the phone on him and didn't say anything. Since then after church he refuses to greet me and even me no send him again. His wife though still greets me then a Sunday she stylishly said it in a play play manner that its you and my husband that are fighting abi are you quarrelling with me too and I replied her immediately that I'm not fighting with anybody o.I only came to church to worship God and I've achieved that.odabo.na so I walked out if her immediately

Pathetic. Appalling. Ridiculous.

Same here. A man whose mason business has seen less demand and contracts decided to worsen his situation and added two kids to three = five children, who are not being fed properly, looked after well and have not started schooling (which if/when they do won't be at proper schools)

Yet another just procreated his 7th child and he relies on his "Pastoral job" to make ends stay afar (surely ends cannot meet). I advised him not to further procreate. I talk tire, offered simple solutions (use condoms, I'll pay for your vasectomy or give the children to orphanages). He did not heed to it.


A false claim people make is that "children are blessings from God". It's a false and deceiving statement. Agberos, Boko Haramites, Evans, Ritualists were "blessings" too. Children become blessings when they are well taken care ADEQUATELY taken care of.

I have left such persons to their fate and focused my fertility activism on the next generation (my contemporaries).

"Giving birth is cheap, raising them is expensive" (Gerrard59, 2016).

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 4:01pm On Aug 21, 2017
shaybebaby:

And where do you shop that a pair of knickers is 50 quid?
Try Victoria secrets ... some bras there £80
Do the maths smiley
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by natznext(m): 4:06pm On Aug 21, 2017
Will they be trekking to work? undecided
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shaybebaby(f): 4:08pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

Try Victoria secrets ... some bras there £80
Do the maths smiley
Don't need to, they do not sell 50 quid knickers. Might want to correct your previous posts. You do not spend spend such on a single pair based on your answer.

However when you do feel like splurging in that price range and above, try La Perla. wink

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 4:17pm On Aug 21, 2017
shaybebaby:

Don't need to, they do not sell 50 quid knickers. Might want to correct your previous posts. You do not spend spend such on a single pair based on your answer.

However when you do feel like splurging in that price range and above, try La Perla. wink
Lol oh yes they do ... that the only place I shop .. and I only get sets .. most set that are better quality from £50 up .. the baby dolls and chemise are more expensive .. ( try going ( invitation only) to one of the Victoria secrets shows and please see how much the runway items are ) though it's more affordable for working class

I know La Perla been to the store on Bond Street and selfridges but I don't like their style those are for certain type of ppl who have to been seen in lingerie .. or celebs .. you can get one bra £300+ lol I'm not that crazy yet
Note VS has a cheaper line for Teens (Pink) that's not the one I'm talking about .. if u wanna see the receipts pm me wink

For my one off bikinis I use here .. they also make to order and design for you http://dolcifollie.co.uk/ quality pretty good
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 4:25pm On Aug 21, 2017
shaybebaby:

Don't need to, they do not sell 50 quid knickers. Might want to correct your previous posts. You do not spend spend such on a single pair based on your answer.

However when you do feel like splurging in that price range and above, try La Perla. wink
But sorry just checking their new collection £400 for bra aunty you no kill me na .. my business just they boom give me few years I will start shopping there grin
Did you buy from there shocked

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 4:37pm On Aug 21, 2017
RaeMystix

I don't wanna spoil it for you but since you asked

bran is the beginning and end of GoT

explains a lot of things and makes it more interesting

there's also a possibility that he is also the lord of light

let's just sit down and enjoy..... but the suspense is killing me

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 4:42pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more grin but nice sha for ppl with low funds
Why are you wearing a N20,000 pant when nobody can see it?

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shaybebaby(f): 4:43pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

Lol oh yes they do ... that the only place I shop .. and I only get sets .. most set that are better quality from £50 up .. the baby dolls and chemise are more expensive .. ( try going ( invitation only) to one of the Victoria secrets shows and please see how much the runway items are ) though it's more affordable for working class

I know La Perla been to the store on Bond Street and selfridges but I don't like their style those are for certain type of ppl who have to been seen in lingerie .. or celebs .. you can get one bra £300+ lol I'm not that crazy yet
Note VS has a cheaper line for Teens (Pink) that's not the one I'm talking about .. if u wanna see the receipts pm me wink

For my one off bikinis I use here .. they also make to order and design for you http://dolcifollie.co.uk/ quality pretty good
A set, yeah with bra inclusive. A pair of knickers on its own like you asserted, nah. And no, not their teens range either.
Even bravissimo doesn't charge that much nor Freya etc.
Gossard, maybe, victoria secret, definitely not.

As for the bikinis, I do love me a decent pair however I'm quite price savvy and tend to stick to high street brands when I'm looking. Quality at a pocket friendly price so I'll have to see their prices. But thanks for the heads up.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shaybebaby(f): 4:46pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

But sorry just checking their new collection £400 for bra aunty you no kill me na .. my business just they boom give me few years I will start shopping there grin
Did you buy from there shocked
Buy from where? It's one of them places I have earmarked for when my bank balance decides to accommodate my desires. grin
But now and again, you can get a bargain(I'm using the term loosely here) from net a porter.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 4:53pm On Aug 21, 2017
shaybebaby:

Buy from where? It's one of them places I have earmarked for when my bank balance decides to accommodate my desires. grin
But now and again, you can get a bargain(I'm using the term loosely here) from net a porter.
Haha my dear no bargains o
That is above mi pay grade grin make I no bankrupt haha but they have nice things ..
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shaybebaby(f): 4:56pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

Haha my dear no bargains o
That is above mi pay grade grin make I no bankrupt haha but they have nice things ..
For now... If not their customers today, we will be in the future.
It was my sister who exposed me to them places back when naira to pound was still strong.
I take it you stay somewhere in London town, whereabouts?
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 4:58pm On Aug 21, 2017
shaybebaby:

For now... If not their customers today, we will be in the future.
It was my sister who exposed me to them places back when naira to pound was still strong.
I take it you stay somewhere in London town, whereabouts?
Amen na their I go carry my husband to buy wedding night gear wink
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shaybebaby(f): 5:05pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

Amen na their I go carry my husband to buy wedding night gear wink
Just had a look at that website, quite pricey as I imagine. 100 quid for bikini? shocked I would have to wear it all day every day for the entire holiday.
But I did see two in their sale that got my heart racing..
Please who will take me on holiday oooo?

Not 20 thousand naira holiday, pls. angry
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 5:09pm On Aug 21, 2017
shaybebaby:

Just had a look at that website, quite pricey as I imagine. 100 quid for bikini? shocked I would have to wear it all day every day for the entire holiday.
But I did see two in their sale that got my heart racing..
Please who will take me on holiday oooo?

Not 20 thousand naira holiday, pls. angry
Haha grin yes saw the sale one two it's a nice little number for hubby eyes only

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shaybebaby(f): 5:21pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

Haha grin yes saw the sale one two it's a nice little number for hubby eyes only
Hubby is going to have to free you on that one, it's meant to be shown off pool side or on the beach. Or would he have you wearing a Burkini in public? tongue
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 5:22pm On Aug 21, 2017
shaybebaby:

Hubby is going to have to free you on that one, it's meant to be shown off pool side or on the beach. Or would he have you wearing a Burkini in public? tongue
Lol will have to ask him .. o
But if it's like for swimming should be fine .. not like those Miami chics that walk on the road with it

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 5:24pm On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

Amen na their I go carry my husband to buy wedding night gear wink

Ewo... this is too much...thread easy dear
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lalas247(f): 5:25pm On Aug 21, 2017
supersystemsng:


Ewo... this is too much...thread easy dear

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