IamKashyBaby:


We ladies are indecisive sha...

And most of the times we talk to ourselves to discuss whether or whether not were going on a date

pocohantas:


It's just not okay to be the best in maths, but to know how fallacious some statistics could be. Especially when speaking for such number of women.

So, I ask again..you mean every 8 out of 10 women [comprising billions of women] do not know what they want in a partner?

Or are you men ignorant of the fact that you could like a man but certain circumstances won't make it favourable in the long run.
...as a lady grows older, it's also normal she desires less superficial trait in a man. She seeks more of stability and commitment, not good looks.

Lalas247:


Lol what are u typing seff

So you like a girl u give her your number
But maybe u find out she got a dude living with her .. so u will still be trying ur luck Are you not confused

I said any sign of foolery!!! If there is no foolery we ride on
So what is contradicting about that .. look look if u the type to meet a girl and when she starts cheating or demanding money or whatever foolery u guys don't like .. will u stay there ?? The and to that and your comment



. it's like saying getting a divorce is a contradiction of marriage

OrdercityWeb:

Lol! You're a funny person you just keep contradicting yourself.
You're the one who is confused here, for giving him your number when you fully know his intentions and you know you have someone else.
You're not talking to a teenager here so try and sound more coherent.
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Besides. Yes divorce is a contradiction of marriage. Because you took vows and oath to be together "forever"
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I just saw your mention that's y this is coming late next time please be more coherent.

IamKashyBaby:





If i know the person, then i do such drama sha..but if i dont know him...i will have my "me time' first and talk to my inner self

Joel3:
what really attracted you to a Nigerian indigenous discussion forum??

I came here for pidgin English, Sir..

OrdercityWeb:

[s]Story its still confusion. Don't turn it to a Men vs Women thing now .
Anyways.....
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Confuion as defined by Google search engine dictionary (www.google.com/whatisconfusion)

"the state of being bewildered or unclear in one's mind about something.
"she looked about her in confusion"

synonyms:bewilderment, bafflement, perplexity, puzzlement, mystification, stupefaction, disorientation, befuddlement, muddle; More
discomfiture, discomposure, shock, daze, devastation;
wonder, wonderment, astonishment;
informalbamboozlement, discombobulation;
raredisconcertment, disconcertion
"she looked about her in confusion"
the mistaking of one person or thing for another.
"there is some confusion between ‘unlawful’ and ‘illegal’"
[/s]

IamKashyBaby:



I came here for pidgin English, Sir..

Joel3:
lol. i don't think so. you can't learnt it here like that without hearing it from speaker's. outside of that it look like you are enjoying your stay. because you are on here 24/7. are you dating a Nigeria or planning to?

You are right...i enjoyed NL so much..its a stress reliever for real.

I learned some basic pidgin..i can understand some of it but i am not confident enough to response in pidgin

OrdercityWeb:

I tell you bro. I once told a lady we should hangout. Then she told me she'll tell me "when she's free".
She actually meant NO, which took me some time to figure, but i mean why not just say NO and save you and I the stress of calling, chatting, hoping and all.
Why not just say NO, I'm not interested so that i can carry my kaya to another lady's life.

O su'n mi oo

pocohantas:


[s]Trash...quit your delusion of persecution, I haven't even mentioned men here. But if at all I say more than 80% of men are sex starved, I am sure you'll wanna know how I arrived at that statistics. That's logic, not gender war. Wake up... [/s]

IamZod:
baba d tin nor tire u. I believe its their nature. Its said that women think more like in lines of grids. That's why a lady can wake up in the morning and decide to pursue several projects at once. And might at d end of d day end up confused. Unlike men who would always have one focus and just set to achieve it. Nevertheless, its their nature and that's what makes dem women and offcourse adorable.

OrdercityWeb:

Don't flatter yourself. "Delusion of persecution"? Lol
I should be saying that to you. And point of correction you mentioned "you men". So deal with that?
Lol you're just being confrontational and you have successfully derailed from the point.
I guess you should re-read my comment then read yours. Then ask yourself if you're not having a mood-swing as a result of...................
The point remains stop trying to deviate by creating excuses for the "confusion" and indecison of most women especially young ladies.
So maybe when you're okay you can reply. You don't sound coherent at all.

Have you noticed the men slay queens of yesterday get married to is always far from the guys they wanted (in terms of looks)?

as a lady grows older, it's also normal she desires less superficial trait in a man. She seeks more of stability and commitment, not good looks.

Dillusionist:
guys are the confused being here;

1)he will tell you to maintain your slim nature that he loves you slim,but he will still cheat on you with a fat lady

2)he will tell you that he got attracted to you because of your fair colour but still cheat on you if he sees a dark skinned lady.


3)they will say that they love it when there woman is outspoken but still feel intimidated about it and complain that you are becoming disrespectful

4)they say they love well behaved women but can't stop cheating with the wild ones..
so many errors being committed by the male folks but later they will open their mouth to bash ladies...
only few of them (2%)know what they want..and it's not making sense atall

supersystemsng:



ROFL...
I'll report you to your bf...
no be me and you get discussion...

Dillusionist:

lol..I just spoke the bitter truth.

pocohantas:



This was my answer. If you call that excuses/deviation, then you're the one that should put your emotions in check.

I can understand if it's not what you wanna read, but quit the delusion of persecution and emotional blackmail. My thoughts doesn't always have to align with yours. There are a 1001 reasons ladies act the way they do. That it isn't the reason you wanna hear doesn't make it excuses or deviation. Okay?

OrdercityWeb:
We hear this countless times, that ladies really don't know what they want. How true is this?
It's got me really thinking and I've been making some observations.
Have you noticed the men slay queens of yesterday get married to is always far from the guys they wanted (in terms of looks)?
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Okay look at a few scenarios:
Ladies: I want a man good in bed and God-fearing

Is it possible for a man to be good in bed and be God-fearing at the sametime? I mean isn't it with practice and experience you become good in bed?

Another scenario:
Guy: Will you like to go out this afternoon?
Lady: No
Guy: What about nextweek?
**the lady is obviously not interested but rather than say "I'm not interested " she says**
Lady: I'll be having headache nextweek.

Another scenario:
Guy: Will you like to go out with me?
Lady: No
Guy: Okay
**lady is obviously interested but well maybe she's confused**
**Later on**
Lady to Guy: You're not persistent, don't you know our NO means YES.
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I mean does one have to become a detective or THE MENTALIST to decode what ladies truly mean?
Why is it hard for ladies to answer questions directly and honestly?
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Guys share your experience.
Ladies why do you do this, do you guys know what you want?

Dillusionist:

didn't waste my time reading all these shiit..cos you all are damn hypocrites

Dillusionist:

didn't waste my time reading all these shiit..cos you all are damn hypocrites

OrdercityWeb:

Huh??

Dillusionist:

yes I said that!!

OrdercityWeb:

Can i share something with you?
There is something i have grown to observe in interacting with humans, when someone becomes so confrontational and vicious when presented with facts that unveil a 'weak' part of him/her. It is most likely they are hurt by the fact.
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And most times they leave the issue and fail to address or prove these facts wrong but become defensive and furious.

Isaacmacdon:
I had to come down from my tree to relay my opinion on this issue.
First of all, women are indecisive, and it is a result of their emotional nature. Will is the organ of decision. Mind is the organ of thought, while emotion is the organ of affection....

Looking at it critically, a woman is highly skeptical about anything and everything... When you say women don't know what they want, it's just the tip of a very vast emotional world. When it comes to making decisions, women are likely to be very serious when making one. Besides, before a woman would have made a decision concerning anything, she must have had enough reasons to go with that particular decision, but the onus lies on the flawed nature of humanity in general..... Everyone makes bad decisions....


Back to what you said @O.p, Women are emotional beings. We've seen situations where a lady is dating two guys at the same time, it could be that both guys are having separate attributes that she'd have preferred in one guy, but she doesn't know how to go about it. Men in general, needs to be more apt and attentive to a woman. Some of us have sisters that confides in us about their fears, and this goes to show us more about the nature of women... You can't really say that they don't know what they want. It could be that they've decided to play the cautious card, as a result of past experience or so.

Lalas247: Hey buddy...

Lalas247:

Hey stranger u came down from that tree today

Any only like the bolder part

OrdercityWeb:

Can i share something with you?
There is something i have grown to observe in interacting with humans, when someone becomes so confrontational and vicious when presented with facts that unveil a 'weak' part of him/her. It is most likely they are hurt by the fact.
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And most times they leave the issue and fail to address or prove these facts wrong but become defensive and furious.

Dillusionist:

yes I said that!!you created a meaningless thread to bash ladies when you have a big stone yet to be removed in your eyes..I won't take you serious [/b]cos you are still [b]wallowing in delusions. .better wake up

OrdercityWeb:

Lol. Aren't you just funny?
Whatever you call it; "1001 reasons blabla"
Its still a symptom of indecision.
Besides that was not the only point of the post. As the other scenarios provided painted other narratives to the post.
So don't make it look as if i picked on your comment. Get the full context.
Thanks!
And maybe bye!

Lalas247:


Guys do not know what they want either

Trust me every lady knows what she wants .. they choose to disclosed or not
From when u say hi .. uve already been put in a zonal region .

It's like a guy harassing u for number
U give him number .. he flash u U call back he doesn't pick like wtf u dey ok sha complicated things

Please guys are in the same level ...... it's everyday they creating topic saying I love her but she takes my money but I love
MDF what do u want dump or move on nonsense mtcheew

so it's 50 -50 lately swaying to 60-40

agrovick:


@the bold
not true right, Exaggeration?