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it is with great depression and sadness that i am typing this right now..

my emotion is being strangled by lonliness before my very eyes. my story is one you would wonder what the problem is

i graduate from university early this year with hopes to live a fun filled and restful life after the bustle of 4 years of jacking and toiling my brains.

but reverse is the case. i had been single for years without a girl to love to be loved. even all through my university days no gf. the girl i started dating few months ago was as good as being single. i broke up with her and my journey of searching continues.

sometimes i count the traits i dont have and discover im a complete guy; handsome, graduate, young, working class.

im always unlucky with the kind of females that flock around me as they either are not beautiful or are just total flirts and this pricks me as im a very jealous type.

every morning i go to office with sadness all over my face cus nobody would send me a morning text or call me till 4:00pm when i close while my colleague speaks to tons of girls distracting him even while working.

approaching girls is an issue to me cause i always find a reason why they are not good for me or why they are above my class.

suicide? not that i havent had the thought before but i dey mad? kill myself because of wetin? its just to express how sad and depressed i really am.

facebook and nairaland has become my everyday pal cus i spend almost all day online chating with nobody...

pls i need someone to speak sense into me, im loosing my mind

Cc: mynd44
Cc: Lalasticlala

1. You're jealous and quick to judge/condemn
2. Suffering from low self-esteem
3. You're an introvert
4. Try working on your mindset and see how things will turnaround.

Cheers

Hmmmm

phpfx:
it is with great depression and sadness that i am typing this right now..

my emotion is being strangled by lonliness before my very eyes. my story is one you would wonder what the problem is

i graduate from university early this year with hopes to live a fun filled and restful life after the bustle of 4 years of jacking and toiling my brains.

but reverse is the case. i had been single for years without a girl to love to be loved. even all through my university days no gf. the girl i started dating few months ago was as good as being single. i broke up with her and my journey of searching continues.

sometimes i count the traits i dont have and discover im a complete guy; handsome, graduate, young, working class.

im always unlucky with the kind of females that flock around me as they either are not beautiful or are just total flirts and this pricks me as im a very jealous type.

every morning i go to office with sadness all over my face cus nobody would send me a morning text or call me till 4:00pm when i close while my colleague speaks to tons of girls distracting him even while working.

approaching girls is an issue to me cause i always find a reason why they are not good for me or why they are above my class.

suicide? not that i havent had the thought before but i dey mad? kill myself because of wetin? its just to express how sad and depressed i really am.

facebook and nairaland has become my everyday pal cus i spend almost all day online chating with nobody...

pls i need someone to speak sense into me, im loosing my mind

Cc: mynd44
Cc: Lalasticlala

ok

smartty68:
1. You're jealous and quick to judge/condemn
2. Suffering from low self-esteem
3. You're an introvert
4. Try working on your mindset and see how things will turnaround.

Cheers

you are right bro...

i have tried to severally...but the issues is i am not the kinda guy who listens to motivational audio or read the books

i just feel maybe thats how my fate is...and its killing my peace of mind

I am kindaa girl rwho believes so much in quotes.
If you stick to the past, you move forward.

Happiness is meant for everybody only if you let go f your pains.

Depression kills but you can kill it by letting go f ur pains.

Her breaking up with you is a blessing cuz it gives u the chance to find someone better.

If you let go, you feel free with no regrets, it will be the best thing you have ever done.

phpfx:
it is with great depression and sadness that i am typing this right now..

my emotion is being strangled by lonliness before my very eyes. my story is one you would wonder what the problem is

i graduate from university early this year with hopes to live a fun filled and restful life after the bustle of 4 years of jacking and toiling my brains.

but reverse is the case. i had been single for years without a girl to love to be loved. even all through my university days no gf. the girl i started dating few months ago was as good as being single. i broke up with her and my journey of searching continues.

sometimes i count the traits i dont have and discover im a complete guy; handsome, graduate, young, working class.

im always unlucky with the kind of females that flock around me as they either are not beautiful or are just total flirts and this pricks me as im a very jealous type.

every morning i go to office with sadness all over my face cus nobody would send me a morning text or call me till 4:00pm when i close while my colleague speaks to tons of girls distracting him even while working.

approaching girls is an issue to me cause i always find a reason why they are not good for me or why they are above my class.

suicide? not that i havent had the thought before but i dey mad? kill myself because of wetin? its just to express how sad and depressed i really am.

facebook and nairaland has become my everyday pal cus i spend almost all day online chating with nobody...

pls i need someone to speak sense into me, im loosing my mind

Cc: mynd44
Cc: Lalasticlala

You choose to be lonely.

stop watching porn.
stop fapping.
start exercising really hard.
your hormones will take care of you.

Go and rent an apartment closer to a brothel

phpfx:
it is with great depression and sadness that i am typing this right now..

my emotion is being strangled by lonliness before my very eyes. my story is one you would wonder what the problem is

i graduate from university early this year with hopes to live a fun filled and restful life after the bustle of 4 years of jacking and toiling my brains.

but reverse is the case. i had been single for years without a girl to love to be loved. even all through my university days no gf. the girl i started dating few months ago was as good as being single. i broke up with her and my journey of searching continues.

sometimes i count the traits i dont have and discover im a complete guy; handsome, graduate, young, working class.

im always unlucky with the kind of females that flock around me as they either are not beautiful or are just total flirts and this pricks me as im a very jealous type.

every morning i go to office with sadness all over my face cus nobody would send me a morning text or call me till 4:00pm when i close while my colleague speaks to tons of girls distracting him even while working.

approaching girls is an issue to me cause i always find a reason why they are not good for me or why they are above my class.

suicide? not that i havent had the thought before but i dey mad? kill myself because of wetin? its just to express how sad and depressed i really am.

facebook and nairaland has become my everyday pal cus i spend almost all day online chating with nobody...

pls i need someone to speak sense into me, im loosing my mind

Cc: mynd44
Cc: Lalasticlala

Chai, I feel this bro. You need to go out more, and please focus on earning more money. Being single and getting is the best. A lot of girls will chase you.

The solution to your problem lies within you.
You're not loved 'cause you don't want to be loved and you're lonely 'cause you chose to.

There are people who stay without a relationship but found fulfilment in themselves 'till it came. BTW, you fall in love naturally so stop being picky like you're perfect.

The problem lies with you...
If you're not happy when single then there will be problem in your relationship...
You just need a relationship to cure your boredom, not because you necessarily needs it..
Create your own happiness, learn to be happy with yourself,go out, just find happiness first then you can now think of sharing it with somebody...

Don't date because you're lonely but because you're ready.

You don't need someone in your life to be happy.
Happiness comes from within.
But anyway go out there and ask a lady out.

I All U Need Is 2 Kill Your Ego And Start Making Friend With Both Genders!!!u will feel alive again among new set of ppl and maybe u can even found ur MRS RIGHT


#dnt get it wrong dnt jump into relationship because of loneliness

phpfx:
it is with great depression and sadness that i am typing this right now..

my emotion is being strangled by lonliness before my very eyes. my story is one you would wonder what the problem is

i graduate from university early this year with hopes to live a fun filled and restful life after the bustle of 4 years of jacking and toiling my brains.

but reverse is the case. i had been single for years without a girl to love to be loved. even all through my university days no gf. the girl i started dating few months ago was as good as being single. i broke up with her and my journey of searching continues.

sometimes i count the traits i dont have and discover im a complete guy; handsome, graduate, young, working class.

im always unlucky with the kind of females that flock around me as they either are not beautiful or are just total flirts and this pricks me as im a very jealous type.

every morning i go to office with sadness all over my face cus nobody would send me a morning text or call me till 4:00pm when i close while my colleague speaks to tons of girls distracting him even while working.

approaching girls is an issue to me cause i always find a reason why they are not good for me or why they are above my class.

suicide? not that i havent had the thought before but i dey mad? kill myself because of wetin? its just to express how sad and depressed i really am.

facebook and nairaland has become my everyday pal cus i spend almost all day online chating with nobody...

pls i need someone to speak sense into me, im loosing my mind

Cc: mynd44
Cc: Lalasticlala

Oya Pm me I can help you

Hey man,your post revolves around needing a female folk...judging from that,you're not depressed but only having a low self esteem.

go out and make friends (know the kind of friends you would want)...

phpfx:
it is with great depression and sadness that i am typing this right now..

my emotion is being strangled by lonliness before my very eyes. my story is one you would wonder what the problem is

i graduate from university early this year with hopes to live a fun filled and restful life after the bustle of 4 years of jacking and toiling my brains.

but reverse is the case. i had been single for years without a girl to love to be loved. even all through my university days no gf. the girl i started dating few months ago was as good as being single. i broke up with her and my journey of searching continues.

sometimes i count the traits i dont have and discover im a complete guy; handsome, graduate, young, working class.

im always unlucky with the kind of females that flock around me as they either are not beautiful or are just total flirts and this pricks me as im a very jealous type.

every morning i go to office with sadness all over my face cus nobody would send me a morning text or call me till 4:00pm when i close while my colleague speaks to tons of girls distracting him even while working.

approaching girls is an issue to me cause i always find a reason why they are not good for me or why they are above my class.

suicide? not that i havent had the thought before but i dey mad? kill myself because of wetin? its just to express how sad and depressed i really am.

facebook and nairaland has become my everyday pal cus i spend almost all day online chating with nobody...

pls i need someone to speak sense into me, im loosing my mind

Cc: mynd44
Cc: Lalasticlala

Drop me your whatsapp number so I can send you some hypnosis tape I bought years back. Stuff works like shit.

Dear OP, I THINK YOU ARE OVERREACTING. Slow than joo

Crystie:
I am kindaa girl rwho believes so much in quotes.
If you stick to the past, you move forward.

Happiness is meant for everybody only if you let go f your pains.

Depression kills but you can kill it by letting go f ur pains.

Her breaking up with you is a blessing cuz it gives u the chance to find someone better.

If you let go, you feel free with no regrets, it will be the best thing you have ever done.

thanks for the advice.,.i appreciate

divinehand2003:
Dear OP, I THINK YOU ARE OVERREACTING. Slow than joo

this thing bothers me...i need to over react

blacq2009:
Drop me your whatsapp number so I can send you some hypnosis tape I bought years back. Stuff works like shit.

ive sent you a pm bro

agbonkamen:
Oya Pm me I can help you

ok just sent it..thanks

rebirthforgoody:
You choose to be lonely.

,,
how?

You will just die for nothing ,,shin depression and loneliness

Go to social gathering like church mall clubs and exciting places talk to a girl u like nurture d moment catch fun ask her few questions if you don't take the move d move will take u DAT what you are into

Feeling depressed cus of woman; chai.
You even hav a job!
Omo u hav no reason to be depressed.
Learn to take urself out.after work or weekend go hangout somewhere.
At som point slay queens wil gather ontop ur matter; no worry shey u hear.

No girl is ugly.... Just find yourself a caring woman stop searching for a slay queen

Op I think u re d problem of urself u re after beautiful gals wc u too talk about dat dos Wu cum ur way re nt beautiful gals maybe d way u use to talk to dos dat cum ur way show dem dat u dnt want dem as future wife

Mr from your post its obvious you're too picky, over jealous, always finding a reason they are not good for you, they are above your class. I think you are waiting for the perfect woman.... News flash.. There isn't a perfect woman out there. So do the needful and let us hear word.

.

Divay22:
The problem lies with you...
If you're not happy when single then there will be problem in your relationship...
You just need a relationship to cure your boredom, not because you necessarily needs it..
Create your own happiness, learn to be happy with yourself,go out, just find happiness first then you can now think of sharing it with somebody...

Don't date because you're lonely but because you're ready.

on point...very true,..but i just cant help it

Chiboi404:
You will just die for nothing ,,shin depression and loneliness

Go to social gathering like church mall clubs and exciting places talk to a girl u like nurture d moment catch fun ask her few questions if you don't take the move d move will take u DAT what you are into

hmmmm.....

bold44:
Feeling depressed cus of woman; chai.
You even hav a job!
Omo u hav no reason to be depressed.
Learn to take urself out.after work or weekend go hangout somewhere.
At som point slay queens wil gather ontop ur matter; no worry shey u hear.

thanks man.i think i'll try this one out