My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship - Romance

My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum › Nairaland General › Romance › My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship (1458 Views)

1 Reply (Go Down)

My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by dotcomnamename(op): 11:32am On Aug 26, 2017

I have a friend though very small lady who has decided not to have a boyfriend and go into any relationship because of past experience. I challenged her this morning that all men are not the same. I am a man and i am happily married with children and so she always say to me that she really envy me and she would like to have a boyfriend and if possible settle-down too but this will depends on what her boyfriend/fiance want. She will be 24 this October as you can see she's still young and frosh O! grin

. She's much more business oriented. She's scared of heartbreak and moreover she has been single now for a while, she is A A and she want her boyfriend to be either AA or AS. She's black and shine young lady with correct physical backside that you will roll your eyes for 2 hours grin

. Moderator pls help a friend push this to front page if you can. Thanks.

Any advice for her?

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by madridguy(m): 11:33am On Aug 26, 2017

Tell your friend I won't hurt her. Ayam looking for a girl friend. tongue

1 Like

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by akaahs(m): 11:40am On Aug 26, 2017

It seems is more of marketing her than wanting our advice to her but all the same, l'm interested, am A A too, a civil servant, God fearing, career focus, business oriented, in my early 30s. WhatsApp me on 08123303564

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by dotcomnamename(op): 11:41am On Aug 26, 2017

akaahs:
It seems is more of marketing her than wanting our advice to her but all the same, l'm interested, am A A too, a civil servant, God fearing, career focus, business oriented, in my early 30s. WhatsApp me on 08123303564

Critics, opinions, assumptions all welcome! I knew some people will assume that way! wink

but thats not a problem at all!

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Young03(m): 11:46am On Aug 26, 2017

her picture or....

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by abelprice(m): 12:04pm On Aug 26, 2017

She needs Jesus

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Fuadeiza(m): 12:08pm On Aug 26, 2017

abelprice:
She needs Jesus

:/:/:/

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:26pm On Aug 26, 2017

dotcomnamename:
I have a friend though very small lady who has decided not to have a boyfriend and go into any relationship because of past experience. I challenged her this morning that all men are not the same. I am a man and i am happily married with children and so she always say to me that she really envy me and she would like to have a boyfriend and if possible settle-down too but this will depends on what her boyfriend/fiance want. She will be 24 this October as you can see she's still young and frosh O! . She's much more business oriented. She's scared of heartbreak and moreover she has been single now for a while, she is A A and she want her boyfriend to be either AA or AS. She's black and shine young lady with correct physical backside that you will roll your eyes for 2 hours . Moderator pls help a friend push this to front page if you can. Thanks.

Any advice for her?

she has to understand that each men are different, BUT if all the men she dated cheated on her, then let her take some of the blame for ALWAYS choosing these deadbeat dudes. what is it about her that keeps being attracted to these no good brotha? what is it about her that keeps these no good brotha wanting her but not exclusively?!

running away from men is certainly NOT The solution to her problem, unless she decides to start dating women...and instead she should upgrade her damn self, and screen these dudes PROPERLY before dating them!

3 Likes 2 Shares

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Lalas247(f): 12:38pm On Aug 26, 2017

MrBrownJay1:
she has to understand that each men are different, BUT if all the men she dated cheated on her, then let her take some of the blame for ALWAYS choosing these deadbeat dudes. what is it about her that keeps being attracted to these no good brotha? what is it about her that keeps these no good brotha wanting her but not exclusively?!

running away from men is certainly NOT The solution to her problem, unless she decides to start dating women...and instead she should upgrade her damn self, and screen these dudes PROPERLY before dating them!

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Nobody: 12:43pm On Aug 26, 2017

Advertising 101.
Just say she is looking for a boyfriend, we will understand grin

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by massive1019(m): 12:44pm On Aug 26, 2017

seun should now be charging for any post in the form of advertisement......

ogaa op..pm me with her hotline, you not regret it.

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by EmyLeo(m): 12:44pm On Aug 26, 2017

it's good for her to think that way, but no matter what, she will still have to realise that she can't continue to be single for life..

#She should try and get close to some using the "friendship level" and from there she might scan the good and bad ones...

##all the best to her tho!

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by QueenSekxy(f): 12:47pm On Aug 26, 2017

picture or idontbelieve it

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Nobody: 2:53pm On Aug 26, 2017

At 24 you said she is still young?in this our modern age?..let her continue untill she reaches her expired age.she will soon cry

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Pusyiter(m): 2:59pm On Aug 26, 2017

From your assertion, I think she has to work on herself as I perceived she is soft and emotional thus men taking advantage of her. She needs to critically know and identify herself, then know want she wants in a man before jumping into the hands of any man... Men plenty, women get selling points but the problem is content packaging to attract the right customer(s).lol

1 Like 1 Share

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Nobody: 5:04pm On Aug 26, 2017

later when they get to 29 without a boyfriend they will start catching witch

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by captainbangz: 7:03pm On Aug 26, 2017

Op, don't mind madridguy, i am the right man.

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by dotcomnamename(op): 7:06pm On Aug 26, 2017

MrBrownJay1:
she has to understand that each men are different, BUT if all the men she dated cheated on her, then let her take some of the blame for ALWAYS choosing these deadbeat dudes. what is it about her that keeps being attracted to these no good brotha? what is it about her that keeps these no good brotha wanting her but not exclusively?!

running away from men is certainly NOT The solution to her problem, unless she decides to start dating women...and instead she should upgrade her damn self, and screen these dudes PROPERLY before dating them!

Thank you. kiss

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by madridguy(m): 8:24pm On Aug 26, 2017

Do you need to caste me? shocked

captainbangz:
Op, don't mind madridguy, i am the right man.

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by captainbangz: 9:18pm On Aug 26, 2017

Lol. This is ''survival of the...'' and it makes anything possible. Lol

madridguy:
Do you need to caste me?

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Nobody: 9:40pm On Aug 26, 2017

If she doesn't want 2 b engaged in a relationship 4 nw,let her tk her tym wts d guarantee dat u scouting a bf 4 her,he won't break her heart.that she's single nw does nt min she won't b engaged lata.my opinion thou.

Re: My Friend Is Scared Of Having a Boyfriend And Going Into Relationship by Chidonc(m): 10:50pm On Aug 26, 2017

dotcomnamename:
I have a friend though very small lady who has decided not to have a boyfriend and go into any relationship because of past experience. I challenged her this morning that all men are not the same. I am a man and i am happily married with children and so she always say to me that she really envy me and she would like to have a boyfriend and if possible settle-down too but this will depends on what her boyfriend/fiance want. She will be 24 this October as you can see she's still young and frosh O! . She's much more business oriented. She's scared of heartbreak and moreover she has been single now for a while, she is A A and she want her boyfriend to be either AA or AS. She's black and shine young lady with correct physical backside that you will roll your eyes for 2 hours . Moderator pls help a friend push this to front page if you can. Thanks.

Any advice for her?

tell her these, untill she learns to love unconditionally, she will always be scared of hrtbrk, we have all been there before. you only gather the pieces and move on.

1 Reply

Valentine: "See What I Got For My Faraway Soldier Boyfriend And I" • Hilarious Memes About The Girl That Proposed To Her Boyfriend And Got Rejected • 13 Signs Your Life Is Centered Around Your Boyfriend And It Is Sickening • 2 • 3 • 4

A Disgrace To Yahoo Nation • . • Help: I Don't Have A Problem Watching Porn But With Romance Sex Scenes In Movies