Marcus01:
there is no subordinate anywhere bro. We are all the same. Cus I'm sure it wouldn't sound good if I should call guys subordinate too. We all need ourselves. A married man and woman are partners. Equal ♒

It's people like you who cause imbalance in this world. I won't reply you again.

braine:



It's people like you who cause imbalance in this world. I won't reply you again.

I'm sure you've learnt one or two things. Take care bro

Social media has done more harm than good in marriages...married couple should minimize the way they use social media...that's my own opinion

ENDTIMEgist:
Space Book on Nairaland is another cause of break up in marriages.
Speaking from experience.

You don't mean it?

Funny enough, there are people in the village who don't have access to marriage counselors yet they have everlasting marriage.

Marriage is a mystery. There's no handout or past questions for it

happney65:


Chimamanda is married..Her husband's name is Ivara Esege.

OK, I never knew she is married cos she is a strong feminist.

majekdom2:
Self discovery will remain the best discovery of man kind. Like socrate the philosopher said, man know thyself. Many people are yet to discover themselves thus they don't know what they want. They follow the society and what seems to be working for others, when they get there, they see disappointments, failures that lead to resentment. Many people marry for their selfish reasons. The only marriage that work is that which both parties see each other as complements and not liabilitie or escape from one situation. When you see your partner as that one person that will help you in realising destiny, you will be able to put every other distraction under you with God's Grace. Many marry because they obsessed to some features their supposed partner posses, these features themselves were not created to last forever.
Life is a race that bends, turns, squeeze and possibly exhausts one. Therefore, it require a lot of patience, tenacity, perseverance, foresight to run through. This is lacking in today's society. It is no competition as there is no winner. Sadly, some spouses see themselves as competition. Many have limited knowledge on the subject matter too thus you see more ego. There are a whole lot of issues it takes only 2 parties that are out to make other humans a better people that actually enjoy their marriage. Check around, you will see that most millionaires that are known names in charity have successful marriages.

Nice...

Sniper12:
pple like dis?

a few out of millions does not negate a fact! Not everyone that claims to follow God are actual followers. My posts refer to individuals that are truthful about their followership. We are created man and woman and each have their priorities. Key thing is understanding reason for one's existence.

All grace

IamEmem:


OK, I never knew she is married cos she is a strong feminist.

exactly. That's to show you that broken marriage doesn't have anything to do with feminism

One major problem in our marriages this days is infidelity. Cheating is the order of the day in marriages. I am a feminist but am happily married. But if for any reason I discovered that am being cheated, I see it as " breaking of marriage vows" there is no sanctity in that marriage anymore. Once a woman noticed she is being cheated, if she decided to keep her marriage because of her kids, note that, the hubby will and can never get that humility again from her. Talking about olden days marriages that lasted, it lasted because our mothers then endured because they had no choice and many of them died out of depression from their husbands. I will train my female children very well so that in situations where the useless men of nowadays tried to enslave them in the name of marriage, they wouldn't hesitate to kick their ass out of their hearts. THERe is no reason to cheat or treat someone like a slave, be it, wife, hubby, house help, kids etc. We all are equal befor God the creator.

needful:
One major problem in our marriages this days is infidelity. Cheating is the order of the day in marriages. I am a feminist but am happily married. But if for any reason I discovered that am being cheated, I see it as " breaking of marriage vows" there is no sanctity in that marriage anymore. Once a woman noticed she is being cheated, if she decided to keep her marriage because of her kids, note that, the hubby will and can never get that humility again from her. Talking about olden days marriages that lasted, it lasted because our mothers then endured because they had no choice and many of them died out of depression from their husbands. I will train my female children very well so that in situations where the useless men of nowadays tried to enslave them in the name of marriage, they wouldn't hesitate to kick their ass out of their hearts. THERe is no reason to cheat or treat someone like a slave, be it, wife, hubby, house help, kids etc. We all are equal befor God the creator.

Are you already anticipating broken home for your children?


Your kids won't encounter such my dear, if you are happily married so would your children, evil existed before the foundation of the world, and so, who says unfaithful men started nowadays??


There is nothing new under the sun. It's has been. I believe you should think again...