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Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. And must share to all friends who have children's.

samebony1:
This is probably the most educative and socially relevant post I am coming across on NL.
It should be all means possible make front page

i just hope it does

@number 2 .how abt families that stays in a room apartment,in as much as privacy is good,but there are families that can't afford bigger apartments.they can't be asking their 3,4,5 or 6 yrs old to leave d room all d time.nice post btw.

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Nice.

Nice post

True taik

Good one, so on point

Nice post

Nice post but I feel like I've read this list of things before from elsewhere

Modified, this list is all over the net
It was even posted as far back as 2012 on nairaland,

Op quote your source

Parents have to be more closer to their children now more than ever. The world gets corrupt as the day goes by...

Great article

Good

Woow. Nice piece

Add " Avoid Nairaland" to that list

samebony1:
This is probably the most educative and socially relevant post I am coming across on NL.
It should be all means possible make front page

..seconded.

Perfecto y excelente!!!

especially the girl child.
perverts everywhere.
marry a very disciplined woman. well brought up. those kind of women usually have eagle eyes. they call them helicopter moms. they always know where and what their kids are doing at every giving time.

Number 5 is actually very important, if a child suddenly “switches” and is no longer comfortable going to visit someone then something might have gone wrong.

Generally when dealing with kids it’s good to pay attention to the little things.

Good job

Nice post.
The world is getting sicker by the day.
Na only God fit protect our kids oo.

Well, about the sitting on laps, it depends on the kind of man oo

Well spoken

Good .

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Parents need to learn to be their kids friends

parents need to learn to talk to their kids with judgement or force

parents need to bond with their kids


Above all Never ever make your kids scared of you

True that....

This world is no longer as sane as it should be...